At the Novus Ordo, I never really felt like the Mass was a “prayer”, but rather more like a “ceremonial gathering”. SNIP
Suddenly the phrase “praying the Mass” made perfect sense to me, maybe because I was more focused on the prayers in the missal than trying to pay attention to the words of the priest.
My question is this: Are we supposed to “pray” the Novus Ordo Mass?
The answer I would give your question is a resounding “yes.”
And I would humbly submit that I find my experience of both the Pauline Mass and the TLM (in various forms) to be (like ncjohn’s) rather the opposite of yours.
I should explain that my primary and formative experience of the Pauline Mass has been attendance for most of my life of a chanted Latin Mass (not TLM, ordinary form.) (I understand enough Latin to understand the prayers of the Mass without difficulty.)
The Mass always seemed to me a prayer in dialogue form with both parts proper to both priest and people; I think this is because at the Mass the congregation chanted the responses (something that never happens to the same degree in the TLM.)
I remember thinking vaguely when I was much younger that chanting the responses at Mass was very good and important, but I could never articulate why I thought so. Then, as an adult, I discovered the Divine Office and came to the conclusion that the “call & response” (don’t really know the technical term; I think antiphonal is not quite correct) form of chant is really a form of prayer; and for me a most effective one.
A previous poster commented that he thought the OF was more suited to those who like to pray by doing, while those who are more contemplative will be more at home in the EF: ironically the form of “call & response” chant I encountered in the Pauline Mass has been used to pray the Divine Office most frequently by contemplative religious.
I would not be inclined to give much weight to my personal preference for this form of prayer at Mass (as it is flimisily based on what I like) except that this form of prayer has been approved and used by the Church and in religious houses for centuries. Thus I feel free to openly prefer it.
I imagine that most poster’s will write off this post with the comment “Well, chanted Pauline Masses are really rare.”
I can’t say I understand the relevance of this comment. It’s also extremely rare to find an American religious house that still chants the Office. The rareness does not detract from the worth and beauty of the prayer.