Possibly relocating to Chicago - help!

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Hey gang!

I am giving serious consideration to accepting a job with a company in Chicago. I have been there for business many, many times and my wife has a sister and cousin who live there.

We have no idea what communities are good places to live but maybe some Chicago folks can give me a place to start.

We would like a community with a K-8 Catholic school nearby (or within a 10-15 minute drive), nice neighborhoods where the houses have yards big enough for my 4 energetic boys, and a parish that is family-friendly and in harmony with Rome. I am planning on riding METRA into the city so being close to a stop is a plus, but I assume there are lots of kiss-and-ride drop offs.

I would welcome any and all suggestions!

As a point of reference, we currently live in suburban Kansas City. Is it possible to find a 4 br, 3.5bath house on a 70x120 lot that’s not more than an hour outside the city? My dream would be to find that house/lot, five minutes from a METRA stop and a 30 minute train ride to the loop. Am I insane?
 
Hi ERic! We’re neighbors…we live in KC, too. My brother just moved up that way from KC and was not able to find comparable housing for the price. They had a 1200 sq. ft home with a big back yard down here…up there, the same sort of arrangement cost about $100,000 more. They are still trying to find something they can afford. Even with the down market…housing up that way was so much higher than KC area to begin with.

My father lives about 45 minutes north of Chicago…Lake County. It’s pretty high on property taxes up there…or at least so he says…taxes are probably something to consider also as I know that our tax situation down here is the envy of my family…

Good luck!
 
Hey gang!

I am giving serious consideration to accepting a job with a company in Chicago. I have been there for business many, many times and my wife has a sister and cousin who live there.

We have no idea what communities are good places to live but maybe some Chicago folks can give me a place to start.

We would like a community with a K-8 Catholic school nearby (or within a 10-15 minute drive), nice neighborhoods where the houses have yards big enough for my 4 energetic boys, and a parish that is family-friendly and in harmony with Rome. I am planning on riding METRA into the city so being close to a stop is a plus, but I assume there are lots of kiss-and-ride drop offs.

I would welcome any and all suggestions!

As a point of reference, we currently live in suburban Kansas City. Is it possible to find a 4 br, 3.5bath house on a 70x120 lot that’s not more than an hour outside the city? My dream would be to find that house/lot, five minutes from a METRA stop and a 30 minute train ride to the loop. Am I insane?
I suggest living OUTSIDE Chicago. Dyer, Indiana is pretty nice. I have family there. We lived in Indiana for most our lives so Chicago is truly our big city neighbor. 🙂
 
I suggest living OUTSIDE Chicago. Dyer, Indiana is pretty nice. I have family there. We lived in Indiana for most our lives so Chicago is truly our big city neighbor. 🙂
Is commuting to Chicago from there even possible? The stipulation we have on the relocation is to be able to maximize family time as much as possible, therefore I wouldn’t want to live anywhere that requires a commute of longer than 60 minutes (and I won’t be driving that either).
 
Is commuting to Chicago from there even possible? The stipulation we have on the relocation is to be able to maximize family time as much as possible, therefore I wouldn’t want to live anywhere that requires a commute of longer than 60 minutes (and I won’t be driving that either).
Google said it’s about a 45 minute drive. You aren’t going to find much less than that. You are either going to be sacrificing family time or family safety in this case, not to mention cost. Living inside Chicago just isn’t the safest thing to do. When you move to a big city like Chicago, you are going to have more expenses and less time with family. This might not be the most family friendly option jobwise if you can avoid it.
 
Google said it’s about a 45 minute drive. You aren’t going to find much less than that. You are either going to be sacrificing family time or family safety in this case, not to mention cost. Living inside Chicago just isn’t the safest thing to do. When you move to a big city like Chicago, you are going to have more expenses and less time with family. This might not be the most family friendly option jobwise if you can avoid it.
I appreciate your perspective and opinion. Thank you for sharing it with me.

Anyone else with feedback on good places to live?
 
I’M SO JEALOUS!!! Run, don’t walk, to your new job…you will LOVE Chi-town!!! We moved there when my husband went to grad school @ Northwestern & lived there for 7 years. I still consider myself a displaced Chicagoan(& die-hard Cubbies fan)~not a resident of the left coast. 😛

Don’t let anyone confuse you about one fact: commuting. It WILL make or break your quality of life there. The BEST advice I received was to suck it up, sacrifice, dip into savings, stretch, buy a smaller house, but NO MATTER WHAT, make SURE you live within walking distance of a Metra line (more reliable than a Swiss watch!) and that you keep your ride to 45 min or less. Failure to do so will RUIN your experience.

As a result we moved to Glenview~lived in the beautiful Swainwood neighborhood–about a 4 block hike to the train–35 minute ride/25 if you’re on an express. Since we originally moved there, the Village has developed what used to be a naval air station property and built hundreds of (new) homes close to the train line. We were in Our Lady of Perpetual Help parish and LOVED it there…it was truly home and we miss it! Was just back to visit my girlfriends for a few days…still some of my favorite people on earth!! You cannot beat the people in Chicago…they are open, real, welcoming, generous & loyal.

Best wishes and much happiness wherever you land, but don’t skip looking in Glenview!!

p.s. couple other cute areas: Edison Park (still technically in the City limits nw side) Park Ridge, Oak Park, River Forest–also in the city–west. Lots of folks who are transplants love Naperville.
 
I remember we spoke about this some time ago.
forums.catholic-questions.org/showthread.php?t=71397

I am so like you in that I search for home within a few blocks of the Metra line. Your boys would suffice well in what Island Oak said, those were all mostly my suggestions, too. I am constantly on realtor.com and Google maps to measure the metra stops.

I found that if I chose something like Aurora, homes are affordable, low cost county, near several train stops, and it would be a good hour commute back and fourth from downtown which gives me a ton of things to do on the train. The downfall of Aurora is that teens get in trouble often from sheer boredom. It has the largest Planned Parenthood clinic in the state. I really do not know the school system there or the Catholic solidarity community as well.

Back to Island Oak options, Edison Park/Norwood Park is a nice safe area(typically housed with many firemen and policemen) and has many programs that help their specific community, if you have four boys, the park districts in the NW sides have some snazzy programs. Catholic schools are big around here, so you will only have to worry about tuition(Public schools are still an issue, I would be diligent in your researching if you go that route). I still see one that in my neighborhood growing up had one maybe two different age groups for football, and having now passed it last fall, it is cluttered with 8-9 different age ranges from four years old to college age, looked like some real rough and gruff coaches. A little more northwest of there is the District 211 and 214 school district. Great Schools!! I went there, I couldn’t say anything bad about it. I still remember lessons and experiments that I still need today. It made college a breeze.

Oak Park/River Forest high school has been one of the best top-ten schools in state for so long. Very trying areas, however surround these suburbs but they thrive because they have many restrictions and rules and public protection that are thrice paid in their taxes. There is low/no tolerance for hate or superiority complexes, it is very culturally diverse, but a common thread it the very well to do back grounds. As a place that was home to Earnest Hemmingway, he used to tout the city as “Wide lawns, narrow minds.” Not so anymore! OP especially is very “open minded,” whilst you are not allowed to put signs on your lawn selling your property, you are very much allowed to put signs on your property to sell a service or protest something, they are big on activism. If you ever wanted to see a community with inflated taxes going to good use, stay here. The best thing about this is that their main metra stop has a cta el platform that share the same tracks incase something backfires; you can use the other service. Pretty cool. The great part of it all, is that it is ultra convenient. The expressway there is the beacon to get you anywhere in the chgoland area within a half hour open traffic, downtown is 10 minutes. This specific town offers great programs with churches, community, and schools, unlike anywhere I have seen before. For such a well-manicured and quiet area, they have a ton of things going on. Read all about it. No noise ordinance law here means no cars are allowed to blare their music or homes must be cautious with boisterous parties. There is a great architecture tour that runs through here because of the Frank Lloyd Wright houses that still remain and are maintained here. If I ever become very rich, this would be an ideal place for me to live and retire because it has all the elements of comfort for me.

The church communities are just great, but some seem to flourish more than others, and that takes individual research. The fun part about this town is that there are too many Catholic communities, and each one has amazing history and programs. So lately, I read up on a church and go visit one I have not seen yet. The Chicago churches are so much more nicer, most old, some gothic and baroque, some Medieval with intricate art, I got to see an undamaged wooden church and they specialize in so many programs. Most churches in the burbs are modern and basic in detail. The old churches have so much more depth and rich history, and most as of late are bringing back Latin, high and low masses.

Elmhurst/Villa Park/Lombard/Downers/Naper burbs are other options if you do not like too much going on with a nice atmosphere and generally good people towns. There is a town called Long Grove if you want that Gilmore girls feel, that has the cute sweet shops and pleasant ambiance, it kind of seems too girly girl for your boys, but maybe a nice getaway to see, Galena, IL is just like this. They really should be considered bed and breakfast, spa weekend relaxes, but there are women who request this, and so Illinois provides it, too.

Aye aye on the Cubs, I will be at a game next week, can’t wait!! All pubs are neighborhood specific and most are like Cheers with the same ole same ole people, but the sports neighborhoods have the best diverse action of different people coming in and out of it. Great for hanging out with coworkers or church friends! Not to mention the food! Amazing cuisines here, don’t forget to mellow out with a Chicago Style Vienna Beef Hot Dog and a Giordano’s Deep Dish. All of your home guests will love you for taking them to try it! Welcome and have fun!
 
Thanks for all the replies so far! Any more Chicagoans with feedback for me?
 
Do you know what part of Chicago the job is in? Downtown (the Loop), Near North, South Side? That would make a big difference as to which suburbs you’d want to look into.

My husband works in Gary. Lots of his coworkers live in the Indiana suburbs of Chicago - Crown Point, Schererville, places like that. (He does have one friend who actually lives in Chicago - he is a young single guy and the city is more fun for him.) You might want to look at the Indiana side if your job is closer to that side of town.
 
Generally speaking, the Northside of the city & northern suburbs are considered “classier,” but they’re also more expensive. I would suggest finding a suburb closer to the city with a commuter train station.
Naperville, mentioned by some on this thread, is farther out. So is Aurora (last stop on the Burlington Northern line which serves Naperville and a host of other western suburbs.) Beware of Oak Park, however. Their crime rate is going up–lots of robberies lately. In fact, my son, riding home from school on the CTA’s Blue Line “L” train was recently mugged by a couple of guys who got on at the Oak Park Ave. stop.
 
Do you know what part of Chicago the job is in? Downtown (the Loop), Near North, South Side? That would make a big difference as to which suburbs you’d want to look into.
The job is in the loop. I was told by some friends (including my wife’s cousin) that while the north side is nice, it is also expensive and they suggested looking at the west and south 'burbs, but they haven’t really been more specific than that.

I’ve been to Plainfield a few times and that seemed nice (and more affordable than Naperville), although I don’t know how long of a train ride it would be into the loop (and the METRA website is just deplorable, IMHO). Island Oak mentioned Glenview and I actually worked on a portion of the Glen while at my previous firm (I’m a Landscape Architect) - it would be nice but I’m not sure how affordable it is - a quick investigation on realtor.com scared me more than just a little bit.

Thanks for the additional replies.
 
I have lived in Cook County all my life. Born in Chicago proper, I have lived on all sides of the city. The truth is, to live in a “no crime” area you have to pay for it $$$$. No crime + near Metra = $$$$$$$$$$$. Naperville and Aurora are waaay far from Chicago. Aurora is having more crime issues than it previously had. Of course I’m not talking about downtown Bagdhad or anything, but still. Riverside (not North Riverside, but Riverside) is a lovely wooded area near the Metra line. LaGrange and LaGrange Park are others. If you don’t want to spend your whole day commuting I’d say these are a couple of decent areas to look at. Oakbrook and Oakbrook Terrace as well are swanky but accessible to the city (I’m assuming this new job of yours means a higher income?)

Lots of really nice neighborhoods in Chicago are only nice because of “gentrification” and they tend to be islands in a sea of gangbangers. President Obama’s house is by Washington Park near Hyde Park. Not a place to go walking at night without police escort (or in Obama’s case, the Secret Service. Would that we were all President of the United States). I went to Loyola, Lake Shore Campus, and Roger’s Park is/can be a nice neighborhood. It’s one of the better college areas in my opinion, but you’d have to use the Red line rather than have convenient access to Metra (no, actually I think there is a north/south Metra line there now that I think about it. Oops). Oak Park actually reminds me a lot of Rogers Park. It tries to be “the North Side in the Suburbs.” But yes there are areas of Oak Park that are high crime as someone already noted.

Chicago certainly isn’t lacking for parishes, despite the closings. Anywhere you move will be close to a parish. Avoid Jesuit parishes and you should have a parish that is in communion with Rome (being a Loyola grad, I couldn’t help the Jesuit dig. I apologize to any Jesuits that may have been offended).

Here is perhaps a partial list of places that you ***shouldn’t ***move without a kevlar vest: Cicero (I only just escaped Cicero myself this month!), Berwyn, Maywood, Melrose Park, Stone Park, The West Side of Chicago (the *entire *west side, mind you!) Blue Island, most suburbs near either airport, Summit, Joliet (I once had a history teacher that said if God gave the world an enema, he’d insert at Joliet :D), Peoria, Calumet City, am I missing anything? I’m certain that I am.

***(Disclaimer: For all those CAF members who may reside in any of these communities, the opinions expressed above reflect the views of Nom the Wise and do not (necessarily) reflect the views of CAF, its management, staff or advertisers). ***

Fellow Chicagoans! Do you refute me?
 
As a point of reference, we currently live in suburban Kansas City. Is it possible to find a 4 br, 3.5bath house on a 70x120 lot that’s not more than an hour outside the city? My dream would be to find that house/lot, five minutes from a METRA stop and a 30 minute train ride to the loop. Am I insane?
Now that I look closer at your exact dimensions, **Riverside **would be a dream neighborhood for you. Or LaGrange/LaGrange Park or even Westmont perhaps. Actually, Riverside is *my *dream neighborhood and I am projecting it on you. 4 br. 3.5 baths are a steep bill to foot wherever you go in the Chicago area that *isn’t * a high or moderate crime area. On the expressway or the train your commute wouldn’t/shouldn’t be more than a half hour from the suburbs I mention here (except Westmont, 35-45 minutes). Neighborhoods around Westmont tend to be more “family friendly.” I used to live in Westchester, but that neighborhood has changed some since I was last there, but overall another good candidate I would say.
 
Here’s an idea. If you find a home you like (or think you can afford) just post the name of the area here and I will give you a basic analysis. It’s hard to just think about the Chicago area off the top of my head, and I’m sure there are areas that I haven’t mentioned, but if someone mentioned them to me I’d have an *instant *reaction.

Or you could feel free to PM me as well.
 
I know next to nothing about North West Indiana except that their houses tend to be cheaper (and bigger) than Illinois in general. But it’s a commute. No doubt about it.
 
Heh…Northwest Indiana as in Gary?

Well, the houses there are certainly cheaper (and there’s even public transit to The Loop)…but if you really want to live there, you have my respect…
I know next to nothing about North West Indiana except that their houses tend to be cheaper (and bigger) than Illinois in general. But it’s a commute. No doubt about it.
 
Heh…Northwest Indiana as in Gary?

Well, the houses there are certainly cheaper (and there’s even public transit to The Loop)…but if you really want to live there, you have my respect…
It’s that bad, hunh. I never go there. Perhaps God has *called me away *from Northwest Indiana. Gary has a reputation, but I know nothing about its suburbs.

Well there you go. Nix on NWIndy.
 
I don’t know about the Gary suburbs, but the actual city is definitely out.
It’s that bad, hunh. I never go there. Perhaps God has *called me away *from Northwest Indiana. Gary has a reputation, but I know nothing about its suburbs.

Well there you go. Nix on NWIndy.
 
Heh…Northwest Indiana as in Gary?

Well, the houses there are certainly cheaper (and there’s even public transit to The Loop)…but if you really want to live there, you have my respect…
See my previous post. Sheesh…there is more to Northwest Indiana than Gary! 😉

I think if you really want to take public transport to the Loop, though, that the Indiana suburbs might not suit you. We take the South Shore Line to Chicago for a fun weekend sometimes but I wouldn’t want to do that every day.
 
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