Thank you for the wisdom, I’m doing what I can to support her and encourage her to seek professional help. I’m praying that Grace is given to her that she opens to the idea. It’s especially hard for me right now as she is away for school, and the time difference, and schedule difference is hard. I’m also praying that the good people around her bless her.
I have my own theory that says, people who lived in hell and go to better places, they are optimistic. People who searched only for the best, they may lead into depression.
Other way: if you think that this life if hell, you take any blessing as a treasure. If you think that this life should be heaven, then everything is bad and you may fall into depression.
Now, see, ladies are more pressed: they should be beautiful, lively, graceful, active, elegant, good mothers and sexy wives, be ready to helps the family when there is trouble and be ready to be single mothers, active workers and everything this with a smile on their faces. That is what society demands. And it is a over-human ideal. No woman cand do it all.
So, people whose demands on them are over their strenghts easily fall into depression.
Depression modifies the brain chemistry. That is why a doctor is needed.
TIME magazine put it succintly. It said that when people have a broken leg, they do not get blamed for being week. Then why, said TIME, a disease like depression which is simply a lack of a chemical in the brain, serotonin, which is the hormon of pleasure, why, said TIME, depressed people are called builty and discriminated against? People say that they are week, that they do not have willpower, that they, even worse, do not trust in God, and if, by negligence of people around, they commit suicide, even worse, they go to hell or it was their fault.
Simply not fair.
