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PolishK
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Hello everyone, I’m asking for prayers concerning my husband. He asked me for a divorce in January, which I refused. Our marriage had been quite rocky the previous two years and both of us were suffering. Since he told me he wanted a divorce, I have truly turned a lot around in our lives, however, he has not put in much work at all. I have returned to Church, I’m continuing to speak to my priest and a therapist, I started going back to school for my Masters degree and have generally been a more positive person. I’ve been doing marriage studies and have gone on some retreats to personally heal my past wounds. I’ve really, really worked relentlessly to become a better person and a better wife. We just went on a 10-day European vacation and had a wonderful time. A few days after, my husband blew up on me again. He said he still wants to leave. He said everything is my fault. He yells at me even when I respond kindly and calmly. His drinking has become intolerable. He is selfish beyond comprehension. He has told me repeatedly, “No one tells me what to do!!!” when I simply suggest something. He is cold, distant, and has a great amount of rage. I don’t know who this man is anymore. He is making so many bad decisions and I can’t stop him. I am praying endlessly. I miss my husband. I know he’s somewhere under all of this. Please pray for him. I’m desperate.
Thank you.
Thank you.
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