Prayer Guidance

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Prayer and the Sacraments: the source of Grace

To pray is to love Jesus. Well, we cannot love Jesus without praying. Thus, we cannot love our neighbor without prayers too. Because Jesus is the source of love. He is love and mercy itself. We, are created in his image and likeness. Can you imagine that?

Image and likeness.

Contemplate that for a moment. What does it mean? Jesus, is the second person of the Holy Trinity. Father, Son, and Holy Ghost.

The Father begot the Son in his image and likeness, and love him, with the same love with which he loves himself. And the love with which the Father love the Son, is called the Holy Spirit. Co-substantial, co-eternal.

We, are made in His Image and Likeness. Since God is love, thus, we are made to love and to be loved, by God.

Isn’t that wonderful? That is why we have a longing to be loved. And sometimes, if we do not get that love from our closest ones, that is our parents, siblings, we can be hurt and feel empty inside. Thus, we start seeking that “love” some other else.

It is interesting that Madonna, when she was 7, her mother died. And it left such a big wound in her heart, and she said to herself, “If I cannot have my mother, I will be strong and independent.” Later, her father remarried with a servant, and had 2 children, she was hurt too, because the love of the father didn’t go to her. So, she went to new York, but unfortunately, she was raped. She was a catholic, by the way. Madonna, is the title of Our Lady.

Later on, in her vulgar shows, with inappropriate images, clothing, she wore crucifix and the rosary. She even went further by writing the inappropriate song lyrics, with the title of like a virgin (A virgin is held in high regard in the Catholic church, ie. the Virgin Mary). like a prayer, and Papa don’t preach (which she intended for the Pope. The Pope is indeed her Father)

In all tribulations, we shouldn’t lose faith. How is it that we foster our faith except through prayer.

But no, it is not your regular “Father, give me a new dress, a new car, a good job, a steady relationship, a spouse.”

It’s not a prayer, it is commanding Jesus. As if he was your servant, you commanded Him.

What prayer is, according to St. Teresa Avila, “Mental prayer in my opinion is nothing else than an intimate sharing between friends; it means taking time frequently to be alone with Him who we know loves us."

“You pay God a compliment by asking great things of Him.”

'One must not think that a person who is suffering is not praying. He is offering up his sufferings to God, and many a time he is praying much more truly than one who goes away by himself and meditates his head off, and, if he has squeezed out a few tears, thinks that is prayer. "

“Suffering is a great favor. Remember that everything soon comes to an end . . . and take courage. Think of how our gain is eternal.”

“Pain is never permanent.”

“Truth suffers, but never dies.”

“I am afraid that if we begin to put our trust in human help, some of our Divine help will fail us.”

“Our greatest gain is to lose the wealth that is of such brief duration and, by comparison with eternal things, of such little worth; yet we get upset about it and our gain turns to loss.”

“We can only learn to know ourselves and do what we can - namely, surrender our will and fulfill God’s will in us.”

“Christ has no body now, but yours.
No hands, no feet on earth, but yours.
Yours are the eyes through which
Christ looks compassion into the world.
Yours are the feet
with which Christ walks to do good.
Yours are the hands
with which Christ blesses the world.”

"Remember that you have only one soul; that you have only one death to die; that you have only one life, which is short and has to be lived by you alone; and there is only one Glory, which is eternal. If you do this, there will be many things about which you care nothing. "

Let nothing trouble you,
let nothing frighten you.
All things are passing;
God never changes.
Patience obtains all things.
He who possesses God lacks nothing:
God alone suffices.

Well, that is prayer.

From a carmelite nun website:

According to St. Teresa of Jesus, prayer “is nothing else than an intimate sharing between friends”. Prayer: that one word says what Carmelite nuns are about throughout their lives. The intimate sharing St. Teresa speaks of can easily be understood when we think of someone we are close to, someone with whom no conversation is necessary in order for us to be happy and comfortable with them. That’s what prayer is: a ‘being with’ the one Friend who will be there no matter what. However there is one extraordinary difference. When we cultivate friendship with Jesus Christ, there opens up within a whole new dimension of life, one of infinite depth and meaning. We truly find Him within us where He patiently waits to be discovered. The intimacy we have with Jesus is closer than any other intimacy ever could be. He is always the place where we receive life. In prayer we find the meaning of our life, and it is a meaning continually discovered.

That’ll give you a good picture, friend. Now, there are several ways to build personal loving relationship / friendship with Jesus.
 
The Rosary

It is recommended to pray the rosary, the three mysteries, that is fifteen decades. The Joyful, Sorrowful, and Glorious Mysteries. Here is a method from St. Louis the Montfort to say the Rosary. It is very edifying, to our souls, and the souls of others.

The Second way, is the Divine Mercy Chaplet (instructions)

The Chaplet of Divine Mercy is recited on a regular rosary. It will change your life! It will obtain the mercy of God for you, and for other souls.

For each and every devotion, please insert this three intentions: For the conversion of sinners, perseverance of the just, and relief of the souls in purgatory. This is practiced by St. Anthony Mary Claret.

You can also say the litany of the saints every day.

The Way of the Cross is also a source of Grace. We can obtain graces for ourselves and for others.

Remember though, that the intentions of our prayers must be for the salvation of our souls, and the salvation for other souls those are entrusted to us (families, relatives, friends, the church, even the whole world). It is not for worldly things we ask in prayers. Or else it will be futile. Think about eternity. Think about heaven. Pray to attain it. Pray to attain holiness.

You can also offer spontaneous prayers throughout the day.

Just as St. Paul said,

Mt 7, 7-8: Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and you shall find; knock, and it shall be opened. For everyone who asks receives, and he who seeks finds, and to him who knocks it shall be opened.

Mt 26, 41: Watch and pray, that you may not enter into temptation.

Lk 21, 34-36: But take heed to yourselves, lest your hearts be overburdened … with the cares of this life… Watch, then, praying at all times.

Acts 2, 42: And they continued steadfastly in the teaching of the Apostles and in the communion of the breaking of the bread and in the prayers.

Rom 12, 12: Rejoicing in hope, . . . patient in tribulation, persevering in prayer.

1 Cor 10, 31: Therefore, whether you eat or drink, or do anything else, do all for the glory of God.

Eph 6, 18: With all prayer and supplication pray at all times in the Spirit, and therein be vigilant in all perseverance and supplication.

Col 3, 17: Whatever you do in word or in work, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him.

Col 4, 2: Be assiduous in prayer, being wakeful therein with thanksgiving.

1 Thes 5, 17-18: Pray without ceasing. In all things give thanks.

Other than this, to build personal relationship with Jesus through frequent reception of the sacraments. The Sacrament of Penance (weekly, once every two weeks, or monthly) and the Sacrament of Eucharist.

You can have one regular confessor / spiritual director, but this is very rare in this age. Choose one that is holy, lead a good life and have a good personal relationship with Jesus. Besides, you have to be careful in choosing your confessor/ spiritual director. He can guide you to the path of holiness, or he can dishearten you. As in the case of St. Teresa Avila, he met many unlearned confessors, who say mortal sin is venial. And could easily bring her soul to destruction, unless she had been vigilant. You have to pray for it. Say, Jesus, grant me the grace to be able to confess once a week. Grant me the grace of a holy spiritual director and confessor. Jesus, enlighten my confessors so that they may understand my soul. Jesus, grant me the grace to confess my sin regularly all the days of my exile until the day of my death.
 
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