Prayers for a Troubled Marriage

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I would like to ask for prayers for my marriage. We are going through some very tough times. For two weeks now my wife has been staying with a friend. In one way I suppose I should be thanking God that she did leave because I do not think I would have been able to see how much I was making things miserable for her at home. There has been no abuse, no infidelities or drugs/alcohol. It has been more of a matter of not valuing what is important to her. For many years now I have pushed aside what is important to her. It has created an unhappy home to the point where she felt she needed to leave to stay with a friend. She has been gone almost two weeks. We do talk but it is still too hard for her to come back to our home.

Every day I pray and also pray the rosary (sometimes several times a day). It is something I did not do as frequently as I should have prior to all that has happened recently. Prayer and reflection have made me realize how I failed her as a husband. I pray for her to come home so that we may begin the process of resolving our issues and strengthening our marriage. I am very eager to show her that I have changed. I want us to go to counseling so that work out our issues. I have no doubt that if she was to return home and we get help our marriage would be stronger.

I ask for prayers for my wife and I. Pray that she will be willing to return home so that we can work through our issues. Thanks all for your help.
 
Amazing heartfelt post.

Prayers now…for you and your wife…your marriage…and today in the Most Holy Sacrifice of Mass and in the Most Holy Rosary.

Saint Joseph is a great ally for us guys in our marriages…as husbands and fathers. Also, don’t forget to call on Blessed Pope John Paul II (soon to be canonized…date is pending).

May Peace reign in your hearts…in your marriage and in your household.
Pax Christi
 
I am sorry that you are going through this, but thankful that it may be what you needed to save your marriage. I pray that the Lord grant both of you the wisdom to see His will and the courage to carry it out. I also pray that the Lord console each of you during this time as you struggle emotionally. May He comfort you and may His will be done.
 
Thank the Lord that you have seen the errors of your ways and are now willing to change your thinking and actions toward her. Talking to her on the phone is not enough to make her want to come home at this point. You are going to have to show her.

You know where she is. Send her flowers with loving notes. Send her cards which express your love for her. Send her letters of confession, and what you are willing to do to make her feel valuable to you. Tell her repeatedly that you love her and will do whatever it takes to make her feel like she means the world to you.

Get counseling together now. That may ease her mind and heart that you really mean it this time.

My prayers go out to you and your wife that you may find true happiness and joy once again (or even for the first time) in your marriage.

May God bless you and keep you this day and until eternity.
 
I agree with kmcarl56.

Actions speak louder than words. Find ways to show her how you have changed and how you will value what is important to her (which is another way of valuing her).

I will :gopray2: for you.
 
Memorare

REMEMBER, O most gracious Virgin Mary, that never was it known that anyone who fled to thy protection, implored thy help, or sought thy intercession was left unaided. Inspired with this confidence, I fly to thee, O Virgin of virgins, my Mother; to thee do I come; before thee I stand, sinful and sorrowful. O Mother of the Word Incarnate, despise not my petitions, but in thy mercy hear and answer me. Amen.

Put your faith in God and let Him guide you forward.
 
Lord, please heal this marriage and grant them many graces that they might be a shining example of your espousal to your heavenly bride, the Church. Cultivate in their lives much love and angelic help, resistance to sin, and many joys. Have mercy, Lord. Our Lady, pray with us. Amen.
 
Eternal God , in whom mercy is endless,
and the treasury of compassion inexhastible ,
look kindly upon us and increase Your mercy in us ,
that in difficult moments we might not despair
nor become despondent , but with great confidence ,
submit ourselves to Your Holy Will ,
which is love and mercy itself . Amen

Memorare (Prayer to Our Lady)
Remember, O most gracious Virgin Mary, that never was it known that anyone who fled to your protection, implored your help, or sought your intercession, was left unaided.
Inspired by this confidence, I fly unto you, O Virgin of virgins, my Mother. To you do I come, before you I stand, sinful and sorrowful. O Mother of the Word Incarnate, despise not my petitions, but in your mercy, hear and answer me. Amen
 
For the intentions of latitude35:

(Prayer to St. Rita - Patron saint of families, lost causes, and marital relationships)

O St. Rita,

Make us understand that a vocation is not only a matter of attraction.

Enable us to see clearly that it is also a matter of finding, in ordinary events, God’s will for us and then accepting it even if it seems to be baffling and contrary to our wishes.

Teach those called to the marriage state by the Lord to reflect deeply on the delicate choice that will influence their destiny.

Let them not be deceived by their feelings; instead, let them look for the solid qualities that keep a home united in the joy of the Lord.

Teach unhappy spouses the power of patience and mildness. Let them not give way to discouragement but, like you, let them save both the happiness of their home and the soul of their spouse.

O St. Rita, we pray this Prayer for [latitude35] through your name and in the name of Jesus Christ, Amen.

:signofcross:

God bless.
 
My Brother, I will praying for your Marriage, and all of the Marriages that need strength and stability. I will share with you that in my own personal life, my Marriage also faces many struggles, primarily because I have put more importance in worldly things and have not put GOD first in my life/priorities. I too have gotten a wake-up call from my spouse, regarding our marriage. Self examination is not often pleasant,but most times very necessary. I accompany you in your journey. Many prayers coming your way via this humble servant!!!🙂
 
Sorry to hear of your troubles, but this could be the start to a stronger marriage and blessings. Allow your wife time away from you, so she can sort out her feelings and beliefs. Actions speak louder than words, ask her and really listen to your wife, on what she would like changed within your marriage. Listen to her, dont interrupt her, us ladies have a need to talk it through, sometimes several times. Ask Our Heavenly Father to give you discernment, perservance, and love to really be able to love your wife in the way she needs to be loved. Praying for you both.
 
Praying for your marriage and the return of your wife into your home. Please never give up praying. I am still praying for my husband who is addicted to drugs and straying from our marriage. Through the power of prayer, especially the prayer warriors in this Catholic Community, I believe the Holy Spirit is helping us. I will continue to pray and to pray for all marriages so that we will overcome all obstacles and continue to be one with our spouse.
May the Good Lord and the Holy Spirit and all the Angels and Saints be with you and your wife.
 
Don’t be discourage, keep on praying. My prayers are with you.
 
Praying for your marriage. I too had to leave my husband for several days, it was not an easy decision. We have since reconciled and have been working together on the family. He put everything else before our family, including his own needs. We currently struggling financially because of some of these choices but we are working together to resolve them, and as parents, and it has brought me closer to my faith and God.

Stay strong. Communicate, and allow The Lord into your relationship.****
 
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