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CradleNConvert
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Hello,
My family situation is extremely simple and extremely complicated at the same time. I fled an abusive marriage, but he still uses the system and the kids to try to ruin my life. The kids suffer the most obviously, but he doesn’t care as long as it’s effectively making me suffer. It is extremely difficult to get anyone to believe me, especially the children’s counselor right now, because he is extremely charming. I fought a long hard legal battle to even get the kids into counseling and he is now charming her and trying to use her against me too. She is their only voice in the legal system. I live with the constant guilt of having brought children into a situation so ridiculously, unnecessarily, unfair to them, with no way of protecting them from it no matter how much money, time, or energy I spend trying. My whole life is a prayer for them and I offer all my suffering up for them, but even that doesn’t seem to be working. I know that God sometimes keeps us in a bad situation to help us grow, but with how their behavior is deteriorating due to all this lately and how I can barely keep my head above water anymore at this point, I just can’t see how God can be using this to anyone’s benefit anymore. Please storm heaven for the kids and for me to be freed of this situation once and for all so we can all begin to heal. Thank you
My family situation is extremely simple and extremely complicated at the same time. I fled an abusive marriage, but he still uses the system and the kids to try to ruin my life. The kids suffer the most obviously, but he doesn’t care as long as it’s effectively making me suffer. It is extremely difficult to get anyone to believe me, especially the children’s counselor right now, because he is extremely charming. I fought a long hard legal battle to even get the kids into counseling and he is now charming her and trying to use her against me too. She is their only voice in the legal system. I live with the constant guilt of having brought children into a situation so ridiculously, unnecessarily, unfair to them, with no way of protecting them from it no matter how much money, time, or energy I spend trying. My whole life is a prayer for them and I offer all my suffering up for them, but even that doesn’t seem to be working. I know that God sometimes keeps us in a bad situation to help us grow, but with how their behavior is deteriorating due to all this lately and how I can barely keep my head above water anymore at this point, I just can’t see how God can be using this to anyone’s benefit anymore. Please storm heaven for the kids and for me to be freed of this situation once and for all so we can all begin to heal. Thank you