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I reported in another prayer request that in the beginning I may have set out to use my husband, and that I felt guilty and ashamed about that and other behavior pertaining to that time, 20 years ago. It is also true that he turned around and used me, getting me pregnant deliberately (he took advantage of a “spell” such as I had then to get me to start having sex with him when I was just in the process of deciding not to do that) and then married me for the work permit (as he had already failed at 5 jobs and couldn’t get another special visa–he is Canadian) and argued with me on the night we went back home from the judge’s to our empty apartment about indecent matters. He made it clear that he didn’t want me and yet wouldn’t let me go. He ordered me to, but wouldn’t let me. He was controlling and abusive. I felt so low about myself because of my condition. I had been in a state hospital and had been sexually damaged by a catheter during an overdose attempt and subsequently received disability pay. I didn’t realize how much I brought to the marriage–a wealth of information about the US, my disability pension, some apartment furnishings, a good car. He was in the breakdown lane. I got pregnant twice and had two abortions. He influenced me to do so in ways I didn’t understand at the time. He was already responsible for two other abortions.

We are divorcing. He is trying to get out of it for free. He is lying and manipulating me and my son, who dotes on him out of desperation. He threatened to kill him last night, and to pull him out of the Catholic school he attends. He stated his intent to place a phone call there this morning and have him escorted off campus. Please pray.
 
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I reported in another prayer request that in the beginning I may have set out to use my husband, and that I felt guilty and ashamed about that and other behavior pertaining to that time, 20 years ago. It is also true that he turned around and used me, getting me pregnant deliberately (he took advantage of a “spell” such as I had then to get me to start having sex with him when I was just in the process of deciding not to do that) and then married me for the work permit (as he had already failed at 5 jobs and couldn’t get another special visa–he is Canadian) and argued with me on the night we went back home from the judge’s to our empty apartment about indecent matters. He made it clear that he didn’t want me and yet wouldn’t let me go. He ordered me to, but wouldn’t let me. He was controlling and abusive. I felt so low about myself because of my condition. I had been in a state hospital and had been sexually damaged by a catheter during an overdose attempt and subsequently received disability pay. I didn’t realize how much I brought to the marriage–a wealth of information about the US, my disability pension, some apartment furnishings, a good car. He was in the breakdown lane. I got pregnant twice and had two abortions. He influenced me to do so in ways I didn’t understand at the time. He was already responsible for two other abortions.

We are divorcing. He is trying to get out of it for free. He is lying and manipulating me and my son, who dotes on him out of desperation. He threatened to kill him last night, and to pull him out of the Catholic school he attends. He stated his intent to place a phone call there this morning and have him escorted off campus. Please pray.
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Get an annulment too, if you can.
I do not think he had the right and Catholic intention of marriage when he married you.
My opinion…
Pray for You…
 
If you are Catholic and haven’t been to Confession, you may find that Confession gives you some peace.
I ask God to protect your son from all harm and disturbing influences and to help him to obtain the balance and maturity to lead a wholesome, happy life.
I ask God to bless your husband and give him peace, kindness, and wisdom, helping him to be a good father.
I ask God to give you serenity, healing, and peace.
 
I am praying for safety for you and your son…first of all. Then I pray that a path opens for you so you can get your life in order. Perhaps it will be a life with your husband and perhaps not, but I also pray for him and his salvation. I know your situation seems dark right now, but you have reached out to people who you know will pray for you, so I assume that you have faith. Remember to call upon your guardian angel in times of danger.

May the angels hold you tight and direct your path today and always.
 
Thank you for your prayers! My son is in the midst of trying to submit a college application in the midst of all this chaos in his life and ours, and the 15th is the last day for the college of his choice. He may just have to wait a year, as today was lost for him. I am so nervous back at home with him, and my husband (out of town) is causing us both to panic.

God bless all of you.
 
Our Father who art in Heaven
Hallowed be thy name
Thy Kingdom come
Thy will be done
On Earth as it is in Heaven
Give us this day our daily bread
And forgive us our trespasses
As we forgive those who trespass against us
And lead us not into temptation
But deliver us from evil

AMEN

Hail Mary full of Grace
The Lord is with thee
Blessed art thou among women
And blessed is the fruit of thy womb Jesus
Holy Mary , Mother of God
Pray for us sinners , Now and at the hour of our death

AMEN

Saint Michael the Archangel,
defend us in battle.
Be our protection against the wickedness and snares of the devil.
May God rebuke him, we humbly pray;
and do Thou, O Prince of the Heavenly Host -
by the Divine Power of God -
cast into hell, satan and all the evil spirits,
who roam throughout the world seeking the ruin of souls.
AMEN

In the name of The Father and The Son and The Holy Spirit
AMEN :highprayer::signofcross: +++
 
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