Actually, the reply said this…and I post it with some reservations. I must caution that this was a private e-mail that I did not take to be intended for widespread distribution. I post it to clarify what was told to me and ask that those with questions also get their information directly from the source. Don’t quote me! Ask them, and quote them!
This is my interpretation of the note: they doubted the quote not just because they had never heard it said, but because it seems to imply that Mother Theresa would publicly contradict the teachings of the Church, when she had explicitly instructed the Missionaries of Charity not to enter into the discussion. So while they could not say that it had never been said, they could say that it did not seem to be in keeping with a durable attitude with which they did have experience.
If the statement was ever made, it was unusual. On that account, it does not seem fair to attribute a quote to Mother Theresa when the utterance was not in keeping with the daily emphasis of her comments.A quote is a quote. It is very fair to quote anything she said if she said it. Just because it does not fit some peoples agenda or ideas about what mother theresa was like does not mean that one cannot quote it. And in the original signature it was noted that the priest REPORTED this quote. I actually think the person who quoted this in thier signature is being more honest than anyone else about the quote.
But you are right, neither I nor they are saying that she never said it.
It is one thing to prefer to receive Holy Communion on the tongue and to take some consolation from knowing that some very saintly people of our own times have preferred it, too. It is another thing to subtly imply that the Church permits that which is not truly legitimate. Mother Theresa wouldn’t do it, the Holy Father doesn’t do it, and until the Church stops permitting other means of reception, neither should we.honestly I don’t think that anyone has said that on this thread. Mother theresa wasnt alleged to have broken with teaching all she said is that it makes her sad. Well, It makes me sad too. And you can quote my future saintly self (hopefully)
I think the same can be said of choices in church architecture. Go ahead and be thrilled that someone as inspiring as the Holy Father finds the same architecture edifying that you do. But I’d suggest that you not cross the line into thinking that his every decorating choice is an implicit criticism of every decorating choice that is different than his own. He wouldn’t go that far, out of charity. If it is good to imitate him in relative non-essentials like architecture, how much better it is to imitate him in that which is essential!This isn’t just about architechture. Why would you just think that it is? Is it bothersome to you?.