I did pray for your daughter.
But I encourage you also to think about what had led to this state of affairs.
Often, people don’t end up this way just because they decide they want to be evil.
Often, a chain of events and situations can be seen that has led to this. This is not a matter of determining and assigning blame. This is a matter for being savvy and seeing what has happened. Seeing what has happened can sometimes give clues about what a parent could do now to influence the adult child to go in a different and better direction.
A parent cannot control an adult child. But as long as there is some contact, there are possibilities of influencing the adult child, by what is said, by what is not said, by what is given, by what is asked, by what is not asked, by what is withheld, by emotions that are expressed, by emotions that are not expressed, by attitude, etc.
In my humble opinion, the atheism is not the cause of all the other bad behaviors, but rather the atheism, the substance abuse, and all the other destructive behaviors are the result of other things in the past and in the present.
Why do I think all this? Partly from watching Dr. Phil quite a bit. Partly from watching things happen in my family and with my cousins.
I did pray for your daughter.