B
billcu1
Guest
Is it ever possible to look at porn and it not be mortal sin? Quite probably not. But I thought I’d ask.
Bill
Bill
Sure! As a college professor I had a colleague who was deep studying human sexuality address my class. Anyway he began the talk by showing several pornographic film clips. I do not think that I sinned by my watching it, or my allowing the class to view it.Is it ever possible to look at porn and it not be mortal sin? Quite probably not. But I thought I’d ask.
Bill
The act of looking at pornography, I would say, is not intrinsically evil; it is, however, an incredibly dangerous occasion of sin for any person, no matter how holy. This is because pornography shows the naked body and various sex acts not in a natural or proper way, but for the very purpose of inciting lust.Is it ever possible to look at porn and it not be mortal sin? Quite probably not. But I thought I’d ask.
Bill
St. John Paul II talked about the sinfulness of lusting after your own wife, but I’m not sure about the citation. It is very wrong to objectify a spouse or lust after them as it is the desire for sexual gratification and not authentic love that is due the spouse.What about taking ‘lustful’ or ‘bedroom pictures’ of your own spouse when you are in a healthy and normal marriage?
Is it sinful to take nudes of a sexual nature if the only one who is intended to see such pictures is your own spouse? For ‘some couples’ (anonymity requested) camera play may be an activity that leads up to the marital act. It’s certainly possible that such photos could fall into the ‘wrong eyes’, sure-- but isn’t that true of any confidential document or private thing? Now that we have digital cameras and computers with which to view these pictures, there is no need to worry that a photo processing person is going to see something inappropriate… just like the Polaroids of not too many years ago.
If the intention is simply to have a fun and erotic photo session between husband and wife that happens to lead to the marital act, is it sinful to create ‘do-it-yourself’ erotica? After all, God does mean for the marital act to be pleasurable and fun as well as fruitful. If a couple’s idea of marital fun involves a camera… is that bad?![]()
Even within a marriage lust is still a sin.What about taking ‘lustful’ or ‘bedroom pictures’ of your own spouse when you are in a healthy and normal marriage?
Is it sinful to take nudes of a sexual nature if the only one who is intended to see such pictures is your own spouse? For ‘some couples’ (anonymity requested) camera play may be an activity that leads up to the marital act. It’s certainly possible that such photos could fall into the ‘wrong eyes’, sure-- but isn’t that true of any confidential document or private thing? Now that we have digital cameras and computers with which to view these pictures, there is no need to worry that a photo processing person is going to see something inappropriate… just like the Polaroids of not too many years ago.
If the intention is simply to have a fun and erotic photo session between husband and wife that happens to lead to the marital act, is it sinful to create ‘do-it-yourself’ erotica? After all, God does mean for the marital act to be pleasurable and fun as well as fruitful. If a couple’s idea of marital fun involves a camera… is that bad?![]()
That makes about as much sense as saying are you able to make love with your wife in front of your mother.tried and true test - would you be able to share the movie or home pics with Jesus? If you could truly share it with him, it’s OK.
Now here is where blindness can come in. It seems to me that nudity, sexual attraction, and lust are three different things. Being is a state of grace can really help tear away habit that can blind you to things I find. I’m not quite sure what is meant upthread concerning “unnatural positions”. Positions that incite lust. I know pornography reduces the person. One of the pontiffs said, “Pornography’s problem is not that it shows too much but too little.” That does make sense.Even within a marriage lust is still a sin.
There’s people that can do all kinds of weird things. The mind can become twisted. We may find there might actually be mental illness involved some day.That makes about as much sense as saying are you able to make love with your wife in front of your mother.
Not that I agree with camera’s in the bedroom (that is weird and an objectification).
One thing I would not consider porn although nudity IS involved is watching a movie about some South American tribal natives. They just don’t wear many clothes. Some of them anyway. It is their natural habitat, is certainly doesn’t “turn me on” and I watch for educational purposes concerning ancient peoples and there lives and beliefs. Some have Tapirs as pets, and they hunt them too.Depends on your own interpretation of just what porn is,
Watching naked people make a coffee on television ? Would that be porn ?
Watching a naked refugee starving to death , I would consider that as porn…
What me need to establish is what is ordinate sexual attraction and what is lust.Even within a marriage lust is still a sin.
We know how the Church defines lust and it applies outside or inside a marriage.What me need to establish is what is ordinate sexual attraction and what is lust.
That still wouldn’t make it a good thing to freely choose.There’s people that can do all kinds of weird things. The mind can become twisted. We may find there might actually be mental illness involved some day.
Bill