Prayer is an illusion

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This is not a contradiction. You are taking one verse of Scripture out of context of the whole of Scripture. The Scriptures taken in their entirety clearly proclaim that all prayer must be made with deference to the will of God. “Yet not as I will, but as you will.” You cannot force God to act by prayer.
This is a clear contradiction of scripture:

“Again, (amen,) I say to you, if two of you agree on earth about anything for which they are to pray, it shall be granted to them by my heavenly Father.” (Matthew 18:19).
 
This is not a contradiction. You are taking one verse of Scripture out of context of the whole of Scripture. The Scriptures taken in their entirety clearly proclaim that all prayer must be made with deference to the will of God. “Yet not as I will, but as you will.” You cannot force God to act by prayer.
Man, someone should have told Jesus that. :-/

Because he said alot of stuff about answering prayers:

Matthew 17:20 : For truly, I say to you, if you have faith as a grain of mustard seed, you will say to this mountain, ‘Move from here to there,’ and it will move; and nothing will be impossible to you.

Matthew 21:21 : I tell you the truth, if you have faith and do not doubt, not only can you do what was done to the fig tree, but also you can say to this mountain, ‘Go, throw yourself into the sea,’ and it will be done. If you believe, you will receive whatever you ask for in prayer.

Mark 11:24 : Therefore I tell you, whatever you ask for in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours.

John 14:12-14 : Truly, truly, I say to you, he who believes in me will also do the works that I do; and greater works than these will he do, because I go to the Father. Whatever you ask in my name, I will do it, that the Father may be glorified in the Son; if you ask anything in my name, I will do it.

So in reality, despite your attempts to rationalize your unanswered prayers, Jesus did indeed promise in the Bible that he would answer your prayer. I don’t see how I misinterpreted what Jesus said. Jesus clearly promises to answer prayers.

Now, I can understand if the Bible is wrong here and Jesus didn’t, in fact, say that…
 
Man, someone should have told Jesus that. :-/

Because he said alot of stuff about answering prayers:

Matthew 17:20 : For truly, I say to you, if you have faith as a grain of mustard seed, you will say to this mountain, ‘Move from here to there,’ and it will move; and nothing will be impossible to you.

Matthew 21:21 : I tell you the truth, if you have faith and do not doubt, not only can you do what was done to the fig tree, but also you can say to this mountain, ‘Go, throw yourself into the sea,’ and it will be done. If you believe, you will receive whatever you ask for in prayer.

Mark 11:24 : Therefore I tell you, whatever you ask for in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours.

John 14:12-14 : Truly, truly, I say to you, he who believes in me will also do the works that I do; and greater works than these will he do, because I go to the Father. Whatever you ask in my name, I will do it, that the Father may be glorified in the Son; if you ask anything in my name, I will do it.

So in reality, despite your attempts to rationalize your unanswered prayers, Jesus did indeed promise in the Bible that he would answer your prayer. I don’t see how I misinterpreted what Jesus said. Jesus clearly promises to answer prayers.

Now, I can understand if the Bible is wrong here and Jesus didn’t, in fact, say that…
You forgot one quote from Jesus: Mark 14:36 "he said, “Abba, Father, all things are possible to you. Take this cup away from me, but not what I will but what you will.”

I never said that Jesus does not answer prayers, but that prayers must be made with deference to the will of God. With all these instances of Jesus telling people to pray and petition God it is understood that the prayers must be made according to the will of God and not to the will of man.
 
Hmmm…Prayer is an illusion?

How can something that has verifiably worked (Quite faithfully in my own experience…and) probably millions of times be illusory in nature?

Illogical.
 
Hmmm…Prayer is an illusion?

How can something that has verifiably worked (Quite faithfully in my own experience…and) probably millions of times be illusory in nature?

Illogical.
I would never have put it more eloquently than this. :clapping:
 
I actually prayed twice today, and a couple times the day before. God didn’t answer – yet!! Still hopin’ though!

If you see him, tell him that I’m ready to chat. He has my number.
Are you praying for patience?😃 😉

I think you are an incredible seeker of truth…and there’s nothing wrong with that, Exalt. I see you as a diligent seeker of truth. None of us should ever stop seeking.
 
However, I have one big problem with your response, which I do not feel you have addressed sufficiently: You said that “We all agree at the outset that the idol doesn’t answer prayers.” Of course, that’s true. Now, my question is this: can you show that God answers prayers while the stone idol doesn’t?
But this is what I’m trying to get across, we both agree that the stone idol doesn’t answer prayers. I mean, why would I ever waste my time trying to prove to you that the idol doesn’t answer prayers when it’s agreed by both parties? Look, I understand your point. You don’t believe there is evidence that God answers prayers, just like you don’t believe there is evidence that the idol answers prayers. All I’m telling you is that your analogy doesn’t help me to understand anything more about your argument. You demand evidence pursuant to the scientific method, and the “yes” and “no” method doesn’t give it to you. I don’t need the idol to understand what you’re saying here.
But, can you show that the Christian God truly answers prayers?
Yes.
This is leading to the point which you hit on: “we understand that you can’t confirm to your satisfaction that God answers prayers or ever grants what’s requested.” My question is this: ***why ***can’t we confirm, in a substantial and conclusive way, that God does indeed perform miracles in response to prayer?
We can. The problem is that you demand it through a methodology (the scientific method) that can’t possibly give you any meaningful results. I am surprised you haven’t seen why yet. I’ll explain below.
There are two possibilities:
  1. God wants to remain hidden.
  2. God doesn’t exist.
There are actually quite a few other possibilities, one of which is that there is substantial evidence that God answers prayers, but that it is not verifiable through the scientific method. I will say, your demand for proof through this method is inherently unreasonable.
(5) Those heart attack patients should get better.
I agreed with all of your premises, but your conclusion doesn’t follow from them. I’ll explain why if you are interested.
Indeed, if all the heart attack patients that were prayed for got better - and it was verifiable and scientific - I would be a Christian right now, asking God for forgiveness.
Really. How would you know that it wasn’t just the power of the mind that was the cause? How would you know it wasn’t just a freak statistical anomaly, or a mistake in the study? I can sympathize with God and why he refuses to give signs to an unbelieving age.
But when God declares something true, it should be true, right?

Then why isn’t Matthew 18:19 true? Why weren’t those patients healed?
Yes. Because your interpretation of Mt. 18-19 is not the way any Catholic I know understands it. It also defies common sense that Christ ever meant it the way you insist it be understood. So God will grant my prayer to live to be 500 years old on this Earth if I just have another person pray with me for that to happen. Come on. You are ignoring the rest of Scripture. I’ve already dealt with this in this post: forums.catholic-questions.org/showpost.php?p=2262317&postcount=94
Could you list some of those pieces of information? It appears we have everything we need.
Sure. I’ve been a test subject before, and I have some very limited training in psychology; much more in statistics. One of the controls is that the subject is not told the actual purpose of the study; otherwise this knowledge might influence the subject and skew the results. Normally, there is comprehensive written history taken of the subject along with an I.Q. test. All of this is aimed to figure out what is affecting this person’s behavior. Because that’s what science studies; natural causes and not free choices made by persons. None of this by definition can apply to God. I realize that probably bothers you, but there’s nothing I can do about it. It is what it is. It doesn’t even apply to human beings very well, who also have free will. That’s why the behavioral sciences have to so tightly control the tests they conduct. They are trying to figure out a natural cause of the person’s conduct, not what his free choice was. Does this make any sense to you?
 
Okay. But first I need to know where you now stand on some of these issues. Otherwise I think I’ll be wasting both or our time.
  1. Do you agree that God has not bound Himself to fulfill every request made to him in prayer?
  2. Do you agree that there are reasons to doubt that the scientific method applied through statistical studies can give meaningful results with regard to the free choices of persons?
If you can accept both of these, then I can proceed.
 
Okay. But first I need to know where you now stand on some of these issues. Otherwise I think I’ll be wasting both or our time.
  1. Do you agree that God has not bound Himself to fulfill every request made to him in prayer?
It is theologically unacceptable that God would fulfull every request made to him in prayer. This is difficult to reconcile with scripture, where Jesus very clearly says otherwise. But if I was a Christian, I wouldn’t accept the inspiration of scripture anyway, so it wouldn’t be a problem.
  1. Do you agree that there are reasons to doubt that the scientific method applied through statistical studies can give meaningful results with regard to the free choices of persons?
I’m not sure on this one. I’m not a student of psychology (I’m actually a theology student, believe it or not), so I can’t say for sure. But let’s pretend, for the sake of argument, that I do.
 
Exalt;2263292But none of these answers are adequate: said:
*]God hasn’t answered thousands of very needy prayers. Why does God pick some prayers to answer, while other people’s prayers go neglected?

Perhaps you’re thinking to yourself – “Well, God answers prayers with ‘No’ sometimes. We should just be patient and trust in God.” But this is not an acceptable answer. It merely says “Hey, I don’t really know why God answers ‘no’ to some very needy people and not to others, but I’m not going to worry about it and trust in God anyway.”

Why don’t you ask my Stone Idol to answer a prayer? I can assure you that he will. It may not be the answer you want to hear, but he will answer it – with a “yes” “no” or “wait.” Go ahead, ask for anything.

God is exactly the same way. God can’t lose either. No matter what I or anyone else prays for, you will always have an explanation.

In the scientific study that I cited in my original post, the people
…The result is quantifiable…

I always recieve an answer to prayer. Not by the yes no or maybe critera you set forward. This is just silly. You see God requires faith present and working. An act of faith on your part. We see this all over scripture and in life if you bother to look. A lot of people ask for a lot of things, but dont really believe they have any chance of getting them. The faith of a musterd seed can move a mountain. You yourself can ask god for anything you want but until you ask with some expactation that you are going to be given what you ask for, until till you are honestly asking for an encounter with a real person (ie GOD) you will never get an answer. Because you have no faith. You are busy trying to quantify God. God should do this and not that it says so in my study. You can make a study say anthing you want. In fact most study do. They say exactly what the people who paid for them wanted them to say before they were undertaken. Ask the tobacoo companies. You can’t prove what I will do today by a study. I might decide to do something totally different then I have ever done. I might go hang gliding. Your study cant tell you about a concious decision I might make. Science cannot study religion. science is “the intellectual and practical activity encompassing the systematic study of the structure and behavior of the physical and natural world through observation and experiment : the world of science and technology.” It has no way of studing the spiritual. No way of measuring God. Nor is a scienticific study going to be able to gadge a persons actions if one of the premisses of the study, implied and assumed in the case of the study sited in the original post, is that the person does not exist, may never have existed in the first place, and cannot be talked to by us in the hear and now.
 
It is theologically unacceptable that God would fulfull every request made to him in prayer. This is difficult to reconcile with scripture, where Jesus very clearly says otherwise.

You’re right on that, Exalt. God doesn’t grant us our wishes, if they are not a) in our best interests and b) if it isn’t God’s will.

When we pray to God, and say…‘I ask this through Christ, the Lord,’ it doesn’t mean that Jesus was saying that all zany desires would come true. God’s will still prevails, and His is always better than ours.
 
It is theologically unacceptable that God would fulfull every request made to him in prayer. This is difficult to reconcile with scripture, where Jesus very clearly says otherwise.
It is also scripturally unacceptable, and probably exegetically unacceptable as well, although I’ll admit I’m no expert exegete. You would have to ignore the other passages I cited (and many others) to walk away with the understanding that Christ in Matthew 18:19 is saying that two Christians together may ask for anything and it will be granted to them by God. Presumably two of the apostles then could have requested that Jesus not undergo the crucifixion; something that Jesus Himself “requested” of God, yet with the understanding that it would be God’s will he would follow regardless.

To interpret it your way, Jesus would have known he was engaging in a contradiction with other revelation and that he was teaching something that he knew the Father would never fulfill. To what end? Once two Christians tried it they would have to conclude that what Jesus said (if we interpret it your way) is false. The best way I can think of to immediately end Christianity as a movement. If we don’t infer in light of the other passages of Scripture that the request must be in accordance with God’s will, then it results in utter nonsense that can only serve to mortally damage Christ’s veracity and His mission. The reasonable conclusion is that your interpretation of this passage is mistaken.
But if I was a Christian, I wouldn’t accept the inspiration of scripture anyway, so it wouldn’t be a problem.
Um, it would be an immense problem. The only standard of God’s revelation that we have as Christians is Scripture. Even Tradition must find its ground their. If Scripture does not accurately reflect God’s word to man, then we have no idea (except through natural theology, which is inherently limited) what God is and what He asks of us. So I take it that your conclusion is that God has not bound Himself to fulfill all requests, not because of what Scripture says, but in spite of what Scripture says (your interpretation of it anyway). Although you claim to have come to that conclusion on a theological basis, I suspect that just the opposite is true.
I’m not sure on this one. I’m not a student of psychology (I’m actually a theology student, believe it or not), so I can’t say for sure. But let’s pretend, for the sake of argument, that I do.
I don’t believe you need to be a student of psychology. Let’s say that you make a statement to a researcher that your favorite dessert is ice cream. He wants to determine if this is really the case, so he sets up a study where every day you have an unlimited number of desserts you can choose from to eat for six months, including ice cream. Lo and behold, the first few days you have ice cream for dessert. But then suddenly you choose to have other desserts. You have one particular low fat dessert over and over again. Little did the researcher know that you had exercised your freedom to go on a six month low fat diet. You didn’t do so arbitrarily. You had your reasons, whether it be to lose weight or stay healthy etc. At the end of the study, the researcher concludes that ice cream is not your favorite dessert; but of course it still is. The uncontrolled variables associated with free choice make the study worthless.

I’m not willing to engage in a debate where for the sake of argument you pretend to accept my proposition here. The time and effort it will take to affirmatively demonstrate that God does answer prayers will already be considerable without your disbelief on these two points. I am satisfied that with what I and others have presented that you have not given evidence that prayer is an illusion.
 
It is also scripturally unacceptable, and probably exegetically unacceptable as well, although I’ll admit I’m no expert exegete. You would have to ignore the other passages I cited (and many others) to walk away with the understanding that Christ in Matthew 18:19 is saying that two Christians together may ask for anything and it will be granted to them by God.
Scripture is full of contradicting accounts. In one part of the Bible, action X is condemned, but in another part, it’s encouraged. In a number of passages, Jesus says that God responds to every single prayer - and, in a number of other passages, it’s clear that that isn’t true.

“Interpret” things as you will, but I’ll call it like it is - Scripture is many things, but it is not the inspired Word of God.

Besides, can you just get to the point already and show that God answers prayers?
Once two Christians tried it they would have to conclude that what Jesus said (if we interpret it your way) is false.
And thus “symbolic interpretation” was born.
I’m not willing to engage in a debate where for the sake of argument you pretend to accept my proposition here. The time and effort it will take to affirmatively demonstrate that God does answer prayers will already be considerable without your disbelief on these two points. I am satisfied that with what I and others have presented that you have not given evidence that prayer is an illusion.
Proving a negative is very difficult. But why should I believe the opposite - that prayer actually does something?
 
Scripture is full of contradicting accounts.
Ah, I see that we have more problems with the claims of Christianity than just a dissatisfaction with the evidence for the power of prayer.
In one part of the Bible, action X is condemned, but in another part, it’s encouraged. In a number of passages, Jesus says that God responds to every single prayer - and, in a number of other passages, it’s clear that that isn’t true.
You haven’t shown that is the case with the passage we are discussing. I tell people frequently on the telephone where I work “If there is anything else you need, let me know and I’ll get it to you.” Of course, they recognize that if they ask me for a million dollars I’m not going to give it to them.
“Interpret” things as you will, but I’ll call it like it is - Scripture is many things, but it is not the inspired Word of God.
Anytime we read anything and try to understand it we are engaging in interpretation by necessity. So we are both interpreting this scriptural passage. It’s just that your interpretation has been demonstrated to be unreasonable. It looks like the “interpret” in quotes applies to you.
Besides, can you just get to the point already and show that God answers prayers?
No, not if you continue to unreasonably reject the proposition that God has not promised in Scripture to fulfill every request to Him made in prayer.
And thus “symbolic interpretation” was born.
I have no idea what this means. I have never heard the term “symbolic interpretation” before.
Proving a negative is very difficult. But why should I believe the opposite - that prayer actually does something?
You give yourself far too much credit. Please understand, it isn’t that you just haven’t quite managed to prove a negative, it’s that your arguments for the proposition that prayer is an illusion are unreasonable and invalid. In other words, you haven’t provided any evidence that God doesn’t answer prayers.

You stubbornly hold to an interpretation of Matthew 18:19 that would be immediately destructive of Christianity, to the exclusion of other parts of Scripture that make it reasonable and understandable, and to the exclusion of every Catholic interpretation I’ve ever seen. You obstinately refuse to recognize the limitations of statistical analysis, in spite of the multiple warnings contained in the very article to which you cite and after it’s explained to you why it won’t work.

And this is why God exercises his choice not to give signs to this age. It will still be rejected no matter how many unreasonable objections it takes. For the same reason, I exercise my choice not to provide you with evidence that God fulfills requests made in prayer. And the point still stands - you have not provided any evidence that prayer is an illusion.
 
You haven’t shown that is the case with the passage we are discussing. I tell people frequently on the telephone where I work “If there is anything else you need, let me know and I’ll get it to you.” Of course, they recognize that if they ask me for a million dollars I’m not going to give it to them.
Fair enough. But what about something really simple. What about “Hey, man, I was wondering if we could have dinner tonight.”? If you could, you probably would, right? Or if you couldn’t, you’d explain why and reschedule.

God has basically made the same promise (“If there is anything else you need, let me know and I’ll get it to you”). But, if I were to ask God to sit down and talk to me, in a tangible way, he isn’t going to answer (in any way that couldn’t be attributed to coincidence). The possibilities:
  1. God seems to ignore us, or
  2. he really *really *wants to remain unseen.
And this is why God exercises his choice not to give signs to this age. It will still be rejected no matter how many unreasonable objections it takes. For the same reason, I exercise my choice not to provide you with evidence that God fulfills requests made in prayer. And the point still stands - you have not provided any evidence that prayer is an illusion.
What if I told you there was an invisible, silent cat in your room right now. Wherever you moved, it would move away from you. No matter what you said or what you did, you would have no evidence for it’s existance.

Could you prove that it wasn’t there?

There’s no real way that you could. Let’s say that you put out a can of tuna for the cat to eat. I tell you that the cat can walk through walls and gets his food eslewhere, so he usually isn’t hungry. Let’s say you put motion sensors everywhere. I tell you that the cat is impervious to motion sensors, and they wouldn’t show anything.

With prayer, is there any way I could disprove the effectiveness of prayer conclusively, to your satisfaction? I don’t think there’s any way that I could, or anyone could. You will always have a rationalization or explaination.

Let’s say I pray to Jesus to appear to me. He doesn’t, obviously. I ask you why - and you tell me Jesus just chose not to, for whatever reason.

Let’s say I ask for Jesus to help my grandmother survive her stroke. She doesn’t. I ask you why - and you tell me Jesus just chose not to, for whatever reason.

Let’s say a person in the midst of the Holocaust asks for God to save him. He doesn’t and the person dies. I ask you why - and you tell me Jesus just chose not to, for whatever reason.

So basically, Jesus has no obligation to answer ANY prayer. I could ask for anything - and it might or might not happen. There’s no way to prove it either way. If something good happens, it’s God will. If not, God just chose not to help out, for whatever reason.

You’ve stacked the deck. There is no way for God to lose.

But to me? It’s as silly as an invisible cat in the room. God answers prayers? No. Good stuff happens and bad stuff happens. To say there’s an invisible, all-knowing deity watching over all of us is just ridiculous. Every single “miracle” is nothing more than a coincidence.And for the small ones, here and there, that are difficult to explain, they aren’t reproducable enough to suffice as evidence.
No, not if you continue to unreasonably reject the proposition that God has not promised in Scripture to fulfill every request to Him made in prayer.
Listen. You’re not understanding what I’m saying to you.

If I believed in God, obviously I could in no way accept the proposition that God answers every single prayer. I’ve never *said *that if I believed in God, that he would answer every single prayer. In Matthew 18:19, Matthew 21:21, Mark 11:24, John 14:12-14, I would have to take the position that Jesus really meant that he would answer prayers, but could choose not to if he wanted, for whatever reason.

But, a **core element of Christianity **is that God *does *answer prayers. Not every prayer. Not in the exact way that we want to. But he *does *answer them.
 
Proving a negative is very difficult. But why should I believe the opposite - that prayer actually does something?
Maybe it doesn’t work for you because you tend to look over some very important instructions form the manual?
Matthew 23:12 And whosoever shall exalt himself shall be humbled: and he that shall humble himself shall be exalted.

This from the Peoples New Testament-
"Whosoever shall exalt himself, etc*. A universal rule in the kingdom of God. Humility is an essential element of progress in it."*

***But once again if you come back to read this, another prayer of mine has been answered. :gopray2: ***

Romans 1:21 Because that, when they knew God, they have not glorified him as God or given thanks: but became vain in their thoughts. And their foolish heart was darkened.

Romans 1:28 And as they liked not to have God in their knowledge, God delivered them up to a reprobate sense, to do those things which are not convenient.

But of course maybe God just gave up you?
 
God has basically made the same promise (“If there is anything else you need, let me know and I’ll get it to you”). But, if I were to ask God to sit down and talk to me, in a tangible way, he isn’t going to answer (in any way that couldn’t be attributed to coincidence). The possibilities:

I think that maybe it isn’t God who isn’t talking but you who isn’t listening. You cannot hear God with your ears like you can here your friend. God is bigger than that. Think of an unborn child, when he is in his mothers tummy, he can hear his mothers voice with vibration, warmth, when she touches her stomach, he know by pressing against the touch with a hand or a foot. We are the same we can hear our Fathers voice with our hearts. We can choose to act like spoiled brats and refuse to hear Him and declare that He never talks to me in the way I want Him to. Or we can be grateful that he has spoken to you. Remember God comes in a small still voice. Not in a loud demanding voice.
  1. God seems to ignore us, or
  2. he really *really *wants to remain unseen.
I think that it is not Him who really wants to remain unseen, because if you really look you would see Him. Maybe it is you who wants Him to be unseen because you are refusing to see Him unless it is on your terms.
I think maybe if you would actually stop to think of the many, many ways you keep refusing to see God and Hear God you may be able to see who wrong you are on this. God has never left us and He never will. He is just waiting for us to respond to Him, But just because we don’t that doesn’t mean He has given up on us.

Good luck in your journey and I will pray that you will soon learn to see and hear our Lord.
 
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