Praying Rosary in public

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Before I became interested in the Catholic church, I saw a group of 5-6 people praying the rosary in the train station. I saw it as Catholic repetitive prayer. It did not serve as a witness to me of Christ at all.
True, but who knows? Perhaps a fall-away Catholic will see it and be inspired by it. Converting a soul is my dream. I envy anyone who has. Perhaps he will offend people? Who cares? If Protestants can’t appreciate the fact that a man is so passionate about his faith that he’ll pray on the bus then that’s their problem. I say more power to him.
 
There is also a partial indulgence associated with public witness of your faith. The fourth general grant was added in the last edition of the Enchiridion Indulgentiarum, by which a public witness of faith, in the particular circumstances of everyday life, is enriched with an indulgence.

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Before I became interested in the Catholic church, I saw a group of 5-6 people praying the rosary in the train station. I saw it as Catholic repetitive prayer. It did not serve as a witness to me of Christ at all.
Well, maybe to a Catholic it would serve as a witness to the power of the rosary or a reminder to pray it. 🙂

People who are bigoted against Catholics will be bigoted against any display of the Catholic faith (whether it’s a crucifix, a medal, or a rosary) until they choose to learn more about it.
 
I carry a Rosary pretty much all the time. But I never pray with them in public or wear them. And I have seen Catholics in there 50’s wearing Rosarys so its not youth fad.
Definitely not a fad. St. Louis de Montfort in *The Secret of the Rosary *tells a story about a nobleman who wore the rosary on his belt, but hardly ever prayed it. Well, just the fact that such a powerful man believed (or at least appeard to believe) in the power of the rosary gave a strong witness to the people who saw him. So, because of his example, many others prayed the rosary. Well, one night he died and was taken before God in judgment. God was about to condemn him for his sins but Blessed Mother appeared with the rosary he wore, and all the rosaries that were said because of his witness, and they outweighed his sins. So God, in his great mercy, gave that man a second chance and allowed him to live for two more years and get his life in order. So, I personally don’t think anything negative of those who choose to wear a rosary. 🙂
 
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I often pray the Rosary when I go cycling on my road bike. I cycle my distance and at one point I cycle through a small forest and take a break on one of the benches. The atmosphere of only being surrounded by trees and bird sounds is what I like.
I do have to admit that I am self-conscious when joggers or people who walk their dog go by. Now the feeling of being self-conscious is getting less. Actually I have my cell phone with me and have an app on my phone to pray the Rosary. So basically if I used my phone people would think I’m just text messaging or whatever but I assumed using a blessed Rosary is better.
The phone method is an option though if A) your self-conscious to pray in public and B) you have a modern cell-phone.
 
I often pray the Rosary when I go cycling on my road bike. I cycle my distance and at one point I cycle through a small forest and take a break on one of the benches. The atmosphere of only being surrounded by trees and bird sounds is what I like.
I do have to admit that I am self-conscious when joggers or people who walk their dog go by. Now the feeling of being self-conscious is getting less. Actually I have my cell phone with me and have an app on my phone to pray the Rosary. So basically if I used my phone people would think I’m just text messaging or whatever but I assumed using a blessed Rosary is better.
The phone method is an option though if A) your self-conscious to pray in public and B) you have a modern cell-phone.
There is no need for you to feel self conscious. If you allow yourself to feel this way, you give the secular world its power over those of us who choose to follow Jesus. I know the feeling you get. I think we all do at times. I outwardly stand up for my faith, and profess it when I can, to show others the importance of God in my life. Sometimes you would not believe the names I am called and admonishment I get. But, more often than not, it is glances of approval and understanding. If I can make only 1 person a day think of God and all He offers, it is well worth it.
 
There is no need for you to feel self conscious. If you allow yourself to feel this way, you give the secular world its power over those of us who choose to follow Jesus. I know the feeling you get. I think we all do at times. I outwardly stand up for my faith, and profess it when I can, to show others the importance of God in my life. Sometimes you would not believe the names I am called and admonishment I get. But, more often than not, it is glances of approval and understanding. If I can make only 1 person a day think of God and all He offers, it is well worth it.
Yeah, I know. I feel a bit lousy by hiding my faith but nowadays it’s almost like people feel the urge to make fun of you when they know you’re Catholic. I lived in Bolivia from 2000-2001 and 2003-2008. It was refreshing that everybody said that they believe in God. Teenagers would walk around with a Rosary around their neck, every shop would have a Divine Mercy poster on the wall and most people cross themselves when they pass a church.
When I came to Germany in 2008 I had the Divine Mercy picture on my desk for a moment. A work colleague saw that and without us ever having talked about religion, he keeps on bringing up the topic on how absurd religion is, just based on seeing that picture once or he sends me links by Windows Messenger from anti-religious sites.
The other day I met with friends in an Irish pub. I was talking to one of my Irish friends about philosophy and religion in general. The two sitting across of us suddenly heard bits and pieces of the conversation. As soon as Catholic faith was mentioned they started cracking jokes and rolled their eyes. I sometimes wear this kind of bracelet with Saints: kaboodle.com/reviews/saint-bracelet–small-black
I notice people looking at it in a weird way. If you even mention religion on other forums or in public, it will always end with a heated discussion. Someone once asked if you can get bike jerseys with religious motives on a bike forum and ALL answers were vicious. I asked why it is a problem for them that someone asks this and then I was being hassled.
Oddly in Germany you see loads of Muslims walking around who don’t hide their faith but as a Catholic you will automatically be mocked.

I think I don’t hide the fact that I’m Catholic because I’m ashamed but I just want to avoid confrontation. I’m pretty sure if I would pray the rosary openly on a bus, people would mock me or at least stare. These days it is “uncool” to be Catholic. If you ask the average person in Germany if they have faith, they usually come up with some new age jumbo mumbo “yeah, I kind of believe in something about Universal energy or prefer Buddhism”. They want to be “en vogue” when it comes to faith. :rolleyes:

Then again I should ignore what other people think. I liked the fact that the winner of this year’s German “American Idol” wore that same Saint bracelet a lot of times or wore the rosary around his neck or held it in his hands very often.
 
Yeah, I know. I feel a bit lousy by hiding my faith but nowadays it’s almost like people feel the urge to make fun of you when they know you’re Catholic. I lived in Bolivia from 2000-2001 and 2003-2008. It was refreshing that everybody said that they believe in God. Teenagers would walk around with a Rosary around their neck, every shop would have a Divine Mercy poster on the wall and most people cross themselves when they pass a church.
When I came to Germany in 2008 I had the Divine Mercy picture on my desk for a moment. A work colleague saw that and without us ever having talked about religion, he keeps on bringing up the topic on how absurd religion is, just based on seeing that picture once or he sends me links by Windows Messenger from anti-religious sites.
The other day I met with friends in an Irish pub. I was talking to one of my Irish friends about philosophy and religion in general. The two sitting across of us suddenly heard bits and pieces of the conversation. As soon as Catholic faith was mentioned they started cracking jokes and rolled their eyes. I sometimes wear this kind of bracelet with Saints: kaboodle.com/reviews/saint-bracelet–small-black
I notice people looking at it in a weird way. If you even mention religion on other forums or in public, it will always end with a heated discussion. Someone once asked if you can get bike jerseys with religious motives on a bike forum and ALL answers were vicious. I asked why it is a problem for them that someone asks this and then I was being hassled.
Oddly in Germany you see loads of Muslims walking around who don’t hide their faith but as a Catholic you will automatically be mocked.

I think I don’t hide the fact that I’m Catholic because I’m ashamed but I just want to avoid confrontation. I’m pretty sure if I would pray the rosary openly on a bus, people would mock me or at least stare. These days it is “uncool” to be Catholic. If you ask the average person in Germany if they have faith, they usually come up with some new age jumbo mumbo “yeah, I kind of believe in something about Universal energy or prefer Buddhism”. They want to be “en vogue” when it comes to faith. :rolleyes:
We both have encountered the same mockery, and sadly I was unprepared to defend our Faith. Over the last two years I have taken it upon myself to really begin to learn our Catholic Faith. I am no apologist, but I now can hold my own when confronted by those who wish to bash the Church. If all adult Catholics would take time to learn our Faith and outwardly present it, we would be in a much better position. There is power and truth in knowledge.
 
There is no need for you to feel self conscious. If you allow yourself to feel this way, you give the secular world its power over those of us who choose to follow Jesus. I know the feeling you get. I think we all do at times. I outwardly stand up for my faith, and profess it when I can, to show others the importance of God in my life. Sometimes you would not believe the names I am called and admonishment I get. But, more often than not, it is glances of approval and understanding. **If I can make only 1 person a day think of God and all He offers, it is well worth it./**QUOTE]

What a nice way of putting this, Jim. Right now I am having a bit of a time at home, as my husband feels that all religion/spirituality is mumbo-jumbo. Therefore my prayers and any devotions, including Grace before meals, is said as privately as possible. I just don’t want to be put down or made fun of; maybe as I grow stronger in my faith I will get more courageous. But I doubt I can or ever will approach my husband about belief in God, salvation, and the hereafter. It is disturbing to me that we will most likely not be together after we die, but I cannot impose on him that which he doesn’t want.

This got way off topic, didn’t it? No, I don’t pray the rosary in public, but I keep a small chaplet in my pocket, so I can sneak some praying in when I am walking the dogs.
 
There is no need for you to feel self conscious. If you allow yourself to feel this way, you give the secular world its power over those of us who choose to follow Jesus. I know the feeling you get. I think we all do at times. I outwardly stand up for my faith, and profess it when I can, to show others the importance of God in my life. Sometimes you would not believe the names I am called and admonishment I get. But, more often than not, it is glances of approval and understanding. If I can make only 1 person a day think of God and all He offers, it is well worth it.
What a nice way of putting this, Jim. Right now I am having a bit of a time at home, as my husband feels that all religion/spirituality is mumbo-jumbo. Therefore my prayers and any devotions, including Grace before meals, is said as privately as possible. I just don’t want to be put down or made fun of; maybe as I grow stronger in my faith I will get more courageous. But I doubt I can or ever will approach my husband about belief in God, salvation, and the hereafter. It is disturbing to me that we will most likely not be together after we die, but I cannot impose on him that which he doesn’t want.

This got way off topic, didn’t it? No, I don’t pray the rosary in public, but I keep a small chaplet in my pocket, so I can sneak some praying in when I am walking the dogs.
 
This got way off topic, didn’t it? .
Not really because being awkward/self-conscious about praying the rosary in public has a bit to do with being awkward/self-conscious about showing your faith in general, at least in my case.

(btw I also meant mumbo-jumbo when I wrote jumbo-mumbo before:o)
 
Lui, I live in Germany, too, and people are not very Catholic here, either, i.e. I am not living in Bavaria, but near Frankfurt/Main.
I am open about my faith, and I have never encountered anything but friendly attitudes when people asked (like, asking about reading the bible, my book of hours, wearing a cross, wearing skirts, as I keep the rosary rather invisible, too, as I posted before).

I do not know where you live, as the eastern parts of Germany can be rather negative towards religion, but perhaps you might consider if your own attitude has something to do with the reactions you encounter. If you are timid and seem to be insecure in your faith, you invite snide remarks and encourage people to try and rob you of your faith.

I’ll keep you in my prayers, if you allow.
 
As most things go, I am still a new Catholic I understand the rosary and about a year ago I started praying daily. I did it in the morning, or driving to work, or before I went to sleep. I did this for several months, and it began to seem as though I was loosing something. It seemed like it became more of a habit and my mind started to wander to the busy things of life. Now I unfortunately rarely pray the rosary. But it seems to be more meaningful to me now when I do. I really enjoyed praying it every day, but it felt wrong because it no longer seemed reverent. I am sure I cannot be the only one that has had this happen, so how do you overcome it?
 
Lui, I live in Germany, too, and people are not very Catholic here, either, i.e. I am not living in Bavaria, but near Frankfurt/Main.
I am open about my faith, and I have never encountered anything but friendly attitudes when people asked (like, asking about reading the bible, my book of hours, wearing a cross, wearing skirts, as I keep the rosary rather invisible, too, as I posted before).

I do not know where you live, as the eastern parts of Germany can be rather negative towards religion, but perhaps you might consider if your own attitude has something to do with the reactions you encounter. If you are timid and seem to be insecure in your faith, you invite snide remarks and encourage people to try and rob you of your faith.

I’ll keep you in my prayers, if you allow.
I live in Cologne which has a huge Catholic Cathedral: The Kölner Dome: dbu.de/media/0207090213091b47.jpg which of course you will know.
Your definitely right when you say it’s might be my attitude. Actually it’s more my own insecurity. I don’t come across as insecure or timid in real life as a person but when it comes to faith you’re right. If people start discussing religion with me I tend to become quite defensive quickly.
I should be a bit more outgoing with my faith and develop more security:)
 
I usually pray my rosary when I go for walks in my neighborhood. Most people are used to seeing me so they dont pay much attention anymore. I also pray it at work when I’m on midnight shift. West Virginia doesn’t have many Catholics but people tend to be very kind to us. Sometimes you get the random elderly person who wants to preach to you.

Pax Christi
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Say it in Latin. It will confuse the dogs. 🙂
In Latin, I LOVE IT !!! Actually, I love to say the Rosary while walking my dogs. And a couple of times passed an elderly gent ( in our community ) fingering his beads and saying his rosary as well. We’re not always alone.

pax et bonum:D
 
You can try and be discreet about it. Most people don’t put their nose in other people’s business during the rush hour commute. Just don’t be showy.
 
I usually pray my rosary when I go for walks in my neighborhood. Most people are used to seeing me so they dont pay much attention anymore. I also pray it at work when I’m on midnight shift. West Virginia doesn’t have many Catholics but people tend to be very kind to us. Sometimes you get the random elderly person who wants to preach to you.

Pax Christi
:highprayer: TemplarJPN :knight2:
The four general grants of indulgence are partial with worth depending on the perfection of charity with which the person performs it, matched in equal amount by the Church:

  1. *]Raising the mind to God with humble trust when performing one’s duties and bearing life’s difficulty, and adding, at least mentally, some pious invocation.
    *]Devoting oneself or one’s goods compassionately in a spirit of faith to the service of one’s brothers and sisters in need.
    *]Freely abstaining in a spirit of penance from something licit and pleasant.
    *]Freely giving open witness to one’s faith before others in particular circumstances of everyday life.

    vatican.va/roman_curia/tribunals/apost_penit/documents/rc_trib_appen_doc_20020826_enchiridion-indulgentiarum_lt.html
 
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