Hi. The only stupid question is the one you never ask
Our attitude to Mary and the Saints relies on two points:
- The power of group prayer. Surely you must be familiar with the many Bible passages, especially in St Paul’s epistles, where we are all instructed to pray both with and for each other. Why would this be so if group prayer was pointless? What about the epistle of James where he says ‘the prayer of a righteous man avails much’.
Personally I don’t so much do it out of a belief that God will hear us better, I do it out of a belief that it strengthens US in our faith and our life when we pray together as a community. Rather like having formal and ceremonial baptisms, weddings, church services. God can at least sometimes work without such things. WE, on the other hand, benefit hugely from them.
- We do not believe that those who die in Christ suffer from any loss of consciousness or mental powers, and aren’t in some sort of hibernation until the Second Coming. They are at least as capable mentally as they were in life.
The idea tha they aren’t is silly - didn’t Christ say to the good thief ‘this day you will be with me in Paradise?’. He opened heaven for us and we are free to enter, if fitted for it, immediately upon our death.
Those who die in Christ are just as active about God’s business, and about the care of their fellow members of Christ’s body on Earth, as they were in life. They are in fact more powerful, being already glorified and in heaven.
And Paul again talks about a ‘cloud of witnesses’ observing our lives - spectators as we run our race. Have you ever been at a sporting event? Are the spectators passive and unconcerned? Or are they instead cheering on and encouraging their heroes, and doing all in their power to ensure a win for their favourites? The difference being that the Saints CAN help with their prayers.
Read Revelations - John himself (the writer) speaks of heavenly beings offering the prayers of the saints on earth to God. This is what we do with our prayers to them - we ask them to offer our prayers to God for us, since they see him to his face. And even John, while still alive, was gifted in Revelations with a vision of all the peoples of Earth and could hear them all praising God. Those in heaven, who ‘know even as they are known’, surely can always see and hear what is going on on Earth!
As for King Saul - he tried to literally summon up Samuel’s ghost from for one thing, which Catholics never do, and would in fact find repellent and sinful. He used a medium (a witch, an ungodly person) for another, which is also a sinful thing to do for us. And he wanted to FORETELL the future and get information FROM the ghost for a third thing. We do none of these things.