Prayer for Chastity

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I need to confess that I tried to look at pornography on my phone tonight. Over the years I have improved in the struggle against pornography, but occasionally I fall. Thankfully I do not enjoy it as much as I used to. As for why I fell tonight, it could be because I had some caffeine before going into work. Caffeine keeps me up at night and can cloud my judgment. Pray for God’s continued help in my struggle against pornography and self-stimulation.

P.S. I installed covenant eyes on my phone and computer to help deter me from this sin.

Lord have mercy. Help me do penance.
 
Prayers for you to have the self control needed to resist these temptations. If Catholic, go to Confession.

Sincerely repent and He is faithful and just and will forgive your sins.

mlz
 
Lord, protect dsully from all evil images and preserve this soul with graces for chastity, fortitude, courage, wisdom, and joy. Lead this soul not into temptation. Protect dsully from demonic prowlers with the help of your holy angels. Have mercy, Lord. Amen.
 
Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee.

Blessed are you among women, and blessed is the fruit of your womb Jesus.

Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death.

Amen.

†

Our Father who art in Heaven, hallowed be thy name.

Thy kingdom come, thy will be done on Earth as it is in Heaven.

Give us this day our daily bread.

And forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us.

And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.

Amen.

†
 
I need to confess…
Stop right there! Take this to a priest in the confessional. As you are not yet Catholic, he may not be able to offer absolution, but he can give you advice and a blessing to help you find peace. Should you choose to convert, the graces of the sacrament will help you heal.
P.S. I installed covenant eyes on my phone and computer to help deter me from this sin.
Lord have mercy. Help me do penance.
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I had some caffeine before going into work. Caffeine keeps me up at night and can cloud my judgment.
Make an actual note and hang it in your kitchen to avoid caffeine.

“Do NOT have Caffeine. It keeps me awake at night. It clouds my judgment as it robs me of needed sleep.”

Have a plan for what to do when you want to reach for caffeine. Have a plan to keep away the desire for caffeine. Know what time you must avoid caffeine in order to go to sleep on your normal sleep schedule.
 
I tried to look at pornography on my phone tonight. Over the years I have improved in the struggle against pornography, but occasionally I fall.
May God lead you to the help you need with your struggles. May you be strong in your battle to keep your mind from the evils of pornography.

Here are some links from Steve Wood’s website that you should check out for help with your pornography struggles.

Steve Wood - Family Life Center
familylifecenter.net/strugglewithporn.asp

Treating Sexual and Pornographic Addictions
dads.org/article.asp?artId=233

What is Pornography Doing to Fathers and Their Families?
familylifecenter.net/article.asp?artId=234
by Steve Wood
The venom of Internet Pornography is slowly killing the spiritual life of millions of Christian fathers. At every Catholic men’s conference I have spoken at over the past four years, I have encountered men addicted to Internet pornography. Men from every region of North America, who attend Mass every Sunday, are silently addicted to pornography.

Screwtape’s Strategies and Pornography
familylifecenter.net/article.asp?artId=235
Alias Screwtape
My Dear Wormwood:
For your careful review, I have outlined below our strategies for destroying faith and family life. Destroy this secret message immediately after reading it. This classified material comes from the lowest regions. … Now as we begin this new millennium, we must use technology to bring our master plan to completion by utilizing Internet pornography. Already we have spiritually neutralized millions of the Enemy’s men with pornography…

Steve Wood’s book Breaking Free 12 Steps to Sexual Purity for Men
familylifecenterstore.net/breaking-free/

Organizations and Resources dealing with Pornography
familylifecenter.net/article.asp?artId=241

Pure Mind Scripture Computer Program
familylifecenter.net/article.asp?artId=319
 
I tried to look at pornography on my phone tonight. Pray for God’s continued help in my struggle against pornography and self-stimulation.
When you pray for God’s help in this struggle, pray also for the women who are victims in the pornography evil web.

For help with your pornography struggles, I once heard a priest talk about the importance of a man praying for the beautiful women who they were tempted to sin when “seeing”. He said to see the woman as God sees her, that God made her beautiful and how much God loves her.

Maybe that would help you. You see these beautiful women who are precious children of God on the computer. You also see them with the images that are seared in your memory.

Ask God to release your memory of these women.

Ask God’s blessings over these women.

If you think about these women as victims, it may help as well. They truly are victims. Many of them may be in great pain as they are at the photo shoot. Some may be suppressing the pain - it is not a healthy normal function of the body or mind to submit to pornographic photography.

Why is she there? Is she addicted to drugs and needs the money? Is she being exploited by her “boyfriend” or pimp? Is she a victim of sex trafficking?

How much emotional pain is she experiencing while participating in the pornography business? How does she feel about the men who will view her body? Does she feel hatred towards each of them?

How much shame does she carry every day hoping no one recognizes her? Is she fearful she’ll be “found out” by neighbors, by people at church or her kids’ school? Is she fearful one day her children will know or her family?

Is she doing this to “survive”? Is she forced? Does she suffer low self-esteem?

Does she even know her pictures are on the pornographic sites?

Pray for these poor women. Pray they can escape the pornography business.

See these women as God sees them. Offer prayers for the suffering they endure. Ask your guardian angel to join you in prayer with the guardian angels of these women.
 
When you pray for God’s help in this struggle, pray also for the women who are victims in the pornography evil web.

For help with your pornography struggles, I once heard a priest talk about the importance of a man praying for the beautiful women who they were tempted to sin when “seeing”. He said to see the woman as God sees her, that God made her beautiful and how much God loves her.

Maybe that would help you. You see these beautiful women who are precious children of God on the computer. You also see them with the images that are seared in your memory.

Ask God to release your memory of these women.

Ask God’s blessings over these women.

If you think about these women as victims, it may help as well. They truly are victims. Many of them may be in great pain as they are at the photo shoot. Some may be suppressing the pain - it is not a healthy normal function of the body or mind to submit to pornographic photography.

Why is she there? Is she addicted to drugs and needs the money? Is she being exploited by her “boyfriend” or pimp? Is she a victim of sex trafficking?

How much emotional pain is she experiencing while participating in the pornography business? How does she feel about the men who will view her body? Does she feel hatred towards each of them?

How much shame does she carry every day hoping no one recognizes her? Is she fearful she’ll be “found out” by neighbors, by people at church or her kids’ school? Is she fearful one day her children will know or her family?

Is she doing this to “survive”? Is she forced? Does she suffer low self-esteem?

Does she even know her pictures are on the pornographic sites?

Pray for these poor women. Pray they can escape the pornography business.

See these women as God sees them. Offer prayers for the suffering they endure. Ask your guardian angel to join you in prayer with the guardian angels of these women.
These are all really good suggestions. Thanks!
 
Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee.

Blessed are you among women, and blessed is the fruit of your womb Jesus.

Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death.

Amen.

†

Our Father who art in Heaven, hallowed be thy name.

Thy kingdom come, thy will be done on Earth as it is in Heaven.

Give us this day our daily bread.

And forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us.

And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.

Amen.

†
 
Your Brain On Porn: Porn Addiction: Part 1 of 6
Helpful resource.

God Bless you.

Our father who art in heaven
Hallowed be your name
Your kingdom come
Your will be done
On earth as it is in heaven
Give us this day our daily bread
And forgive us our trespasses
As we forgive those who trespass against us
Lead us not into temptation
But deliver us from evil
Amen
 
RoseMary provided excellent resources. There’s also a website reclaimingsexualhealth.com which helps people with sexual addictions thru an online web based training program.

I’ll be praying for you later at daily Mass.
 
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