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Good day to you all. I humbly ask that you pray for my friends
I have a close circle of friends; we all grew up together in a Catholic school since elementary. It baffles me that, despite what weāve been taught, they still chose to go on paths that are considered sinful. Iām so frightened for them. Iāve expressed my concern and tried to understand where theyāre coming from⦠but, really, all I can do is pray for them.
You can skip the next couple of paragraphs if you want; it just provides brief summaries of what their story is. If you can provide advice for each of them, it would be greatly appreciated!
Friend A (Catholic): Weāve been friends since the third grade. Currently, sheās engaged in a lesbian relationship for a year or so now. Her parents have tried to stop her and this has caused a somewhat falling out. Now she carries the relationship in secret. Her reasons for doing this is because she believes that God lets her do so ā to be happy.
Friend B (Catholic): Weāve been friends since the fourth grade. She isnāt exactly sinful⦠just hasnāt attended mass a lot lately, saying sheās busy and tired from college. But she has a very gray view on right and wrong. Sheāll reprimand our non-single friends, saying that they could get pregnant but be ok with our lesbian friend since she canāt possibly get pregnant. She thinks that lesbian relationships must be great since you can experience intimacy but not risk pregnancy. She also questions a lot of the Catholic traditions.
Friend C (Protestant): Weāve been friends since the fifth grade. Iām not saying sheās wrong or anything, seeing as sheās non-Catholic. But she has very mean views on Catholicism and never fails to pick at me whenever I cross myself or say the Rosary. I respect her and her beliefs⦠I just wish sheād respect mine too.
Friend D (Catholic): Weāve been friends since the sixth grade. Sheās been wayward for a long time now, expressing immodesty i.e. she greets us by groping our breasts. Sheās clinically depressed. She is quite lost in college (changed majors often) and has been partying and drinking too much. Sheās also rather fond of yaoi, which from my understanding is male gay porn.
Friend E (Catholic): Weāve been friends since the sixth grade. She has a boyfriend and theyāve been dating for a year now⦠but have covered quite a lot of ground in one year. They havenāt had sex (from what I know) but it looks like itās leading up to that.
Friend F (Protestant): Weāve been friends since the 10th grade. She doesnāt have a boyfriend right now⦠but sheās been kissing a boy. From what I know, theyāve already āgrinded,ā which is a dance move where a girl presses her behind firmly on a guyās groin area. I saw them together once and they seem very physical. Her friend has moved much faster than her though and may be feeding some ideas that itās ok. Friend Fās friend french kissed a guy she met two days ago.
Iām really worried for my friends⦠Itās not like Iām any less sinful than they are; Iām not trying to be self-righteous. Thatās why Iām asking for prayers for them. Please, please pray for my friendsā¦
You can skip the next couple of paragraphs if you want; it just provides brief summaries of what their story is. If you can provide advice for each of them, it would be greatly appreciated!
Friend A (Catholic): Weāve been friends since the third grade. Currently, sheās engaged in a lesbian relationship for a year or so now. Her parents have tried to stop her and this has caused a somewhat falling out. Now she carries the relationship in secret. Her reasons for doing this is because she believes that God lets her do so ā to be happy.
Friend B (Catholic): Weāve been friends since the fourth grade. She isnāt exactly sinful⦠just hasnāt attended mass a lot lately, saying sheās busy and tired from college. But she has a very gray view on right and wrong. Sheāll reprimand our non-single friends, saying that they could get pregnant but be ok with our lesbian friend since she canāt possibly get pregnant. She thinks that lesbian relationships must be great since you can experience intimacy but not risk pregnancy. She also questions a lot of the Catholic traditions.
Friend C (Protestant): Weāve been friends since the fifth grade. Iām not saying sheās wrong or anything, seeing as sheās non-Catholic. But she has very mean views on Catholicism and never fails to pick at me whenever I cross myself or say the Rosary. I respect her and her beliefs⦠I just wish sheād respect mine too.
Friend D (Catholic): Weāve been friends since the sixth grade. Sheās been wayward for a long time now, expressing immodesty i.e. she greets us by groping our breasts. Sheās clinically depressed. She is quite lost in college (changed majors often) and has been partying and drinking too much. Sheās also rather fond of yaoi, which from my understanding is male gay porn.
Friend E (Catholic): Weāve been friends since the sixth grade. She has a boyfriend and theyāve been dating for a year now⦠but have covered quite a lot of ground in one year. They havenāt had sex (from what I know) but it looks like itās leading up to that.
Friend F (Protestant): Weāve been friends since the 10th grade. She doesnāt have a boyfriend right now⦠but sheās been kissing a boy. From what I know, theyāve already āgrinded,ā which is a dance move where a girl presses her behind firmly on a guyās groin area. I saw them together once and they seem very physical. Her friend has moved much faster than her though and may be feeding some ideas that itās ok. Friend Fās friend french kissed a guy she met two days ago.
Iām really worried for my friends⦠Itās not like Iām any less sinful than they are; Iām not trying to be self-righteous. Thatās why Iām asking for prayers for them. Please, please pray for my friendsā¦