Ok, good. We are standing on common ground to begin.
But let us go back to the beginning of this passage:
Acts 10:1-5
10:1 At Caesare’a there was a man named Cornelius, a centurion of what was known as the Italian Cohort, 2 a devout man who feared God with all his household, gave alms liberally to the people, and prayed constantly to God. 3 About the ninth hour of the day he saw clearly in a vision an angel of God coming in and saying to him, “Cornelius.” 4 And he stared at him in terror, and said, “What is it, Lord?” And he said to him, "Your prayers and your alms have ascended as a memorial before God.
If, as Calvin proposes, the unregenerate man “runs away from God”, and we agree that Cornelius was not yet “born again” how is it that he sought the Lord? And more so, how is it that he was able to do anything pleasing to God?
I think you can see how this passage creates complication for Calvin’s notion of total depravity. It does support, on the other hand, the Catholic view that the human person was wounded by the Fall, but still capable of responding to prevenient (drawing) grace that brings all to Christ.
Acts 17:22-28
22 So Paul, standing in the middle of the Are-op’agus, said: "Men of Athens, I perceive that in every way you are very religious. 23 For as I passed along, and observed the objects of your worship, I found also an altar with this inscription, ‘To an unknown god.’ What therefore you worship as unknown, this I proclaim to you. 24 The God who made the world and everything in it, being Lord of heaven and earth, does not live in shrines made by man, 25 nor is he served by human hands, as though he needed anything, since he himself gives to all men life and breath and everything. 26 And he made from one every nation of men to live on all the face of the earth, having determined allotted periods and the boundaries of their habitation, 27 that they should seek God, in the hope that they might feel after him and find him. Yet he is not far from each one of us, 28 for
‘In him we live and move and have our being’;
as even some of your poets have said,
‘For we are indeed his offspring.’
The Apostles taught that we are made in the image and likeness of God, and that we have an inward desire to seek after Him, to find Him. This desire was wounded, but remains within man, even while man is separated from God by sins (dead in sins).
That desire, given by God, in man to seek God must be meet with grace, so that grace,through faith, can accomplish salvation.