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jonesd
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My relationship with husband for 9 years is now on test… We have three kids, all girls… A lot of issues surfaced during a 30-minute argument.
It was very hard for me to accept that he needs space and time, that he needs to find his true self and that what he’s doing is for his family… He said he’s no longer happy and have declared to friends that the relationship is over. I felt the world left me and I was depressed that I almost attempted to end my life… I have three kids, I need to keep living for them. The heartache and pain keep taunting me no matter what I do.
We have been like this for about two months now… He left the house and I’ve heard he dated or had relationship with another girl…
Just last week, he started sleeping at our house again… I tried to act like a wife… I tried to accept everything… I am willing to give the family a chance to be a family. But just when I taught I can accept everything, confusion set-in… I can no longer feel the longing, I can no longer feel the need to be family again… I love him but I don’t know to what extent I can accept him… to what extent I can love him. He himself is not sure as to what he wants to his family… he has no plans yet of fixing the family… things are clouded and far from getting things proper.
I know I need to give the family a chance to be family again… to set aside my heartaches and pains… to forgive and to accept…
Lord, guide me through… Set me in the right direction…
Please pray for me…
It was very hard for me to accept that he needs space and time, that he needs to find his true self and that what he’s doing is for his family… He said he’s no longer happy and have declared to friends that the relationship is over. I felt the world left me and I was depressed that I almost attempted to end my life… I have three kids, I need to keep living for them. The heartache and pain keep taunting me no matter what I do.
We have been like this for about two months now… He left the house and I’ve heard he dated or had relationship with another girl…
Just last week, he started sleeping at our house again… I tried to act like a wife… I tried to accept everything… I am willing to give the family a chance to be a family. But just when I taught I can accept everything, confusion set-in… I can no longer feel the longing, I can no longer feel the need to be family again… I love him but I don’t know to what extent I can accept him… to what extent I can love him. He himself is not sure as to what he wants to his family… he has no plans yet of fixing the family… things are clouded and far from getting things proper.
I know I need to give the family a chance to be family again… to set aside my heartaches and pains… to forgive and to accept…
Lord, guide me through… Set me in the right direction…
Please pray for me…