Praying 54 days Rosary Novena.. but so hurt now

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May I know Why? Is it because he thinks im not the one for him, rather than “not ready for any relationship” ?
There is this old saying “When people show you who they are believe them” This man has said to you “I am not ready for a relationship” the why does not matter. Do not continue with blinders on trying to make this the man or relationship you want. If he is not ready, his lack of readiness will likely not change in 3 months, 6 months, 2 years. The only difference will be your broken heart and time wasted.
 
A few months ago, I thought my vocation is to walk on Religious Path after I heard Mary’s voice telling me to give up worldly things… Then I descern my vocation, but I found no much clue on that… and I want to build my family and children.

I found a Priest, he asked me “What do you want?”… he said that our mind is also from God. If our vocation is Religious Path, I will so want it much. But I don’t feel so, compared to family life.

So if God is not giving me a spouse, what would the God’s will on me? to be Single all my life? That would be too lonely…

I am really weak in handling relationship issues. I always failed in it, either found a wrong person, or failed to handle relationship problems.
I recommend you try to find a spiritual advisor. They are invaluable when you trying to find your path in life or if you have encountered any spiritual obstacles. You could begin the search by asking your parish priest.
 
Yesterday when I was praying novena I asked Mary to show me a rose(s) in my daily life if She heard my prayer. Then today, just now when I opened a page and there is a photo with roses inside. Is this what Mary showing to me? :o
 
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