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MaryTheresa2
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Please pray for my ex boyfriend and his mother for conversion, my ex to be baptized, we get back together and get married, and that both he and his mother are healed by Jesus’s divine mercy and love. His mother also had an abortion while she was married to his father. I pray for her baby who did not have a chance to live in our world and have spiritually adopted him/her. I pray that through the intercession of Jesus, Mary that this little one will be able to help both of them too.
I am very distraught over the breakup as it came suddenly and swiftly. Being a Catholic I trust will heal my brokenness. I feel so much pain for my ex’s losses and how his mother has denied him so much and he cannot see it. He and I are middle-aged and no teenagers. His mother’s life had to be hell, but Christ’s love and mercy is miraculous. I love him so much and I know he loves me. However, she has a hatred for Catholicism, against marriage, praises herself for being a hippie (she’s not), and is an all-around very troubled and vicious woman. She refused to baptize her son and manipulates everyone (especially men) for her needs. She is more Gestapo than human. She has stopped my ex from communicating with his father and brother. My ex says she stresses him out very badly and his childhood and adulthood was sheer hell due to her. He stopped talking to her for over two years and joined the service when he was younger to get away from her. At some point they reconciled and he tries to be a good son and helps her. She uses his good faith and manipulates as it suits her purposes…i.e. help with house stuff, lonely when she has no dinner plans, etc. And gives him “life lessons” because she has so much more life experience!
She is a recreational pot user and introduced her son to the stuff when he was a teen. He is the nicest and hardest working person with a heart of gold and when we were together he wanted to understand Catholicism but not convert. I never pressured him and understood his pot use is to treat his anxiety and back pain (medical) since he has a card and its legal. I don’t approve of it, but he has stopped using before and could do it again he said…he stopped smoking cigarettes cold turkey for a year now… She has beat his self-esteem down for so long, he has been a loner most of his life, working towards retirement as his only life goal. She is threatened that he will stop pot! When he met me his world lit up and we worked out any differences calmly and rarely had a fight because we communicated our hurts and issues…healthy. He had Christmas with my mom and I he asked if he could call my mother, “mom”. He wanted me to get registered at the Catholic Church in his area (I did) , and get ready to attend pre-canna. When his mother realized how serious we became (I knew him a year+) we talked marriage and kids, even went to my OBGYN to see what we could do since I’m almost past the age but wanted to try). His mom stopped her vacation and came to town to meet me. I had no idea how sweet acid could be! She verbally abused me on at least two occasions (with him not around) and finally wore him down to leave me. We physically said goodbye yesterday and he held back the tears and hugged each other for a long time but he could not get passed the decision his mother influenced him to make (he told me this).
I feel Christ’s pain each time his mother denies Christ and manipulates her son against God. I love this man because I see Christ in him, he cried with me, and even started to acknowledge Him. I want to marry him but I have surrendered this to God, as I know that he has issues to heal and only God knows what is best for his healing. This is the miracle I ask you to help me pray for…
I have never said an unkind word about his mother and encouraged him to love her but be wary of her guidance. I allowed her verbal attacks. I forgive her and pray for her, her aborted child and my ex. I ask for as many prayers as possible for this family.
I know God put them both in my life for a reason. I have seen Evil manifest and destroy all attempts of God’s entry into our relationship via the mask of a “mother’s love for her son”. I am the only one who prays for them. I beg you all who can, please help me pray and I ask for a miracle…My ex is really naïve and has little understanding in this area and is weak. Not an excuse-just the truth…I have no contact with him any longer, only through prayers and at Adoration.
Please, please help me ask the Lord for a miracle soon…
God bless you for reading this long request. God asks us to pray most for our enemies or those that shun Him, hurt us. There are many miracles of conversion in this world, I ask that my ex and his mother are two…and healing for all…including me. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. I pray that Evil is conquered with God’s will , we will marry someday in the not too distant future. God bless and thank you…
I am very distraught over the breakup as it came suddenly and swiftly. Being a Catholic I trust will heal my brokenness. I feel so much pain for my ex’s losses and how his mother has denied him so much and he cannot see it. He and I are middle-aged and no teenagers. His mother’s life had to be hell, but Christ’s love and mercy is miraculous. I love him so much and I know he loves me. However, she has a hatred for Catholicism, against marriage, praises herself for being a hippie (she’s not), and is an all-around very troubled and vicious woman. She refused to baptize her son and manipulates everyone (especially men) for her needs. She is more Gestapo than human. She has stopped my ex from communicating with his father and brother. My ex says she stresses him out very badly and his childhood and adulthood was sheer hell due to her. He stopped talking to her for over two years and joined the service when he was younger to get away from her. At some point they reconciled and he tries to be a good son and helps her. She uses his good faith and manipulates as it suits her purposes…i.e. help with house stuff, lonely when she has no dinner plans, etc. And gives him “life lessons” because she has so much more life experience!
She is a recreational pot user and introduced her son to the stuff when he was a teen. He is the nicest and hardest working person with a heart of gold and when we were together he wanted to understand Catholicism but not convert. I never pressured him and understood his pot use is to treat his anxiety and back pain (medical) since he has a card and its legal. I don’t approve of it, but he has stopped using before and could do it again he said…he stopped smoking cigarettes cold turkey for a year now… She has beat his self-esteem down for so long, he has been a loner most of his life, working towards retirement as his only life goal. She is threatened that he will stop pot! When he met me his world lit up and we worked out any differences calmly and rarely had a fight because we communicated our hurts and issues…healthy. He had Christmas with my mom and I he asked if he could call my mother, “mom”. He wanted me to get registered at the Catholic Church in his area (I did) , and get ready to attend pre-canna. When his mother realized how serious we became (I knew him a year+) we talked marriage and kids, even went to my OBGYN to see what we could do since I’m almost past the age but wanted to try). His mom stopped her vacation and came to town to meet me. I had no idea how sweet acid could be! She verbally abused me on at least two occasions (with him not around) and finally wore him down to leave me. We physically said goodbye yesterday and he held back the tears and hugged each other for a long time but he could not get passed the decision his mother influenced him to make (he told me this).
I feel Christ’s pain each time his mother denies Christ and manipulates her son against God. I love this man because I see Christ in him, he cried with me, and even started to acknowledge Him. I want to marry him but I have surrendered this to God, as I know that he has issues to heal and only God knows what is best for his healing. This is the miracle I ask you to help me pray for…
I have never said an unkind word about his mother and encouraged him to love her but be wary of her guidance. I allowed her verbal attacks. I forgive her and pray for her, her aborted child and my ex. I ask for as many prayers as possible for this family.
I know God put them both in my life for a reason. I have seen Evil manifest and destroy all attempts of God’s entry into our relationship via the mask of a “mother’s love for her son”. I am the only one who prays for them. I beg you all who can, please help me pray and I ask for a miracle…My ex is really naïve and has little understanding in this area and is weak. Not an excuse-just the truth…I have no contact with him any longer, only through prayers and at Adoration.
Please, please help me ask the Lord for a miracle soon…
God bless you for reading this long request. God asks us to pray most for our enemies or those that shun Him, hurt us. There are many miracles of conversion in this world, I ask that my ex and his mother are two…and healing for all…including me. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. I pray that Evil is conquered with God’s will , we will marry someday in the not too distant future. God bless and thank you…
