Prayers for a life change

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I am Schizoaffective Bipolar Type and have been my whole adult life. I am 47 now and my parents have always taken care of me financially for the most part. I am considering asking for the doctor to write for a higher level of care and all my worries would be taken care of by the state then. I would be greatly restricted at the new facility as far as my freedom goes. I seem to be getting sicker as I get older and want more help now. What I need God to make clear is am I giving up or giving in to the inevitable.:confused:

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Nazgul

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Hail Mary, full of Grace
the Lord is with thee
Blessed art thou amongst women
and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus
Holy Mary, Mother of God
Pray for us sinners
Now and at the hour of our death

Amen

Remember, O most gracious Virgin Mary, that never was it known that anyone who fled to your protection, implored your help, or sought your intercession, was left unaided.
Inspired by this confidence, I fly unto you, O Virgin of virgins, my Mother!
To you do I come, before you I stand, sinful and sorrowful.
O Mother of the Word Incarnate, despise not my petitions, but in your mercy, hear and answer me.

Amen
 
Nazgul_Wraith said:
I am Schizoaffective Bipolar Type and have been my whole adult life. I am 47 now and my parents have always taken care of me financially for the most part. I am considering asking for the doctor to write for a higher level of care and all my worries would be taken care of by the state then. I would be greatly restricted at the new facility as far as my freedom goes. I seem to be getting sicker as I get older and want more help now. What I need God to make clear is am I giving up or giving in to the inevitable.:confused:

Thank You
Nazgul

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Praying for you to get the help you need. God bless.
 
REMEMBER, O most gracious Virgin Mary, that never was it known that anyone who fled to thy protection, implored thy help, or sought thy intercession was left unaided. Inspired with this confidence, I fly to thee, O Virgin of virgins, my Mother; to thee do I come; before thee I stand, sinful and sorrowful. O Mother of the Word Incarnate, despise not my petitions, but in thy mercy hear and answer me. Amen.
 
Nazgul_Wraith said:
I am Schizoaffective Bipolar Type and have been my whole adult life. I am 47 now and my parents have always taken care of me financially for the most part. I am considering asking for the doctor to write for a higher level of care and all my worries would be taken care of by the state then. I would be greatly restricted at the new facility as far as my freedom goes. I seem to be getting sicker as I get older and want more help now. What I need God to make clear is am I giving up or giving in to the inevitable.:confused:

Thank You
Nazgul

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Praying for you…talk to your dr about your options and make sure you fully understand before you decide what to do
God bless
 
Nazgul_Wraith said:
I am Schizoaffective Bipolar Type and have been my whole adult life. I am 47 now and my parents have always taken care of me financially for the most part. I am considering asking for the doctor to write for a higher level of care and all my worries would be taken care of by the state then. I would be greatly restricted at the new facility as far as my freedom goes. I seem to be getting sicker as I get older and want more help now. What I need God to make clear is am I giving up or giving in to the inevitable.:confused:

Thank You
Nazgul

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Nazgul,

I am so sorry to hear of this very difficult situation. My brother is severely Bi-polar and has lived at home all of his life as a result. (He tried the Navy for one year but was discharged as a result of his mental health.) So, I do understand how hard this is for you and your family.

We are lucky as my brother has always recognized and admitted when he needs more help or even to be hospitalized. It sounds to me like you have this kind of awareness and that is a courageous thing. If you feel that you would be safer and have more consistent care in a more restricted setting then I would suggest you share this with your doctors.

My sister and I know that my brother could not ever make it on his own, and when our dad passes we are going to have a great difficulty to deal with. My sister is actually terminally ill and could never take care of my brother. I know that I cannot help him the way my dad does, so we worry about his future greatly.

My hope for you is that you make a wise and safe decision, and that for you and people like my brother there will be a break through in mental health care that would improve your abilities to function and be cured. In the meantime you might see if there is a program that works with the mentally ill in group-home settings versus a large facility.

God’s Peace to you and your family.
 
Hail Mary, full of grace,
the Lord is with thee.
Blessed art thou amongst women,
and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus.
Holy Mary, Mother of God,
pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death.

Amen.
 
Nazgul_Wraith said:
I am Schizoaffective Bipolar Type and have been my whole adult life. I am 47 now and my parents have always taken care of me financially for the most part. I am considering asking for the doctor to write for a higher level of care and all my worries would be taken care of by the state then. I would be greatly restricted at the new facility as far as my freedom goes. I seem to be getting sicker as I get older and want more help now. What I need God to make clear is am I giving up or giving in to the inevitable.:confused:

Thank You
Nazgul

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I’m sorry to hear about that. I enjoy having as much independence as possible, as well. That’ll be a hard decision, then.

When I have difficult decisions, I take out a piece of paper. On one side, I write…pros. On the other, I write “cons”.

I look at them, and sometimes, this process helps me to see it more objectively. Or, sometimes, talking to someone, preferably a neutral third party, like a counselor, can help advise you, give you ideas on this.

Can you still come on the forum after that?

I’ll say a prayer for you.

Hail Mary, Full of grace, the Lord is with thee.

Blessed are you among women, and blessed is the fruit of your womb Jesus.

Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death.

Amen.
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For I know that as you pray for me and the Spirit of Jesus Christ helps me, this will lead to my deliverance Phil. 1:19

May the Spirit of Jesus Christ deliver you from all evil, and bring you to a place of comfort and peace.
 
Our Father who art in Heaven, hallowed be thy name.

Thy kingdom come, thy will be done on Earth as it is in Heaven.

Give us this day our daily bread.

And forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us.

And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.

Amen.

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Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee.

Blessed are you among women, and blessed is the fruit of your womb Jesus.

Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death.

Amen.

†
 
Dear Lord please help our friend Dan and bring him any help he may need and guidance in his life so he may be happy and content.Lord please help Dan. Thankyou Lord for hearing our prayers Amen

Eternal God , in whom mercy is endless,
and the treasury of compassion inexhastible ,
look kindly upon us and increase Your mercy in us ,
that in difficult moments we might not despair
nor become despondent , but with great confidence ,
submit ourselves to Your Holy Will ,
which is love and mercy itself . Amen

Memorare (Prayer to Our Lady)
Remember, O most gracious Virgin Mary, that never was it known that anyone who fled to your protection, implored your help, or sought your intercession, was left unaided.
Inspired by this confidence, I fly unto you, O Virgin of virgins, my Mother. To you do I come, before you I stand, sinful and sorrowful. O Mother of the Word Incarnate, despise not my petitions, but in your mercy, hear and answer me. Amen
 
I am praying for you and that you may find peace in Christ. If you’re not already, please make sure you get the help and counseling you need (look up the website for Catholic Charities in your diocese).
Our Father,
who art in heaven,
hallow be thy name.
Thy kingdom come,
thy will be done,
on earth as it is in heaven.
Give us this day our daily bread,
and forgive us our trespasses
as we forgive those who trespass against us.
And lead us not into temptation
but deliver us from evil.
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Praying that the Lord may grant you guidance and all necessary graces.

O Blood and Water, which gushed forth from the Heart of Jesus as a fountain of Mercy for us, I trust in You!
 
Eternal God , in whom mercy is endless,
and the treasury of compassion inexhastible ,
look kindly upon us and increase Your mercy in us ,
that in difficult moments we might not despair
nor become despondent , but with great confidence ,
submit ourselves to Your Holy Will ,
which is love and mercy itself . Amen

Memorare (Prayer to Our Lady)
Remember, O most gracious Virgin Mary, that never was it known that anyone who fled to your protection, implored your help, or sought your intercession, was left unaided.
Inspired by this confidence, I fly unto you, O Virgin of virgins, my Mother. To you do I come, before you I stand, sinful and sorrowful. O Mother of the Word Incarnate, despise not my petitions, but in your mercy, hear and answer me Amen
 
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