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greeny93
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Mam, I really am sorry that you are upset about your son being gay, but I should not be apologizing, for it was not his choice or anyone else’s choice. If he really is gay, he was gay at birth and there is absolutely nothing you can do for him. Conversion therapy is not going to work and praying is definitely not going to fix things. People who say they used to be gay are in fact, still gay, but are lying to themselves. It is literally impossible to change your sexual orientation. Maybe he might be bisexual, but if he has no attraction to girls whatsoever, then maybe he really is gay. Comfort him and tell him that things will be fine. Tell him to forget the bullies; they were all wrong. There is nothing wrong with being gay. Absolutely nothing. He is not superior to anyone else, or inferior to anyone else. He is just like everyone else. Praying for him like there is something wrong with him just makes it worse. It will make him feel like he is diseased or possessed by a demon. It really is unncessary. Watch the movie Prayers For Bobby. It is based on a true story and I promise you that you will cherish it. One day your son will become a spectacular boyfriend, fiance, and possibly even husband to another loving man who will do the same. He could adopt children or hire a surrogate mother to have his and his husband’s child(ren). I know this all sounds shocking and probably offensive right now, but the sooner that you accept the fact that your son was born gay, the better. And that is certainly a promise. If you need anything else, please message me.