Nancy,
I read much of what you wrote on Contenders (you did very well there) and wrote a little bit myself, most of which they have already deleted, almost as soon as it was posted. I don’t know if I’ve been banned or not yet. I’ve decided they aren’t worth my time or effort. They don’t listen to what anyone says unless that person’s words echo their own. They are not interested in the Truth. In their eyes, no truth exists except in them. I’m not sure even Karl Keating would have success with them. No matter what you say, Ben and Jennifer have quick (in the sense of being ready at hand–they must sit at their computer all day, like a cat ready to pounce, to make sure nothing gets posted that puts them in a bad light) pat answers that often don’t respond to what you are saying and which show that they don’t even understand the things they quote from Catholic sources.
Prayer, not talk, is the best bet for influencing people like them. Ex-Catholics, like Beth, seem to be the most bitter opponents of the Faith.
Let’s see, who am I here, Violet or Mary Fran?