What about Abraham and Hagar?
Gen 16:1-4
"Now Sarai, Abram’s wife, had borne him no children. But she had an Egyptian slave named Hagar; so she said to Abram, “The LORD has kept me from having children. Go, sleep with my slave; perhaps I can build a family through her.”
Abram agreed to what Sarai said. So after Abram had been living in Canaan ten years, Sarai his wife took her Egyptian slave Hagar and gave her to her husband to be his wife. He slept with Hagar, and she conceived."
The text (Genesis) is inspired. Furthermore, (in the text) there is no condemnation or disapproval expressed on God’s part against Abraham for having relations with Hagar. Not only that, Abraham is portrayed as righteous in God’s sight. What are we to conclude from this? Does this implicitly mean that what Abraham did was morally permissible?
Some options to consider:
- Hagar was not, objectively speaking (in God’s sight), Abraham’s wife. Abraham was not a polygamist
. - Abraham committed adultery, notwithstanding the lack of Scriptural characterization of his relationship with Hagar as being adulterous.
- Hagar was, objectively speaking, Abraham’s wife. Abraham was a polygamist.
- God did not approve of Abraham’s polygomy, notwithstanding his (God’s) silence in the text regarding the moral natural of this practice.
- God approved of Abraham’s polygamy, notwithstanding a lack of explicit approval of the practice or commandment to participate in it.
**I have a question, are the defintion of marriage “between one man and one woman” and polygamy, mutually exclusive? ****
I realize this may come off as an utterly absurd question, but let me attempt to explain (using the Abraham example) what I mean. **
If Abraham was married to Sarah and Hagar, then, this can either be interpreted as one marriage contract, or two separate marriage contracts.
If the former, then yes, I see the traditional definition of marriage being violated.
If the latter, it is not obvious to me, how the traditional defintion of marriage is being violated.
**Abraham + Hagar + Sarah = One man and two women
vs
Abraham + Sarah = One man and one woman
Abraham + Hagar = One man and one woman **
Sorry, I’m having a hard time illustrating my thought process. Hopefully someone can percieve what I mean.
Anyways, no, I am not in support of polygamy (in case someone is wondering). I am simply trying to explore this issue in depth and contruct hypothetical objections, to then answer them (St. Thomas Aquinas?). Not that I can, at the moment, answer them.