A
angeris
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Greetings,
Two years ago my wife fell and broke her hip. They put 3 metal pins in her hip as she was too young for a replacement (29). By God’s grace through Our Mothers intercession it seems to have healed. However, my wife was taking heavy pain medication before the accident because of a disk problem in her back. After the operation and recovering period she continues to take pain medication. Over the past two years this has continued. It has advanced to the point that I keep the medication and only give her as much as she is suppose to have. Each time I hide the medicine she seems to find it. I have bought a lock box to put the medicine in so she cannot get to it.
I am very worried she is not going to give me her medication next month as she continues to ask for more and I will not give it to her. Of course she doesn’t think I trust her, but we have been down that road before. I give her medicine to try on her own, a few days or a weeks worth and it is always gone before it is suppose to be. I have seen her go almost two weeks without hardly any medicine which tells me the pain is perhaps not as bad as I once thought it was. It is simply the addiction in her body telling her she needs more.
Today our 6 year old over heard us discussing the medicine
It is never a fight, just discussion. She told me to just give mommy the medicine. There is so much more I could write, but this is the short version.
I am asking for prayers for her to realize that she can’t get off them alone. I am also asking for prayers for this me, a husband who loves his wife and family. Ask God to give me strength and grace to be patient and too fully give in to His trust and Will in our lives. I know we are brought closer to Him through our sufferings.
Thank you/-]/-]
Two years ago my wife fell and broke her hip. They put 3 metal pins in her hip as she was too young for a replacement (29). By God’s grace through Our Mothers intercession it seems to have healed. However, my wife was taking heavy pain medication before the accident because of a disk problem in her back. After the operation and recovering period she continues to take pain medication. Over the past two years this has continued. It has advanced to the point that I keep the medication and only give her as much as she is suppose to have. Each time I hide the medicine she seems to find it. I have bought a lock box to put the medicine in so she cannot get to it.
I am very worried she is not going to give me her medication next month as she continues to ask for more and I will not give it to her. Of course she doesn’t think I trust her, but we have been down that road before. I give her medicine to try on her own, a few days or a weeks worth and it is always gone before it is suppose to be. I have seen her go almost two weeks without hardly any medicine which tells me the pain is perhaps not as bad as I once thought it was. It is simply the addiction in her body telling her she needs more.
Today our 6 year old over heard us discussing the medicine
I am asking for prayers for her to realize that she can’t get off them alone. I am also asking for prayers for this me, a husband who loves his wife and family. Ask God to give me strength and grace to be patient and too fully give in to His trust and Will in our lives. I know we are brought closer to Him through our sufferings.
Thank you/-]/-]