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PelagiathePenit
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Best Friend Forever. She is very Catholic. She is very much into justice. She has a lot of trouble on forgiving and letting go of past wounds. She does not see how holding on to resentment hurts her, NOT THEM. These people who teased, bullied her DO NOT CARE. They are perfectly fin in their lives. While she believes THEIR LIES and tortures herself over why they do not or cannot accept her. Maybe some people will never feel bad for making fun of her. I have known her since elementary school. For whatever, she is a very easy target for jokes. She is very sensitive and it is obvious. Even her friends sometimes use it against her. 
Her family is very tough on her and critical of her. I understand they do love her, but I think her father can take things down a notch.
She makes a spectacle of herself to gain acceptance. She has slept with men for attention and gain acceptance in groups. It always backfires. The man either turns around and calls her slut, wants to date a girl who is not easy, etc. In the end, the man wins. He got what he wants, he is able to move on carefree to woman he can respect.
She is very smart girl. I am very sick of her being suicidal. If she kills herself, the only people who will honestly care and get hurt is her family and few good friends. I am crying writing this. She spends so much time depressed, hating herself, giving up on school OVER STUPID MEN WHO WILL OR DO NOT CARE WHETHER SHE LIVES OR DIES.
Her family is very tough on her and critical of her. I understand they do love her, but I think her father can take things down a notch.She makes a spectacle of herself to gain acceptance. She has slept with men for attention and gain acceptance in groups. It always backfires. The man either turns around and calls her slut, wants to date a girl who is not easy, etc. In the end, the man wins. He got what he wants, he is able to move on carefree to woman he can respect.
She is very smart girl. I am very sick of her being suicidal. If she kills herself, the only people who will honestly care and get hurt is her family and few good friends. I am crying writing this. She spends so much time depressed, hating herself, giving up on school OVER STUPID MEN WHO WILL OR DO NOT CARE WHETHER SHE LIVES OR DIES.
I think everyone has wanted that to happen. 
I do not what to say anymore or how to help her. I have to lead my own life too. I do not mind listening to her problems. But I have m y own as well. She has to find peace within. Yes it is unfair in this life, some people can continuously get away with wronging others, feel little or no guilt, but she has to find peace. She is not aggressive, or one to take revenge against others. I am afraid she may one day VERY WELL KILL HERSELF. It’s over. Everything she worked hard for.