Prayers for discernment

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Hi. I could use some suggestions for prayers regarding discernment. In this instance, it is a career issue that I’m struggling with, whether or not to leave a good, stable job because I have become pretty unhappy in it. Any suggestions would be most appreciated! I need a little help hearing God’s voice in my decision making process.
 
Thank you so much. I was thinking about adoration just today. good advice!
 
Be careful !

In my 37 years as a printed circuit designer before I retired, there were periods where I became dissatisfied with my job and began looking at other career options.

I was married with two kids, so it made great importance that my financial situation remained stable.

Anyway, as I began to look at other career paths, the saying “the grass is greener in the other fellow’s yard,” became more true. As I talked with people in those professions who were about the same age or a little older than me, they went through the same things I was going through. In fact, when they learned what I did, the said, they wished they had my job.

I began learning that midlife career changes for most, turn out to be financial and emotional disasters and I saw people make those disastrous changes.

I don’t know your age, so if your younger and single, this doesn’t apply for you as much and it’s in your youth that making a career change is the better time to do it.

If it’s just a different company doing the same type of work, on this issue, it can be more positive overall. If you stay on a job for 22 years like I did, in today’s world it reflects a stagnant work experience to potential employers. You also have less people to network with. They prefer to see a person who’s moved around, but not less than four to five years at a time on each job. They want to see stability. If you move too early, they suspect you have problems keeping a job.

Of course prayer is the answer, and the Lord showed me that if he wanted me in a different job, he’d lead me there, but until that happens, remain put.

I’m thankful that I did, because soon the boredom wore off and I had new enthusiasm in my work and saw that this is what I was meant to be.

So, pray and if God wants to move you to another job, the doors will fly open. Otherwise, they’ll remain closed.

I’m praying for you as well.

Jim
 
Thanks, Jim. I am 46, married with two kids. I am about halfway through my career as a public school teacher. I am just getting burnt out. It’s worse and worse every year, and I don’t want to be that grouchy old man who is just hanging in there for his retirement. I’ve known many people like that; it’s not fair to the kids. At the same time…I am so sick of all the nonsense. It’s just draining.

I could get a job at a Catholic school for about 1/2 the money and learn to love teaching again. I wouldn’t be able to own a home, though.
 
Thanks, Jim. I am 46, married with two kids. I am about halfway through my career as a public school teacher. I am just getting burnt out. It’s worse and worse every year, and I don’t want to be that grouchy old man who is just hanging in there for his retirement. I’ve known many people like that; it’s not fair to the kids. At the same time…I am so sick of all the nonsense. It’s just draining.

I could get a job at a Catholic school for about 1/2 the money and learn to love teaching again. I wouldn’t be able to own a home, though.
I don’t know if it’s an option for you, but when I was about your age expressing the similar issues, a good manager I had knew the solution. He’d send me outside the workplace to attend seminars, or to take a tour of a vendors manufacturing site.

Sometimes, just getting out of the environment for a week was all that was required.

Not sure what a teacher can do.

I know friends who worked until retirement as teachers and they all expressed burnout, except one, but she taught 1st grade. She almost had to be forced into retirement, she loved the job so much.

One last point that just came to mind. The job isn’t your life. God and family are. The job is just a means for providing for your family and yourself.

An outside hobby or activity, especially with your wife, can change the entire job mentality.

Of course prayer will lead you to the answer.

Jim
 
Praying to the Holy Spirit to give you guidance, direction, strength, fortitude & wisdom in your discernment.
 
Why does it need to be a specific prayer? Just ask God/Jesus to guide you in making the right choice. I am confident He knows your intent and what is in your heart so I would not think the specific wording would matter.
 
I don’t know, Norm. Catholics have special prayers for everything! I thought there might be a good one.
 
Saint Michael, the archangel, defend us in battle, be our defense against the wickedness and snares of the devil, may God rebuke him, we humbly pray. And do you, O’ Prince of the Heavenly host, by the power of God thrust into Hell Satan and all the other evil spirits who prowl about the world for the ruin of souls.

Amen.

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Our Father who art in Heaven, hallowed be thy name.

Thy kingdom come, thy will be done on Earth as it is in Heaven.

Give us this day our daily bread.

And forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us.

And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.

Amen.

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Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee.

Blessed are you among women, and blessed is the fruit of your womb Jesus.

Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death.

Amen.

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