Where exactly are your sources from to say that St. Xavier was unsuccessful the first time? From what I know, he had great success in Goa from the day he landed.
Actually, I learned this from the Jesuits. Fr. Mitch Pacwa and another Jesuit who is not as famous, so I don’t recall his name, did a wonderful historical program on Francis Xavier. They gave out these details with letters written by Francis himself.
I think you must be a Franciscan. But I find it a bit annoying that you want to present your order and founder as more superior to that of other saints.
Yes, I am Franciscan, but your statement is based on a misunderstanding. I have not said that Francis of Assisi is superior to any other saint. Every saint has his own gifts and is a unique person. Just an aside, yes the Church has dubbed St. Francis as: The Perfect Christian, The Seraphic Father, The Mirror of Perfection and recently Pope Benedict said of him, "The Living Example of the First Beatitude. The man has quite a reputation in the Church and has been highly respected by many great saints and great missionaries, among them Francis Xavier and Mother Teresa of Calcutta.
See, this is even more confusing.
Do you think it right to convert by helping someone during time of need? I happened to have lived in many countries in South Asia and I can tell you that this is something we really look down upon.
It is a major tactic used by Protestant missionaries today. They come and set-up their churches with their money and then they go around giving money to people. In return, they “suggest” them to come and attend their churches. Some of these pastors agree to give them good jobs abroad if they agree to convert etc. Maybe it is usual in the West but for us its an insult to our intelligence. At times they would succeed with young people who given their poor conditions do succumb. In countries like Sri Lanka, they had to pass laws to prevent this kind of conversion. Their parents suffer great deal in seeing their children leave their Catholic faith.
What is the merit of converting to a religion because the follower seems to help you out when you need assistance?
Neither Franciscans, Jesuits,Missionaries of Charity, Maryknoll, Dominicans, Missionaries of the Poor or Medical Mission Sisters ever ask anyone to become Catholic because we help them. Did you ever hear of Mother Teresa asking anyone to become Catholic? Yet, are you aware of how many men and women became Catholic influenced by her work and presence?
You’ll never see or hear a Benedictine ask anyone to become Catholic, nor a Trappist or a Cistercian or any of the orders that follow the Benedictine Rule. The reason is simple. Converting others was not the mandate that Benedict, Albert and Francis gave to their followers. The mandate was brotherhood, prayer, poverty, asceticism, service, hospitality and unquestioning obedience to the pope and bishops.
It seems like an emotional ploy which tries to grow in a person a sense of owing to listen to the giver. It might work for Franciscans but it also works for Muslims, Budhists, Hindus and Sales people. So it doesn’t really give valid reason for anyone with an intelligent mind to convert.
You may want to read up on the lives of men and women such as: St. Camilus, St. John of God, St. John de Matha, St. John Baptist de La Salle, St.Vincent de Paul, St. Louise de Marillac, St. Elizabeth Ann Seton, Bl. Mother Teresa, Bl. Charles de Facould, St. Frances Cabrini, St. Katherine Drexel, St. Damien the Leper and other great missionaries.
None of these men and women ever set out to convert anyone. They set out to do two things:
a) To live the gospel among the poor as one of them.
b) To serve the poor
c) To preach the Gospel by their example.
They always welcomed and taught the inquierer. They never hid or denied their faith in Christ when serving non-beleivers.
If you go to Jerusalem, you’ll find the friars very involved in serving the needs of Christians in that city. If you go to Calcutta you’ll find the Missionaries of Charity praying the rosary as they walk the streets. If you go to any place where there is a Benedictine house, you’ll find a great abbey church in the middle of the complex which shouts out, Catholic.
I would rather people be honest with us. Give us the facts. You can give us help but not to convert us.
We’re very honest, just as I’m being honest with you. You ask and we respond. You need help, we provide that too. The one is not contingent on the other. We do not buy conversions. There is a story that I never tire of repeating.
On three separate occasions Francis left the friar priest without a missal. You have to understand that Franciscans are not priests. There are about 40% who are priests. Most are not. Priesthood was never a requirement nor the intention of the founder. Therefore, it didn’t matter to Francis whether they had mass in the house or they went to the nearest parish or whether the friar who was a priest said mass or not, as long as everyone go to go to some mass.
On two separate occasions Francis sold the missal, because it was the only thing of value that they had, in order to feed the poor. On a third occasion, He simply gave the woman the missal and told her to sell it and keep the mony. He never asked any of these folks to sit down for a catechism lesson. You don’t feed Christ in the distressing disguise of the poor with conditions attached. You feed him without conditions, out of pure love.