Prayers needed to save marriage!

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I ask everyone to please pray for my little family.
We were married 4 and a half years ago.
We have a 11 month old son and a 2 and a half year old son.
My heart is broken.
My husband left us about 10 weeks ago. He stops in to see his son’s maybe once a day.
He then told me to go get a job after being home with the kids for years.
Our marriage has not been perfect, his sister lived with us at the start of our marriage, then one of his friends. We moved across state and back after a couple job losses.
I feel like it has never been just us.
His parents were so involved in his everyday decisions it became overwhelming for me.
I shut-down due to abandonment issues. I lost my parents when I was 8.
I know I was not the best wife and needed some healing.
He has now emotionally shut me out of his life saying he needs to find himself. He says the marriage is over and we never had a “foundation”.
We met at a bar and he would go play his bar gigs wile I stayed home and watched the kids.
I started to resent him and his job. I felt unappreciated at home. I did things to cope. There has been no infidelity that I am aware of.
I just want him to come home to new eyes and a new heart. I miss him so much.
He teaches catholic youth. I have a hard time understanding why he wont do what he teaches. I remember him to be such a sweet and kind person. Now he spends his days here when he has off but im still taking care of the kids alone, spending nights alone, and trying to figure out the rest of my life all alone. I do not have family like him and I feel so lost. I have gone to a few prayer healings. I am willing to give it my all. He just says when he has the money he is going to file.

Please pray for our marriage! Heal our hearts, and our minds. Please pray for the Lord to soften his heart and remember our love and the beauty in our children. If it is God’s will for us to stay together please give me the strength to continue and not let my heart harden while he remains away. Do you think God would approve of divorce? Even if one spouse believes the marriage never had a good foundation? I pray for a new foundation built on our children and a new love. Please pray for our little family. We love and miss daddy/husband.
 
I will pray for your family.May our Lord Jesus be with you.
 
Sorry you and your children have to go through this difficult time.You are never truly alone. My wife and I will keep your family in our Prayers. God Bless.
 
steinfam said:
I ask everyone to please pray for my little family.
We were married 4 and a half years ago.
We have a 11 month old son and a 2 and a half year old son.
My heart is broken.
My husband left us about 10 weeks ago. He stops in to see his son’s maybe once a day.
He then told me to go get a job after being home with the kids for years.
Our marriage has not been perfect, his sister lived with us at the start of our marriage, then one of his friends. We moved across state and back after a couple job losses.
I feel like it has never been just us.
His parents were so involved in his everyday decisions it became overwhelming for me.
I shut-down due to abandonment issues. I lost my parents when I was 8.
I know I was not the best wife and needed some healing.
He has now emotionally shut me out of his life saying he needs to find himself. He says the marriage is over and we never had a “foundation”.
We met at a bar and he would go play his bar gigs wile I stayed home and watched the kids.
I started to resent him and his job. I felt unappreciated at home. I did things to cope. There has been no infidelity that I am aware of.
I just want him to come home to new eyes and a new heart. I miss him so much.
He teaches catholic youth. I have a hard time understanding why he wont do what he teaches. I remember him to be such a sweet and kind person. Now he spends his days here when he has off but im still taking care of the kids alone, spending nights alone, and trying to figure out the rest of my life all alone. I do not have family like him and I feel so lost. I have gone to a few prayer healings. I am willing to give it my all. He just says when he has the money he is going to file.

Please pray for our marriage! Heal our hearts, and our minds. Please pray for the Lord to soften his heart and remember our love and the beauty in our children. If it is God’s will for us to stay together please give me the strength to continue and not let my heart harden while he remains away. Do you think God would approve of divorce? Even if one spouse believes the marriage never had a good foundation? I pray for a new foundation built on our children and a new love. Please pray for our little family. We love and miss daddy/husband.
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Prayer, penance, sacrifice. Mass, Confession. Attack, attack, attack! We are at war. The front is in your home. Satan is attacking, we must resist him and his lies and deceit!

Remind your husband that your marriage is not a contract, but a covenant between him, you, and God. He took a vow for “better or worse.” This doesn’t mean “for better” only. Tell him I said to man up! He’ll regret it all his life if he divorces you. Satan always paints a rosy picture before we sin. And his only interest is our misery!
 
God bless you and may He fight for your marriage! Praise God you came here and asked for prayers. You are fighting a spiritual enemy and you need The Spirit to fight for you and your family. That you came here and that you still trust in prayer and trust in God is a very great hope for your marriage. I hope you take comfort in the fact that when you stay close to God and trust in Him, He will fight for you - especially when it comes to protecting your marriage and your children.

Please keep coming back and keep trusting in the power of prayer and in the Mighty Power of Our Lord Jesus Christ! Jesus, we trust in YOU!
 
steinfam said:
I ask everyone to please pray for my little family.
We were married 4 and a half years ago.
We have a 11 month old son and a 2 and a half year old son.
My heart is broken.
My husband left us about 10 weeks ago. He stops in to see his son’s maybe once a day.
He then told me to go get a job after being home with the kids for years.
Our marriage has not been perfect, his sister lived with us at the start of our marriage, then one of his friends. We moved across state and back after a couple job losses.
I feel like it has never been just us.
His parents were so involved in his everyday decisions it became overwhelming for me.
I shut-down due to abandonment issues. I lost my parents when I was 8.
I know I was not the best wife and needed some healing.
He has now emotionally shut me out of his life saying he needs to find himself. He says the marriage is over and we never had a “foundation”.
We met at a bar and he would go play his bar gigs wile I stayed home and watched the kids.
I started to resent him and his job. I felt unappreciated at home. I did things to cope. There has been no infidelity that I am aware of.
I just want him to come home to new eyes and a new heart. I miss him so much.
He teaches catholic youth. I have a hard time understanding why he wont do what he teaches. I remember him to be such a sweet and kind person. Now he spends his days here when he has off but im still taking care of the kids alone, spending nights alone, and trying to figure out the rest of my life all alone. I do not have family like him and I feel so lost. I have gone to a few prayer healings. I am willing to give it my all. He just says when he has the money he is going to file.

Please pray for our marriage! Heal our hearts, and our minds. Please pray for the Lord to soften his heart and remember our love and the beauty in our children. If it is God’s will for us to stay together please give me the strength to continue and not let my heart harden while he remains away. Do you think God would approve of divorce? Even if one spouse believes the marriage never had a good foundation? I pray for a new foundation built on our children and a new love. Please pray for our little family. We love and miss daddy/husband.
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You have my prayers. Go and visit with your priest about this. (Is your husband willing to go with you to the priest? If not, go alone.) You poor dear not having family. Well, we here at CAF will be family for you and keep you in our prayers. Keep the faith. God loves you and your little family. He does not desire to see it destroyed!

Lord surround this family with Your Holy protection and bring to light the problems. Allow for good communication to come forth and healing to begin. We ask in the precious name of Your beloved Son our Lord, Amen.

mlz:highprayer::crossrc:
 
Praying :gopray:

Pater noster, qui es in caelis, sanctificetur Nomen tuum. Adveniat regnum tuum. Fiat voluntas tua, sicut in caelo et in terra. Panem nostrum quotidianum da nobis hodie, et dimitte nobis debita nostra sicut et nos dimittimus debitoribus nostris. Et ne nos inducas in tentationem, sed libera nos a malo.

Ave Maria, gratia plena, Dominus tecum. Benedicta tu in mulieribus, et benedictus fructus ventris tui, Iesus. Sancta Maria, Mater Dei, ora pro nobis peccatoribus, nunc, et in hora mortis nostrae.

Gloria Patri, et Filio, et Spiritui Sancto. Sicut erat in principio, et nunc, et semper, et in saecula saeculorum.

Amen.
 
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prayer, penance, sacrifice. Mass, confession. Attack, attack, attack! We are at war. The front is in your home. Satan is attacking, we must resist him and his lies and deceit!

Remind your husband that your marriage is not a contract, but a covenant between him, you, and god. He took a vow for “better or worse.” this doesn’t mean “for better” only. Tell him i said to man up! He’ll regret it all his life if he divorces you. Satan always paints a rosy picture before we sin. And his only interest is our misery!
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thank you!!
 
Hail Mary,
Full of Grace,
The Lord is with thee.
Blessed art thou among women,
and blessed is the fruit
of thy womb, Jesus.
Holy Mary,
Mother of God,
pray for us sinners now,
and at the hour of our death.
Amen.
 
Our Father who art in heaven hallowed be thy name, thy kingdom come, thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread and forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us. Lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil. Amen
 
Saint Micheal, the archangel, defend us in battle; be our defense against the wickedness and snares of the devil. May God rebuke him, we humbly pray; and do you, O prince of the heavenly host, by the power of God, thrust into hell Satan and the other evil spirits who prowl about the world for the ruin of souls. Amen.
 
Loving God, be near to Your child Spencer as he is in rehab and help him improve. Give him the healing his body needs. Give Your wisdom to those helping him at this facility and uphold the dear parents of Spencer. Give them Your support and help as I know they care so deeply for their son. In the precious name of Your beloved Son, Jesus our Lord we pray,amen.

mlz
 
Lord please hear our prayers for this couple and their family.We ask You would guide the husbands heart and mind to Your will that he will respect his wife and love her.That this family will be able to overcome its difficulties and stay together.Lord in Your mercy hear our prayers Amen
 
Prayers offered for you, for your husband and for your marriage.
 
Lord please hear our prayers for this couple and their family.We ask You would guide the husbands heart and mind to Your will that he will respect his wife and love her.That this family will be able to overcome its difficulties and stay together.Lord in Your mercy hear our prayers Amen
 
Hail Mary, full of grace,
the Lord is with thee.
Blessed art thou among women,
and blessed is the fruit of thy womb,
Jesus.
Holy Mary, Mother of God,
pray for us sinners,
now, and at the hour of our death.
Amen.

Praying hard!
 
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