Inexperienced lovers sometimes have this happen, but with the passage of time and a growing understanding of each other’s sexuality, couples learn to avoid it.
Sin is in the will. I’ve yet to hear of a guy say that he willed it. The anxiety; feeling of failure; embarrassment; etc. as a result of this needs to be treated with compassion by the spouse.
Now if you’re not married and you’re experiencing this problem…that’s another thing entirely.
I tooI just can’t see how any man would want this to happen, and therefore “will” themselves into this action .Many men can’t control their timing. Even if they can, the term is subjective as to how you define PE.
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