Priest in the congregation?

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I don’t normally but this is bright red and he sits near the back where I do. I did notice a woman once showing more cleavage then if she had a bikini on, I was younger and she was sitting with me. I do notice especially at weekday Mass a few women wearing the mantilla (pronounced mantija?) which is nice, I always thought they looked beautiful, the design.
 
I agree.

What people wear, or think is acceptable to wear, and how people percieve normality, can vary enormously between churches, between countries, between social backgrounds and social classes.

Personally, it doesn’t bother me.

If somebody is poor and has nothing else to wear, it’s still better he or she comes to church in that than staying at home. Humility and modesty are also about not criticizing others or making them feel uncomfortable.

If anybody needs to be drawing lines and telling people what doesn’t go, that’s the priest’s call, not mine.
 
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While a bishop in attendance SHOULD be the main celebrant when vesting, a bishop may sit in choir.

In otherwords, a bishop should not concelebrate unless another bishop is the main celebrant. But there is no reason why a bishop can’t sit in choir.
Attended a wedding many years ago where the uncle of the groom was the celebrant and another uncle was the concelebrant. A bishop (friend of the family) was in attendance but did not concelebrate; as I recall, he wore his cassock and surplice and sat off to the side in the sanctuary.
 
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I would hope that he doesn’t go up and receive communion wearing this sweater.
Words fail me.

However, in that this has never stopped me before 😁, I submit that the priest needs to take your cardigan guy aside, explain that this article of clothing is not consonant with the reverence due to Holy Mass and receiving communion, and that to wear it to church in the future will result in the ushers denying him entrance to the nave.

The same would apply to “Daisy Dukes”, a man wearing a Speedo, or something so outrageous that nobody — unless they are really out in left field — would maintain that someone attired thusly is “good to go” for Mass.

I am OK with bringing the dog — even though the dog is naked — as long as it doesn’t bark excessively or otherwise misbehave. If the dog is a service animal, there is no use even to discuss it.
 
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While a bishop in attendance SHOULD be the main celebrant when vesting, a bishop may sit in choir.

In otherwords, a bishop should not concelebrate unless another bishop is the main celebrant. But there is no reason why a bishop can’t sit in choir.
Attended a wedding many years ago where the uncle of the groom was the celebrant and another uncle was the concelebrant. A bishop (friend of the family) was in attendance but did not concelebrate; as I recall, he wore his cassock and surplice and sat off to the side in the sanctuary.
Yes, that is called “sitting in choir.” When a non-bishop is the main celebrant to a mass in which a bishop is present, the bishop will typically sit in choir, wearing his amaranth (the reddish/purplish) colored cassock (or scarlet red if a Cardinal)

AS FYI, a bishop does not wear a surplice. He actually wears a white “rochet,” which is similar looking to a surplice, but has much narrower sleeves. Plus, of course bishops always wear their amaranth colored “mozzetta” too over their rochet.
 
It is very possible he was a priest. We used to have four priests on staff at our parish. One would say mass and the other three would sit in the nave. It is my understanding that a visiting priest has to have special permission to celebrate/concelebrate is a different diocese.
 
Yeah I had not having the answers for things ! Which is why I am on here so frequently 😂
 
The same would apply to “Daisy Dukes”, a man wearing a Speedo, or something so outrageous that nobody — unless they are really out in left field — would maintain that someone attired thusly is “good to go” for Mass.
What’s a daisy duke?
I am OK with bringing the dog — even though the dog is naked — as long as it doesn’t bark excessively or otherwise misbehave. If the dog is a service animal, there is no use even to discuss it.
Thankfully the dog doesn’t bark although the next time you pray for humility someone will sit next to you with a St. Bernard. 😃
 
The same would apply to “Daisy Dukes”, a man wearing a Speedo, or something so outrageous that nobody — unless they are really out in left field — would maintain that someone attired thusly is “good to go” for Mass.
Ultra-short cutoff jeans and a skimpy halter top with bare midriff, made popular by the eponymous character in the TV show The Dukes of Hazzard. Prostitutes dress more demurely than that.
Thankfully the dog doesn’t bark although the next time you pray for humility someone will sit next to you with a St. Bernard.
I think any dog, aside from a service animal, would be 86’ed from either of my parishes (regular Novus Ordo parish or TLM parish two hours away), but I’ll bear that in mind, the next time I pray as you describe.

And dogs do sometimes wear sweaters, though following Porky Pig’s example, that’s about all they wear. I don’t think modesty guidelines would apply to them 😆 🐶
 
I think any dog, aside from a service animal, would be 86’ed from either of my parishes (regular Novus Ordo parish or TLM parish two hours away), but I’ll bear that in mind, the next time I pray as you describe.
Service animals in training too, actually. I know our parish is a regular destination for dogs in training. There are occasional issues because they’re still in training, but not much. I gather it’s a good place to get the dogs used to lots of people and motion around them.
 
I want to go to one of those masses where they bless animals but they don’t have them over here 😦 or at least not in my area
 
Service animals in training too, actually. I know our parish is a regular destination for dogs in training. There are occasional issues because they’re still in training, but not much. I gather it’s a good place to get the dogs used to lots of people and motion around them.
I am 100% in favor of that.
 
I know it’s inappropriate to say the priest’s private prayers, but is it OK to read them?

I use a Missal to every Mass I go to and I do read and follow along with all of the priest’s private prayers… I don’t however extend my hands or anything like that, I also don’t verbalize it, I read along as it happens…
 
No. A priest is either concelebrating or he’s not, there’s no sort of halfway option whereby a priest can be in the congregation and just say the words.
Although byzantine practice generally calls for a non-concelebrating priest to still enter the Holy Place for the Anaphora . . . I think they stick around for the Eucharist (but maybe they step back out and return).

However, at Fr. Frances Vivona’s funeral, it just wasn’t possible to pack them all in there! I think they managed to get a couple of dozen in, but that left dozens more . . . (we had rows of priests out with the people. I don’t think even all the Eastern bishops present concelebrated! [or any of the RC]{I think all of our current bishops, a couple of retired one, the local RC bishop, and a couple of other eastern bishops}).

( assume with no information that non concelebrating deacons would also enter to receive with the other deacons [after the priests, and before the subdeacons])

Also the largest KofC honor guard I’ve ever seen personally. (and one of the bishops, on the way out as we stood by outside the hearse, stopped and leaned over to tell me how much better my regalia was than the new, err, third world paratrooper outfit . . . 🤣)

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I want to go to one of those masses where they bless animals but they don’t have them over here 😦 or at least not in my area
our priest blesses animals on St Francis’ feast day but not in a Mass. I plan to take my new pony to be blessed next year.
 
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