At the Parish where I now live, Father said we are expecting about 1000 people for the first of three Vigil Masses. Because of this they are opening a rec. hall near the main church, decorating it and all the over flow will be sent there for a Mass that will be going on at the same time. The main church building only holds about 450 people comfortably and 1000 wouldn’t fit in, so this is what Father is doing to handle the over crowed state of affairs. That is at 4 P.M. today. There will also be a 6 P.M. Vigil and a 9 P.M. Vigil Mass. We’re also having a Midnight Mass and three Masses tomorrow too.
This is my first year here at this parish so I’m really not familiar with the way things go. Since I don’t like crowds, I won’t be anywhere near the church buildings for the 4 P.M. and secretly thanked Father for letting me know how crowded it actually gets. I plan on making two, one today and one tomorrow. But that is my choice.
I also know that if I went on Vigil, I could stay home in my PJs for Christmas day. If my children were small that is probably what I would do.
That being all said, I think perhaps the OP’s Pastor is probably getting tired of folks coming for Vigil and no one showing up on Christmas day. So in his frustration he’s asking those who came on this past week end to try and come on Christmas day. It is after all, rather obvious that a whole slew of Catholics only come for the two main Holy Days of the year, namely Christmas and Easter. A very sad reality for many Catholic families. We’re supposed to be charitable and excuse the "C&E"s as visiting from other parishes and only in ours because they attend regularly at their “home” parishes. Add to the facts of the matter that most come to Vigil not because they are working the E.R. on Christmas day and won’t be able to get there on the actual day which is the main purpose of the Vigil. Nope. It is obvious that folks take advantage and the earlier the Mass is on the Eve of Christmas, the happier they are so going to Church won’t interfere with all their holiday plans. Sad to say, but true.
But Jesus loves the attention we give Him on Christmas day. I can only do as I’m sure more than one person does and hope that something will spark up the "C&E"s to return for Sunday Mass as soon as they can and pray for that end.
Glenda