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i was telling my neighbor that i have never been in love or been with a man and i am 39 this year. i am so ashamed of this.

i have never had any kids and feel so abnormal. she has a couple of kids and a man and here i am so alone. please pray God send me a good and holy man soon. i know my neighbors think i am either lying about waiting for the right man or that i am a lesbian. i am not i simply have not met the right man yet. i took care of my elderly mom for a good many years. and i never was in a position to meet some one at all really. i am now in a good place in my life to meet some one and want to fall in love and be loved and be a complete couple.

please pray and thank you all.
 
Never feel ashamed of your virginity. I know a Catholic friend in your exact position, she passed away from breast cancer at age 42 before ever knowing a man sexually. God wanted her pure. The things of this world are not what we should desire.

You can go to the Christian singles site and try to meet a man if you really want. You can meet someone perfect for you. He will love you all the more for your celibacy. Never be ashamed…that is the world and the culture we live in that is making you feel that way. Each of us have a path which God desires for us should you heed to the culture we live in or God’s will? Not knowing what His will is we can only presume you are right where you ought to be. Feel blessed, feel loved. Feel happy. Message me if you want to talk.

God Bless you my sister.
 
thank you so much Ruby, i appreciate that a lot. its just never happened that i met a guy and felt in love with him or that things worked out to be a couple and get married etc.

every man i have met had something very wrong in his life, one was super bi-polar and schizo, and in a scary way, one was way to old for me to even have identical feelings / ideas with, another was in to much trouble and had to many problems to be his partner etc.

on and on it has went when i did met a guy. one even burnt my two older vehicles to the ground bc he was mad at me for not wanting to just go and have sex with him and move in with him, he was the bi-polar one.

so it hasnt been easy. and i am super cautious when i met a guy after all the problems i have had. when i was real young around 13 and had a guy who liked me he became a stalker and stalked me! ugh !

he was a little older than me but was a real crazy bad guy i figured out. so i never met the right guy at all i guess. thank you for your comforting words. God does have a plan i know.

i feel bad for your friend. its so hard as christians to find a christian man who is a real christian not just pretending bc he wants to have sex and etc.

i want a holy man who is for real and who i can identify with etc. we have to have some things in common and we have to be close in age some what to have similar ideas etc.

i have met one guy but i think he is way to much older than me and he has a lot of problems and issues.

just tired of being alone in life, mom past on a few yrs back and was my whole family. thanks and hugs to all and prayers back as well
 
O Raphael, lead us towards those we are waiting for, those who are waiting for us! Raphael, Angel of happy meetings and Catholic singles, lead us by the hand towards those we are looking for! May all our movements, all their movements, be guided by your Light and transfigured by your Joy. Angel Guide of Tobias, lay the request we now address to you at the feet of Him on Whose unveiled Face you are privileged to gaze. Lonely and tired, crushed by the separations and sorrows of earth, we feel the need of calling to you and of pleading for the protection of your wings, so that we may not be as strangers in the Province of Joy, all ignorant of the concerns of our country. Remember the weak, you who are strong–you whose home lies beyond the region of thunder, in a land that is always peaceful, always serene, and bright with the resplendent glory of God. Amen.
 
Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee.

Blessed are you among women, and blessed is the fruit of your womb Jesus.

Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death.

Amen.

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Our Father who art in Heaven, hallowed be thy name.

Thy kingdom come, thy will be done on Earth as it is in Heaven.

Give us this day our daily bread.

And forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us.

And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.

Amen.

†
 
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Please Dear God our Heavenly Father, The Holy Spirit, Dear Jesus Christ our Saviour and Dear Our Lady Mary Mother of Jesus could You please bathe this Lady in Thy Divine Love and Blessings for the “right Christian Husband” with love and respect reciprocated and to look after one another, now and for Eternity, Amen.

Our Father who art in Heaven, Hallowed be Thy Name, Thy Kingdom come, Thy Will be done on Earth as it is in Heaven. Give us this day our daily bread and forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us and lead us not into temptation but deliver us from all evil, Amen.
 
Please know that your decision to wait for a good and holy man is a choice that is pleasing to God. He has a plan for you and you are waiting on Him to lead you down this path. I really admire you and I promise to pray for you.
 
REMEMBER, O most gracious Virgin Mary, that never was it known that anyone who fled to thy protection, implored thy help, or sought thy intercession was left unaided. Inspired with this confidence, I fly to thee, O Virgin of virgins, my Mother; to thee do I come; before thee I stand, sinful and sorrowful. O Mother of the Word Incarnate, despise not my petitions, but in thy mercy hear and answer me. Amen.
 
*You have done a blessed thing, caring faithfully for your elderly mother.
You have cause to feel blessed for your kind unselfish life…and rather than feel ashamed or inadequate, know that you have met the requirement to love, and to care for God’s vulnerable one in your mother. Remember Jesus’ words in Matthew 25 verses 31-46! You have lived His wish in that scripture and you will shine with that generosity before Him when He comes to judge you.
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Lord, comfort her with the knowledge that she has lived in generosity and love.
Yes, she’s not like some for whom the ordinary joys came easily.
I praise You for this unselfish life of this kind woman…but may we now ask for a fulfilling personal life for her?
 
Hi OP, please don’t lose heart. I am praying for your call to the vocation of marriage. I would like to invite you to join my group Praying for our Future Spouse. Just click on my signature below. We pray together in this group and pray for each others’ intentions. God bless you, and keeping your intentions at daily Mass.
 
***Hail Mary,
full of grace,
the Lord is with thee.
Blessed art thou among women,
and blessed is the fruit of thy womb,
Jesus.
Holy Mary,
Mother of God,
pray for us sinners now,
and at the hour of our death.

Amen.

:crossrc:***
 
thank you all so very much for your kind words. we will see what happens - will let you know also HUGS and prayers back as well
 
Dear Lord,
please look after this woman, and send her the man she needs, if it is your wil.
In name of the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit. Amen

btw, you shouldn’t be ashamed of yourself. Be happy in the Lord, he finds you a beautiful flower, just for you waiting for the right person, even if it takes long.
 
sadgirl1974 said:
i was telling my neighbor that i have never been in love or been with a man and i am 39 this year. i am so ashamed of this.

i have never had any kids and feel so abnormal. she has a couple of kids and a man and here i am so alone. please pray God send me a good and holy man soon. i know my neighbors think i am either lying about waiting for the right man or that i am a lesbian. i am not i simply have not met the right man yet. i took care of my elderly mom for a good many years. and i never was in a position to meet some one at all really. i am now in a good place in my life to meet some one and want to fall in love and be loved and be a complete couple.

please pray and thank you all.
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Our Father who art in Heaven, hallowed be thy name.
Thy kingdom come, thy will be done on Earth as it is in Heaven.
Give us this day our daily bread.
And forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us.
And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.
Amen.

Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee.
Blessed are you among women, and blessed is the fruit of your womb Jesus.
Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death.
Amen.

Glory Be to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit.
As it was in the beginning is now ever shall be world without end
Amen
 
O Raphael, lead us towards those we are waiting for, those who are waiting for us! Raphael, Angel of happy meetings and Catholic singles, lead us by the hand towards those we are looking for! May all our movements, all their movements, be guided by your Light and transfigured by your Joy. Angel Guide of Tobias, lay the request we now address to you at the feet of Him on Whose unveiled Face you are privileged to gaze. Lonely and tired, crushed by the separations and sorrows of earth, we feel the need of calling to you and of pleading for the protection of your wings, so that we may not be as strangers in the Province of Joy, all ignorant of the concerns of our country. Remember the weak, you who are strong–you whose home lies beyond the region of thunder, in a land that is always peaceful, always serene, and bright with the resplendent glory of God. Amen.
 
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