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cradlecatholic5
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ting1,
geem53 - is so right. Get to a support mtg for yourself. You don’t want to get “lost” in your loved one. This can happen so easily … as codependents, we get addicted to our addicts. AlAnon and NarAnon are wonderful 12-step programs. Lois W was a wonderful, insightful person to start AlAnon.
I’ve been there and it’s not a good place to be in - doesn’t help anyone. YOU need to get healthy. ting1, remember, you didn’t cause it, you can’t control it and you can’t cure it. The addict HAS to be ready and willing (and it’s not always in our time).
Prayers for Mike & you.
geem53 - is so right. Get to a support mtg for yourself. You don’t want to get “lost” in your loved one. This can happen so easily … as codependents, we get addicted to our addicts. AlAnon and NarAnon are wonderful 12-step programs. Lois W was a wonderful, insightful person to start AlAnon.
I’ve been there and it’s not a good place to be in - doesn’t help anyone. YOU need to get healthy. ting1, remember, you didn’t cause it, you can’t control it and you can’t cure it. The addict HAS to be ready and willing (and it’s not always in our time).
Prayers for Mike & you.
