Prayers for my babies (and me)

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I married 12 years ago to a man that in retrospect I should not have. We had a very dysfunctional relationship and I called off our marriage ONCE due to infidelity. Needless to say I married him anyway and lived in ignorant bliss for many years. He was controlling and emotionally abusive but I was convinced I couldn’t be happier. In 2010 I was 8 months pregnant with my 5th child when he announced he was having an affair, had impregnated her and was having an abortion. I forgave him and begged to work on our marriage. For 3 years. Yes we did therapy, retrouvaille, etc. I had to endure his constantly telling me I was costing him his one chance at happiness with his soul mate. I had a nervous breakdown and was hospitalized for 2 weeks. In the end… I couldn’t fight any more. I gave up. He was kindness itself… I would go to live with family while i got on my feet (dropped out of my freshman year of college to be wife and mom) . I could stay in contact with the kids via skype. See them often. Etc. I really thought I was doing the right thing for them. I couldn’t afford to support them even WITH child support. I had no job (had been looking over a year) and my family all got tired of me going back to him throughout the years and with my isolating myself from them so I had little to no support from family. I didn’t have many friends as I wasn’t really allowed to have any. I was the stay at home, catholic homeschooling mom. I cooked, I cleaned , I changed diapers. I don’t have much to offer outside of being mom. I left.
Now, my ex is alienating my children against me. I have been reduced to being allowed to attempt to speak to them via skype once a week. Once a week they of course don’t want to speak to me.
I have a lovely therapist who has helped me see that this is normal alienation behavior and my kids are in survival mode. She says their lives DEPEND on keeping him happy. She warned me those closest would push me away hardest , and they have.
I had NO money. I was never on any of the bank accounts. I didn’t work. He took any money I made from ebay or whatever. He has a great job. I am finally employed at $10 an hour. I am working myself to death. 11 hours a day sometimes just to try to save money.
I live 1000 miles away. I have to work 20 hours to afford 1 hour with a lawyer.
My hands are TIED.
I pray, I pray for Jesus to turn his heart. He has no remorse. He is killing me and doesn’t seem to care. He tells everyone it was MY idea to leave. that I was the one who didn’t want the marriage. He has his circle of fans who praise his every move. I get no report cards… I get no photos … I get no phone calls or letters. I try to send messages to my oldest but they are intercepted by my ex.
I am fighting to maybe see them for Christmas. I wasn’t allowed to last year. Nor last thanksgiving. Nor mother’s day. Nor summer.
I need a car. I am $1000 away from being able to get something so I can at least have a vehicle to drive and get them.
Then I need lawyers fees to fight him.
PLEASE pray for those kids. They are ages 15, 11, 9, 7 and 3.
Pray for me … for strength. Some days I don’t know if I can keep on. i am fighting to see my kids… I am fighting for them to just know I love them. I will fight with the last breath in my body.
I need prayers PLEASE.
Thank you
 
You are in my prayers.

Hail Mary, full of Grace,
The Lord is With thee,
Blessed art thou amongst women,
and Blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus.

Holy Mary, Mother of God,
Pray for us sinners, now,
and at the hour of Our Death.

Amen.
 
Lord, in the darkness of this temporal pilgrimage, please grant healing to all those in this situation, this mother, father, and these children. Grant them many graces for fortitude, wisdom, justice, joy, faith, hope, and above all, love. Send angels to minister to this mother and this family, that a droplet of the heavenly banquet be granted as a foretaste, refreshing the exhaustion and spiritual dehydration that has befallen these souls. Accept this mother’s suffering in union with your holy Passion, that strength underlie these intentions. Have mercy, Lord. Have mercy. Our Lady, angels, and saints, pray with us. Amen.
 
Hail Mary, Full of Grace, the Lord is with thee. Blessed art thou amongst women, and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus.

Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners now and at the hour of our death.

Amen

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Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee.

Blessed are you among women, and blessed is the fruit of your womb Jesus.

Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death.

Amen.

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Our Father who art in Heaven, hallowed be thy name.

Thy kingdom come, thy will be done on Earth as it is in Heaven.

Give us this day our daily bread.

And forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us.

And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.

Amen.

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I wanted to add that I am attempting to bring awareness to Parental Alienation. There are too many parents feeling the same pain.
I am trying to use my time to help others in similar situations.
It helps me with the pain… but just a bit.
The pain is often unbearable.
 
Oh my gosh, sometimes I think I have it bad!!!
Merciful God, the creator of us all, give strength, faith, peace, hope, and love to MomX5boys. Let us pray for her every day that the situation may turn in her favor. The children need to know their mother loves them. Help them at least know that and that above all YOU love them, oh God. Amen
 
Hail Mary, Full of Grace, the Lord is with thee. Blessed art thou amongst women, and blest is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus. Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners now and at the hour of our death. Amen. :bible1:
 
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Holy Mother, please intercede for us.
Hold the sorrowful, strengthen the fearful,
give aid to all needing help or healing,
assist those who are sick, in pain or suffering,
be with those needing peace, console the lonely,
comfort the lost or hopeless, guard the unborn,
pray for those who are dying or who have died,
soften those with hardened hearts,
enlighten those who do not yet see truth,
help us be brave enough to let our hurt and anger go,
show us the way to do the right thing,
protect those who are in danger, and guide us from every evil;
may all who keep your sacred commemoration
experience the might of your assistance.
Amen **
 
Lord have mercy on this family.
Grant this mother the courage, strength, patience, comfort and healing.

Our father who art in heaven
Hallowed be your name
Your kingdom come
Your will be done
On earth as it is in heaven
Give us this day our daily bread
And forgive us our trespasses
As we forgive those who trespass against us
Lead us not into temptation but deliver us from evil
Amen.
 
Hail Mary, Full of Grace,
the Lord is with thee.
Blessed art thou amongst women,
and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus.

Holy Mary, Mother of God,
pray for us sinners now
and at the hour of our death.

Amen
 
Jesus Help me.
In every need let me come to you
with a humble trust saying,
Jesus help me.

In all my doubts,
perplexities and temptations,
Jesus help me.

In hours of loneliness,
weariness and trials,
Jesus help me.

In failure of my plans and hopes,
in disappointments,
troubles and sorrows,
Jesus help me.

When others fail me
and your grace alone can assist me,
Jesus help me.

When I throw myself on your tender love,
as my Lord and Saviour,
Jesus help me.

When my heart is cast down by failure
at seeing no good coming from my efforts,
Jesus help me.

When I am ill and my head and hands cannot work
and I am lonely,
Jesus help me.

Always, always, in spite of weariness,
falls and shortcomings of every kind,
Jesus help me and never forsake me.

Almighty Lord,
before you I come with all my faith,
begging you for comfort in my difficulties.
Do not forsake me, my Lord.
Open your doors,
that your almighty arms will open and close
as you design to give that tranquility that I so desire.

Oh my God!
Receive my supplication from a wounded heart
that is always fighting for me
with your Divine power.
Never let me scramble for want of help.

Almighty Lord,
assist me to find shelter in your celestial bounty forever.

Amen.
 
PATER NOSTER,
qui es in caelis,
sanctificetur nomen tuum.
Adveniat regnum tuum.
Fiat voluntas tua, sicut in caelo et in terra.
Panem nostrum quotidianum da nobis hodie,
et dimitte nobis debita nostra
sicut et nos dimittimus debitoribus nostris.
Et ne nos inducas in tentationem,
sed libera nos a malo. Amen.
 
O Holy Patroness of those in need, St. Rita, because thy pleadings before thy Divine Lord are almost irresistible, and because thou hast been lavish in the granting of favors, thou hast been called the Advocate of the Hopeless and even of the Impossible. St. Rita, so humble, so pure, so mortified, so patient and of such compassionate love for thy Crucified Jesus, thou couldst obtain from Him whatsoever thou askest.

Because of your power, all confidently have recourse to thee, expecting, if not always relief, at least comfort. Be propitious to our petition, showing thy power with God on behalf of thy suppliant. Be lavish to us, as thou hast been in so many wonderful cases, for the greater glory of God, for the spreading of thine own devotion, and for the consolation of those who trust in thee. We promise, if our petition is granted, to glorify thee by making known thy favor, to bless and sing thy praises forever. Amen.
 
Holy Michael the Archangel defend us in the day of battle.
Be our safeguard against the wickedness and snares of the devil.
May God rebuke him, we humbly pray,
and do Thou, O Prince of the Heavenly Host,
by the Power of God,
thrust down to hell, satan and all the wicked spirits,
who wander through the world for the ruin of souls.
Amen.

Remember, O most gracious Virgin Mary, that never was it known that anyone fled to your protection, implored your help, or sought your intercession and was left forsaken. Inspired by this confidence, I fly unto you, O Virgin of virgins, my Mother. To you I come, before you I stand, a sorrowful sinner. Despise not my words, O Mother of the Word, but in your mercy, hear and answer me.
Amen
 
Hail Mary, Full of Grace, the Lord is with thee. Blessed art thou amongst women, and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus.

Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners now and at the hour of our death.

Amen

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**Holy Mother, please intercede for us.
Hold the sorrowful, strengthen the fearful,
give aid to all needing help or healing,
assist those who are sick, in pain or suffering,
be with those needing peace, console the lonely,
comfort the lost or hopeless, guard the unborn,
pray for those who are dying or who have died,
soften those with hardened hearts,
enlighten those who do not yet see truth,
help us be brave enough to let our hurt and anger go,
show us the way to do the right thing,
protect those who are in danger,
and guide us from every evil.
May all who keep your sacred commemoration
experience the might of your assistance.
Amen **
 
**Holy Mother, please intercede for us.
Hold the sorrowful, strengthen the fearful,
give aid to all needing help or healing,
assist those who are sick, in pain or suffering,
be with those needing peace, console the lonely,
comfort the lost or hopeless, guard the unborn,
pray for those who are dying or who have died,
soften those with hardened hearts,
enlighten those who do not yet see truth,
help us be brave enough to let our hurt and anger go,
show us the way to do the right thing,
protect those who are in danger,
and guide us from every evil.
May all who keep your sacred commemoration
experience the might of your assistance.
Amen **
 
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