…I am having a hard time dealing with the pastor who openly preaches his political opinions…
Cindy, this might be a good time to consider the role of the homily in the Catholic mass. One way to do that is in contrast with the sermon in a Protestant church service. I am also a cradle Catholic (and also 70). But my wife, who was brought up Protestant, tells me that when she was a child her Finnish Apostolic Lutheran Chuch in Detroit would have a half-hour sermon in English. Then she had to go to the Finnish service and hear the whole thing again in Finnish. The sermon was that important. But then they only had communion once a month. The sermon was the main reason to go to church.
That stands to reason since they didn’t believe communion was actually receiving the body of Christ, but was merely symbolic. What communion lost in importance was gained by the sermon.
Thank God that we do have the real presence of Christ in our Catholic mass. That is
our main reason for going to church. The Liturgy of the Word prepares us in our faith, and the Liturgy of the Eucharist is where we actually receive Christ. Note: This happens regardless of the personal failings of the priest who is officiating. The homily is just a subordinate part of the Litury of the Word.
Now it is helpful when a priest can inspire true love of God through his homilies, but if that does not happen for whatever reason, the real spiritual benefit of attending mass is as strong as ever because of the Eucharist. Actually, for me personally, it is more important that I connect with others in that faith community than that I connect with the priest. There is more overall stability in the laity than there is in which priest happens to be officiating that day. It is the people sitting next to me in the pews that makes me feel most welcome - much more so than the priest. I find that to be true not only in my home parish, but also when I am travelling on vacation and attend a church in which I don’t know anybody. I still get more of a connection from those strangers sitting around me, and maybe from the ministers of music, than I do from the priest of those churches.
This is not to diminish the discomfort you might feel in listening to a disagreeable homily. But I hope you can put that discomfort in context and focus on the other riches that are available - the Eucharist and the whole faith community in which you find yourself.