Dear Friend, you are sorry, and please God you will change those flirting ways that hurt your wife. I do pray that she will forgive you, and that you will honour her forgiveness by giving your love and attention faithfully to her. “Husbands, love your wives and treat them with gentleness.” [Colossians 3:19]
For you and your wife, I pray, remembering the gospel story of the prodigal son…
God, I have sinned against others, against myself, and against You. I am unworthy to be Your child. I have offended Your goodness and Your dream of who I really am. I may have denied You the joy of blessings that You wish for me and for others through me. You alone know the entire consequences of my failure. Yet Jesus assures us that You joyfully celebrate my return from sin, and run to welcome and reclaim me as Your own. I want to value myself as Your child, knowing that all worth and holiness comes from You.
In Your mercy, please transform into good all that in weakness or ignorance I may spoil. I want to give blessing that is abundant beyond original possibility, to anyone I ever harm or deprive… Please bring out of my failures, such fruits of these new opportunities enhanced beyond all previous expectation, for from our human betrayal of Your divine plan of Creation, Your mercy wrought the magnificent plan of redemption that reverberates through time and eternity!
… Therefore, please heal me, my marriage, and our lives, that we may fulfill all that You dream for us. This, my soul in trusting confidence implores. (Bless you, Trishie

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