Prayer for discernment, because I am very confused

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I am a Roman Catholic, and I have picked up quite a “crush”, for a lack of a better term, for a Byzantine Catholic girl, but I am not sure if she is interested in me. At the same time, I have had many thoughts about becoming a priest/monk. I have great respect and admiration for the Byzantine rite, so I could see myself becoming a Byzantine rite priest, if God wills it (it’s NOT simply because I could potentially marry and be a priest at the same time, I am honest when I say I very much admire the Byzantine rite).

I humbly ask for your prayers to make Gods intentions clear for me, and show me what path I must take, and what I must do now and in the long term. Right now I feel confused and sad.

God bless you.
 
Hail Mary,
Full of grace,
The Lord is with Thee.
Blessed art Thou amongst women,
and blessed is the fruit of Thy womb
Jesus.
Holy Mary,
Mother of God,
Pray for us sinners,
Now and at the hour of death,
Amen.
 
Prayer for Vocation

O Lord, help me to know Your will for me. Let Your light shine in the
depths of my heart that I may know what you want me to do with my life.
Help me believe that you have a special plan for me. Lord, I know I pass
through this life only once; help me decide how you want me to make a
difference. Like our Blessed Mother, give me the wisdom to hear your
voice and the courage to answer Your call. Above all give me peace of
mind and heart. I offer this prayer in the name of Jesus Christ our Lord.
Amen.

:signofcross:

 
I understand perfectly you can be confused, Having a Crush is not a bad thing,
Having more than one thing on your mind as in deciding your future prospects .
Is also not such a bad thing,
There is a good chance this young lady is on a very different thought pattern to yourself ,
She most likely just see’s you as a nice guy to chat to, but then,does she ?
This is called Human Nature, your not the First to be confused,nor the Last,
You could always ask her if she would like to go out to a concert or something,
That would be a good start, life is one step at a time regardless of which direction you go in
 
Just spent time praying for your intention. God bless you! His Will is always the best so I asked Him to make it clear to you what that is. Be open and listen. It might be a good idea to go to Adoration before the Blessed Sacrament and pray. Stay and hour each day (if this is possible) and I am sure it will become clear to you.

In His love,
mlz

P.S. IF you have any thoughts of becoming a priest it is really important to ACT on those feelings as soon as possible to begin discerning. Talk to a priest or a spiritual director and he will guide you.
 
I am a Roman Catholic, and I have picked up quite a “crush”, for a lack of a better term, for a Byzantine Catholic girl, but I am not sure if she is interested in me. At the same time, I have had many thoughts about becoming a priest/monk. I have great respect and admiration for the Byzantine rite, so I could see myself becoming a Byzantine rite priest, if God wills it (it’s NOT simply because I could potentially marry and be a priest at the same time, I am honest when I say I very much admire the Byzantine rite).

I humbly ask for your prayers to make Gods intentions clear for me, and show me what path I must take, and what I must do now and in the long term. Right now I feel confused and sad.

God bless you.
Praying for your discernment!
 
Get to know the girl a little better. Then you’ll know if you are on the right path or not. We have a tendency to idolize our crushes, and once we get a little closer, we discover their feet are made of clay (just like you and me). Maybe your crush will become a good friendship instead of a romance.
At the risk of sounding like a heretic, please remember that marriage and family life are “callings,” too. Especially in this day and age a rock solid, faith-filled marriage is a ministry unto itself. One need not be ordained to serve God.
You don’t say how old you are, but if you are younger than 25 I think (IMO) you should take lots and lots and lots of time to explore your feelings, your interests, and the world. (You know, St. Pope John Paul II was an actor and activist looong before he became a priest.)
Enjoy the summer. Enjoy the bounty of this time of year. Have some fun, and keep listening. You’ll hear His voice sure enough.
Pray for me, too!
Michelle
 
Remember,
O most gracious Virgin Mary,
that never was it known that any one who fled to thy protection,
implored thy help or sought thy intercession,
was left unaided.
Inspired with this confidence,
I fly unto thee,
O Virgin of virgins my Mother;
to thee do I come,
before thee I stand,
sinful and sorrowful;
O Mother of thy Word Incarnate,
despise not my petitions,
but in thy clemency hear and answer me.
Amen

Hail Mary, full of grace,
The Lord is with Thee;
Blessed art thou among women,
And blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus.
Holy Mary, Mother of God,
Pray for us sinners,
Now and at the hour of our death. Amen.

Our Father,
who art in heaven,
hallowed be thy name;
thy kingdom come;
thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven.
Give us this day our daily bread;
and forgive us our trespasses
as we forgive those who trespass against us;
and lead us not into temptation,
but deliver us from evil. Amen.
 
Thank you everyone for your prayers and advice. I have been and still am going though a little bit of an emotional roller coaster. You are all in my prayers.

God bless.
 
Praying. . . . Prayer of apology and thanksgiving . . . because of forgetfulness to say “thank You” to Our Lord for all the blessings He pours on us and we do not even realize it. In addition, the thread could be closed if only a couple of people post on it and I want to get the “thank You” in. 😉 🙂

Act of Hope and Confidence in God***
St. Claude de la Colombiere
:signofcross:
My God,
I believe most firmly that You watch over all who hope in You,
and that we can want for nothing when we rely upon You in all things.
Therefore I am resolved for the future…to cast all my cares upon You…
People may deprive me of worldly goods and status.
Sickness may take from me my strength and the means of serving You.
I may even jeopardize our relationship by sin, but my trust shall never leave me.
I will preserve it to the last moment of my life, and the powers of hell shall seek
…… in vain to grab it from me.
Let others seek happiness in their wealth and in their talents.
Let them trust in the purity of their lives,
the severity of their mortifications,
in the number of their good works,
the enthusiasm of their prayers,
as for me, my Rock and my Refuge, my confidence in you fills me with hope.
For You, my Divine Protector, alone have settled me in hope.
“This confidence can never be vain. No one, who has hoped in God, has
…… ever been confounded.”
I am assured, therefore, of my eternal happiness,
…… for I firmly hope in it and all my hope is in You.
“In You, O loving God, have I hoped: let me never be confounded.”
I know too well that I am weak and changeable. I know the power of
…… temptation against the strongest virtue.
I have seen stars fall and foundations of my world crack;
…… these things do not alarm me.
While I hope in You, I am sheltered from all misfortune,
…… and I am sure that my trust shall endure,
…… for I rely upon You to sustain this unfailing hope.
Finally, I know that my confidence cannot exceed Your generosity, and that I
…… shall never receive less than I have hoped for from You.
Therefore I hope that You will sustain me against my evil inclinations,
…… that You will protect me against the deceitful attacks of the evil one,
…… and that You will cause my weakness to triumph over every hostile force.
I hope that You will never cease to love me and that I shall love You unceasingly.
“In You, O loving God, have I hoped: let me never be confounded.”

St Claude de la Colombiere, pray for us!

Apology and Thanksgiving Prayer

Heavenly Father,
Creator of all and source of all goodness and love,
please look kindly upon us,
as we ask for forgiveness for not giving You thanks.
Please receive our heartfelt apology for the lack of gratitude.
Remind us at all times that You are always worthy of our thanks.

Thank You, Heavenly Father,
for all the graces and blessings
You have bestowed upon us:
our faith and religious heritage;
the Priests who bring us the Sacraments;
our life, food and shelter;
our health, the love we have for one another;
our family and friends. Thank You for those things You so generously give us
…and of which we are not even aware.
Dear Father, in Your infinite generosity, please grant us the grace of having less
…“give me” and more gratitude throughout the coming years
…so that we may be aware that anything from You is good
…for You turn the “bad” into blessings for us.
Please Lord, grant us the grace of not forgetting that we can thank You
…over and over again for the same gift – and if we
…forget, may our Guardian Angel remind us.
Thank You, Lord.
I Love You, Lord.
Amen… …by Luz María

Hail Mary,
full of grace,
the Lord is with Thee,
blessed are Thou among women,
and blessed is the fruit
of Thy womb,
Jesus.
Code:
Holy Mary, 
Mother of God, 
pray for us sinners, 
now and at the hour of our death.
Amen.
:signofcross:

Let Nothing Disturb You
Let nothing disturb you,
Let nothing frighten you,
All things are passing away:
God never changes.

Patience,
Obtains all things,
Whoever has God
Lacks nothing:
God alone suffices.

Santa Teresa de Jesús
(Santa Teresa de Ávila)


Luz María
 
***Hail Mary,
Full of Grace,
The Lord is with thee.
Blessed art thou among women,
and blessed is the fruit
of thy womb,
Jesus.
Holy Mary,
Mother of God,
pray for us sinners now,
and at the hour of our death
Amen.

:crossrc:***
 
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