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Celebacy is a discipline, not a doctrine.

Discipline may change.

Doctrine does not change.

Doctrine has never changed. It’s only been clarified by further definition or explanation.
 
Here is the point clealry:

The dissentions I have noted is to reply to your objection that Church teaching is always correct. This is not anywhere near to the truth of the matter as many instances in Church history have clearly shown that dissent has always been in the church and many times has changed it for the better. I have been accused, not by you, of making heretical statements but others throught the history of the church were accused of the same things. In short, the church can be wrong the church has been wrong and the church will no doubt be wrong on certain issues in the future.

Christ Himself chose men who were married and celibate as His first priests. Christ set the tradition and standard of not just a celibate or married clergy but both. The Church goes against the actions of Christ in this regards and imposes a celibate only clergy within the Church (exceptions aside that I have previously mentioned)
We only know that Peter was married, and, this was because a “mother-in-law” is mentioned. But, apart from St. John, we don’t know the marital status of the others (not even Matthais). We do know that Paul was single.

Your logic is still fuzzy and you have really not set forth anything doctrinal. You are just using yourself as your own source, as opposed to official Church teaching. Sorry, but your foundation is pretty much built on quicksand and you are sinking fairly quickly.
 
We can assume that Peter was married at one time because of the reference in scripture to his mother-in-law, but how do we know his wife was still alive at that time? Couldn’t he have been widowed, therefore “single” and chaste?

What other scriptural references do we have that any of the other apostles were married, either before they met Jesus or after?
We only know that Peter was married, and, this was because a “mother-in-law” is mentioned. But, apart from St. John, we don’t know the marital status of the others (not even Matthais). We do know that Paul was single.
  1. Do we not have a right to take along a believing wife, even as the rest of the apostles and the brothers of the Lord and Cephas?
    1 Corinthians 9:5
Clearly Peter had a wife and brought her along during the time that Paul was working (so well after Pentacost). While not perfectly clear, it seems to me that this passage would mean that James and at least some of the other apostles also had wives at this time.
2 Therefore, a bishop must be irreproachable, married only once, temperate, self-controlled, decent, hospitable, able to teach,
3 not a drunkard, not aggressive, but gentle, not contentious, not a lover of money.
4 He must manage his own household well, keeping his children under control with perfect dignity;
5 for if a man does not know how to manage his own household, how can he take care of the church of God?
1 Timothy 3:2-5
This passage gives Paul’s thoughts on who would make a good bishop. Being married was clearly not a bar.
 
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I’d suggest you slow down and carefully choose your words rather than trying to fill the post with quantity . . . and confusion . . . I feel as if we’re reading the sequel to the Screwtape Letters . . .

Again, we know that Peter was married due to the mention of his mother-in-law, but was his wife alive or was Peter widowed and chaste?

What other specific scriptural or traditional references do we have that tell us the original 12 apostles were married, either before or after Jesus called them to ministry?
1 Corinthians 9:5 “Don’t we have the right to take a believing wife along with us, as do the other apostles and the Lord’s brothers and Cephas” Cephas is one of the names for Peter. The Biblical quote clearly infers that Peter was married as well as many of the other Apostles and that they brought their wives with them.
 
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  1. The first issue on this thread that I commented on was laicization. To date I have yet to see soemone call into question any of the theological arguemnts put forth on why laiciazation can not exist
They are quite irrelevant and need not be broached at all.

It is simply that the Church provides for laicization and sets forth certain effects that result from it which prevent the laicized priest from validly administering certain sacraments, although it also provides for limited exceptions. The Church asserts that it has the authority to do so clearly in its theology and canon law.

You, as far I understand your position, do not believe the Church has the authority to do this, and consequently deny those effects.
 
👍 Wonder how the protestant Chruches do it. I wonder how they supported a married clergy for all those years before celibacy was mandated. Many married priests do it everyday. they visit the sick, give last rites at 5 oclock in the morning and still get up to go to work when their alarm rings.
Thanks for the info…that solves evrything and it is all so clear. Wish I had thought of that.🙂
 
Em_in_FL;3201803]The church has not closed the door on married priests (those who were FIRST married and THEN entered priesthood)…
Tradition (guided by the Holy Spirit) has guided the church towards celibate priesthood for many reasons… but certainly has not imposed a doctrinal statement on this.
“Don’t we have the right to take a believing wife along with us, as do the other apostles and the Lord’s brothers and Cephas” Indicates clearly that the apostles had wives. If we look at the text of the Gospels ((Matthew 8:14–17; Mark 1:29–31; Luke 4:38) We find out that peter was married before he became a disciple of Christ.

I am not sure where you are getting this "The church has not closed the door on married priests (those who were FIRST married and THEN entered priesthood)…"but I believe you are suggesting that it means that if you are celibate and intend to stay a priest in active ministry you can not get married. Ask your father about this one. Whether Rome wants to admit it or not your father is as just as much a priest today as the day of his ordination. Look at laicization and try to make that theologically work.

Originally the tradition of the apostles and priests was to allow for a married clergy. Was that not guided by the Holy Spirit with the foundation of Christ Himself choosing married and unmarried men?
The discussion was originally about laicization… for those who were FIRST priests and THEN were called to marriage.
There is not a tradition of going in this direction (even from Christ)…
Actually this direction IS in Canon law:
I mentioned that it was from canon law several times. If you go back to the first few posts of mine you will see that this laiciaztion can not theologically exist and you are welcome to try and refute anything i have said on the matter.
 
“Don’t we have the right to take a believing wife along with us, as do the other apostles and the Lord’s brothers and Cephas” Indicates clearly that the apostles had wives. If we look at the text of the Gospels ((Matthew 8:14–17; Mark 1:29–31; Luke 4:38) We find out that peter was married before he became a disciple of Christ.

I am not sure where you are getting this "The church has not closed the door on married priests (those who were FIRST married and THEN entered priesthood)…"but I believe you are suggesting that it means that if you are celibate and intend to stay a priest in active ministry you can not get married. Ask your father about this one. Whether Rome wants to admit it or not your father is as just as much a priest today as the day of his ordination. Look at laicization and try to make that theologically work.

Originally the tradition of the apostles and priests was to allow for a married clergy. Was that not guided by the Holy Spirit with the foundation of Christ Himself choosing married and unmarried men?

I mentioned that it was from canon law several times. If you go back to the first few posts of mine you will see that this laiciaztion can not theologically exist and you are welcome to try and refute anything i have said on the matter.
First of all, where did you get your opening statement from? You make a lot of points, but, you don’t offer citations. Are these ideas coming from you or from CORPUS? Again, I ask, where aer your sources?

Second, Deacon Cameron correctly asserts that laiciazation is not even a factor here. You are the one who keeps bringing it up.

The bottom line is that the Church has taken a position, which is well within her right and the right of Peter (as the one to whom Jesus directly conferred His own authority), but, you have taken one that is 180 degrees to teh opposite.

By your insistance that you are correct, you are making yourself greater than the Church’s own authority and are following in the footsteps of King Henry VIII, Martin Luther and others. You claim that you are merely following the examples of St. Catherine of Sienna and others, but, what you are really doing is more in line with Luther, and Henry. This is dangerous territory.
 
benedictgal;3202129]First of all, where did you get your opening statement from? You make a lot of points, but, you don’t offer citations. Are these ideas coming from you or from CORPUS? Again, I ask, where aer your sources?
i would have thought that after citing it several times previous you would be satisfied. i even See that someone else cited it as well. Herr you go: “Don’t we have the right to take a believing wife along with us, as do the other apostles and the Lord’s brothers and Cephas.” 1 Corinthians 9:5
Second, Deacon Cameron correctly asserts that laiciazation is not even a factor here. You are the one who keeps bringing it up.
Laicization shows the lengths the church has gone to to try and create some sort of legal fiction to allow men who were called to the priest hood to answer their call to marriage as well. The Church has created a loop hole that can not possible exist so they can retain the hold on a celibate clergy.
The bottom line is that the Church has taken a position, which is well within her right and the right of Peter (as the one to whom Jesus directly conferred His own authority), but, you have taken one that is 180 degrees to teh opposite.
The position I have taken is the original position of the Church instituted by Christ Himself. many of the Church Hierarchy are the ones that decided to change this and do the “180” as you refer to it as.
By your insistance that you are correct, you are making yourself greater than the Church’s own authority and are following in the footsteps of King Henry VIII, Martin Luther and others.
What I am demonstrating is that the Church was the one who forced celibacy upon the clergy and a purely celibate clergy was obviously not what Jesus wanted when he chose the twelve.
You claim that you are merely following the examples of St. Catherine of Sienna and others, but, what you are really doing is more in line with Luther, and Henry. This is dangerous territory.
You missed the point of that again. The dissent of all those people shows that the church can indeed be wrong. That was the point.

What I see is using the justification of “because the Church says so” for all matters. The Authority of the Church does not trump the Authority of God. The Church changed a married and celibate clergy to merely a celibate clergy and you feel they have a right to contradict what Christ Himself started. Pardon me if I voice my dissent over something that is clearly in contradiction with the the Gospels, the foundation of Christainity and the actions of Christ.
 
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If you go back to the first few posts of mine you will see that this laiciaztion can not theologically exist and you are welcome to try and refute anything i have said on the matter.
As noted above, that is just irrelevant.

The ontological character of priesthood was not the issue of contention regarding laicization, but rather the validity of certain sacraments.

That particular ordinations might have been declared invalid was not the issue either.

And, moreover, apart from certain exceptions, the exercise of priestly ministry by a laicized priest is gravely illicit. Lamentably, Rent a Priest not only advertises the services of married priests (presumably those who were laicized or just defected) and summons the argument of “pastoral emergency” much in the vein of the SSPX to justify their sacramental administrations.
Interesting comrades in their common rejection of Church authority but unconvincing canonical arguments in both cases.

It may also be noted, the views that the Church lacks the authority to determine the validity of the administration of sacraments, and that there is a disconnection between Christ and the Church, are staples of both the married priest movement (Corpus) and the women’s ordination movement. It must be frankly acknowledged that they each espouse a certain agenda.
The two appear to have converged recently. Most readers of these fora will know that the Church determines only men may be validly ordained.

However, the Corpus website announces now that “we have come to realize in recent years that our membership has attracted people far and wide who believe that the policy of mandatory celibacy and the corresponding male-only priesthood are both discriminatory and sexist.” A jump page informs us that “The universal call to follow Jesus and to be ministers of the Gospel must be recognized, minus blanket ordination barriers that are based on marital status, gender or sexual orientation.” Visit the website. Breathe the air.

There, I should imagine, we find the logical consequence of the denial of the authority which the Church asserts in this matter.

Non Catholic Churches and ecclesial communities may govern themselves as they will. The Church does not intervene in their practices. But there is something to be drawn from the fact that many suffer from a clergy shortage although permitting the married of either sex as well as people of various “sexual orientation” to serve as their clergy.

These are groups which also claim to “have taken . . . the original position of the Church instituted by Christ Himself” on a variety of issues. Again, it is about the acceptance or rejection of authority.
 
the linked article on CNS refers to two priests, one who has been suspended pending investigation of allegations against him, and another who “left to get married” and is helpful because it describes their status, the actions the bishop can and cannot take, and the difficulty in enforcing canon law on this area
catholicnews.com/data/stories/cns/0800243.htm
I add it simply as another clarification of what has been stated already on the matter.
 
cameron_lansing;3202254]As noted above, that is just irrelevant.

The ontological character of priesthood was not the issue of contention regarding laicization, but rather the validity of certain sacraments.

That particular ordinations might have been declared invalid was not the issue either.

And, moreover, apart from certain exceptions, the exercise of priestly ministry by a laicized priest is gravely illicit. Lamentably, Rent a Priest not only advertises the services of married priests (presumably those who were laicized or just defected) and summons the argument of “pastoral emergency” much in the vein of the SSPX to justify their sacramental administrations.
i think you should pass this on to them as it seems directed towards others than me.
Interesting comrades in their common rejection of Church authority but unconvincing canonical arguments in both cases.
This is an interesting point because you dismiss the argument as a whole without visiting it at all. What you so convieneitly dismiss is what is know as “fruit of the poisonous tree” and it has become most evident that you are more willing to
dismiss the objection to laicization as a most serious flaw in theological understanding and truth that affects every sacrament instead of dealing with the argument put forth. Laicization as I have shown, which no one seems to want to touch, is the equivalent of giving the order to fire at your own execution.
It may also be noted, the views that the Church lacks the authority to determine the validity of the administration of sacraments
I never suggested that the Church doe snot have the authority to determine the validity of a sacaremnt. You said this just now. What I did say is that the Church doe snot have the authority to declare a valid sacrament invalid.
and that there is a disconnection between Christ and the Church,
What you are arguing here is that if there is no disconnect between Christ and the Church to a certain extent then it was the will of Christ that heretics were burned, pedophile priests were moved around and protected, to say nothing of the grave issues of the inquisition and the crusades. This is the Catholic Church not Islam. You claim the Church has the4 authority of Christ and that there is no breathing room between the authority of Christ and the Authority of the Church but this understanding works both ways and I doubt very much if you want to make the argument that it was from Christ’ authority that hertics were burned, the crusades were fought and pedophile priests were protected. You do not realize the magnitude of what you are saying for if you did you would understand that everything the Church has ever done wrong could be traced back to the authority of Christ.
 
are staples of both the married priest movement (Corpus) and the women’s ordination movement. It must be frankly acknowledged that they each espouse a certain agenda.
I wouldn’t doubt that at all.
The two appear to have converged recently. Most readers of these fora will know that the Church determines only men may be validly ordained.
I don’t think that this point has been brought up until just now or disputed in anyway.
However, the Corpus website announces now that “we have come to realize in recent years that our membership has attracted people far and wide who believe that the policy of mandatory celibacy and the corresponding male-only priesthood are both discriminatory and sexist.” A jump page informs us that “The universal call to follow Jesus and to be ministers of the Gospel must be recognized, minus blanket ordination barriers that are based on marital status, gender or sexual orientation.” Visit the website. Breathe the air.
I am sure they would love you giving their website and organization free advertsing but I fail to see the point.
There, I should imagine, we find the logical consequence of the denial of the authority which the Church asserts in this matter.
I like how you are substituting an argument from a website that has not been brought as proof or even suggested in this mater. If you wish to criticize these organizations then I would suggest you send them and email with your objections so we can get back to the issues at hand.
Non Catholic Churches and ecclesial communities may govern themselves as they will. The Church does not intervene in their practices. But there is something to be drawn from the fact that many suffer from a clergy shortage although permitting the married of either sex as well as people of various “sexual orientation” to serve as their clergy.
Let me get this right. A non catholic church which obviously isn’t catholic has priest shortages and you wan to make the connection that a priest shortage in the catholic church would not be solved if the clergy were married. basically what you are saying is that the problem in the Catholic church would not be solved because the protestant churches have the same shortage and they allow for marriage. You are catholic and making this argument? I could see this coming from a protestant view but not a catholic. I want to see if you can see your mistake in this comparrison before I explain it in order to give you the time to either clean it up or modify what you just said.
These are groups which also claim to “have taken . . . the original position of the Church instituted by Christ Himself” on a variety of issues. Again, it is about the acceptance or rejection of authority.
Authority is a neutral term. It only takes on meaning when it is given an adjective. like Church or divine. If you are advocating that they take a “said position” as a rejection of authority that would not make any sense whatsoever because of the neutrality of authority.
 
I love the Ctaholic Church and do have a deep respect for Rome and that is why I can not sit idley by and watch negligence or abuse go on within the Church. What the Church hierarchy is doing right now is jeopardizing the Catholic church tremendously and it is no wonder that people are leaving by the droves. People vote with their feet. Some can not recieve the Eucahrist but once a month or less. 5000 parishes in this country have no priest. The average age of all priests in this country is around 55 or so. We have lost approxiametly 5500 priests from the total number in this country since 1970 or so.
Let’s get the facts right.

In 1965 there were 35,925 diocesan and 22707 order priests.

In 2006 there were 28299 diocesan (or about 79% as many as in '65) and 13495 order priests (or about 59.5%). The orders have suffered the greates lowering of numbers. The surprising numbers are that the diocesan numbers have gone down gradually, and this appears to be more about fewer men coming into the priesthood to balance retirements than it does about how many left for wahtever reason.

As of 2006, there were 3,306 parishes without a priest. many of those have a priest saying Mass each Sunday, but not residing in the parish.

The above information is from CARA, which does Catholic research.
 
… and I only ask this because I’m trying to really learn about this subject. Granted, I could research this on my own, but I like being directed to VIABLE links etc so that I can supplement my own information gathering.

Opinions of why priests should or should not be celibate is great–but is there sound Catholic information out there that credits celibacy as being necessary for the priesthood…and that it eminated from Christ? I believe the Church and Christ to be a union of one. I have noticed that some posters will talk about the RCC as though it were making decisions independently of the Holy Spirit. That I believe is a false teaching/ or presumption, at the very least. So, if those of you who have viable links, info, etc…could you post them instead of mere opinion sprinkled with a few factoids? Thank you kindly–I hope my request makes sense.:o
There are a number of links around as to celibacy and the priesthood. It is an issue I ahve been involved with ever since I was in the seminary - which goes back to the 1960’s.

Rather than provide links, I will provide some thoughts. One is that too often, those who promote celibacy in the priesthood speak as if the Catholic Church was defined as the Roman Catholic Church; however, it is not the Roman Catholic Church, but rather, the Roman (or Latin) rite of the Catholic Church. Those who go down the path of reacting strongly in favor of celibacy seem to do two things: 1) they ignore the 2000 year tradition in the Church of married priests (the Eastern rites) and/or they 2) act as if it is an all or nothing question; either all priests are celibate (which they are not, to begin with) or the alternative is to throw out celibacy entirely. Neither postion is correct; one ignores the reality of history, and the other is a preposterous over-reaction.

Coupled with this is the reality that there are homosexual men in the priesthood. Saying that does not mean or imply that all are sexually active, only that there are men in the priesthood whose sexual identity and attraction is same sex. Some have been sexually active, some have not. There have been estimates that vary wildly; I have seen estimates published in papers and books (usually relating to the sexual abuse issues) of anywhere from 10% to as high as 80%; and most of it is simply speculation. For at least some men who have SSA, celibacy is perhaps a great gift, and perhaps one they would not like to see made optional (that is, by ordaining married men). But unless and until some valid research is done on the issue, we are left with speculation and not much more.

Celibacy is a calling, a vocation, and is separate from the priesthood; we have male celibates who take vows but are not ordained (we call them Brothers).

It might also be noted that there have been a few men who have requested and received laicization, married, their wife has died, and they have been returned to the active ministry (and not re-ordained; ordination is permanent).
 
Joyousguard, I have been reading your posts with some guarded concern. You say that you are Catholic, but, many of the statements you have made seem to contradict what the Church holds regarding celibacy in the priesthood. I had respectfully requested that you provide supporting documentation to defend your position. You have not.

The very heart of the matter is that Peter has already spoken regarding celibacy in the priesthood. The late Pope John Paul II issued a document regarding this matter and Pope Benedict XVI continues to affirm this teaching. What I do not understand is how one can consider themselves Catholic but then take stands that are contrary to what the Church teaches? The Church is not a cafeteria where you can accept certain things and leave out others.

It’s like the old country song that has a line, “What part of no don’t you understand?” Continuously advocating this kind of position against what the Church holds is treading on dangerous ground.
Without answering for statements made by Joyousguard, we are speaking about an issue that is a disciplinary issue. To answer your question about the propiety of questioning Rome’s decisions as to the discipline of celibacy as a requirement for priesthood in the Roman rite, I would point you to the questioning of reception of Communion in the hand which goes on extensively within these fora (something done in the early Church, then later changed by disciplinary rule to receipt on the tongue, and now allowed by indult), or the issue of whether or not women should be required to wear a head covering (noted in St Paul’s letter, seemingly mandatory, and part of Canon law previous to the changes in the recent Canon), and whether Communion should be received standing or kneeling.

The rule within the Roman rite is not even absolute. People who are baptized, and raised as Catholic - aka cradle Catholics - are forbidden ordination if they are married. However, those who are baptized (and I would submit, that as we recognize their baptism and do not re-baptize when they join - effectively they are baptized into the Church) but raised in a Protestant denomination, can be ordained if they are married.

There is a rule, but it is a rule that is not applied based on baptism - we recognize their baptism as a valid sacrament - but is based on how they were raised. There are people who see this as inherently unfair, as bordering on, if not outright, illogical, as bordering on dishonesty about the rule itself, and as not in the best interest of the Church. The pope and the bishops in union with him are guided by the Holy Spirit in issues of Faith (doctrine) and Morals. The disciplinary rule about celibacy is neither of those. There are people who question where and how the Spirit is guiding the Church on the issue of celibacy, given the response from Rome (approving married men to be ordained, but only if they were raised Protestant). So is it dangerous ground to question whether or not a disciplinary rule is in the best interest of the Church? If you stop to consider the fact that people who consider themselves to be valid, authentic, true to the Magisterium, reverant and faithful Catholics question other disciplinary choices made by Rome, perhaps you might reconsider whether or not those who question the absoluteness of the rule of celibacy in the Roman rite (which is obviously not absolute) are on dangerous ground.
 
Otjm, you write that you were in the seminary. Did you follow through and become a priest or did you leave at some point?

Furthermore, inasmuch as we are all well aware of the Eastern Rite Traditions, this discussion concerns the Latin Rite.

Celibacy is a calling; however, it is united to the priesthood in the Latin Rite. You can’t have your cake and eat it too if you plan on being a priest in the Latin Rite.

Pope Paul VI did not ignore history when he wrote his encyclical Sacerdotalis Caelibatus which says, in part:
  1. Christ, the only Son of the Father, by the power of the Incarnation itself was made Mediator between heaven and earth, between the Father and the human race. Wholly in accord with this mission, Christ remained throughout His whole life in the state of celibacy, which signified His total dedication to the service of God and men. This deep concern between celibacy and the priesthood of Christ is reflected in those whose fortune it is to share in the dignity and mission of the Mediator and eternal Priest; this sharing will be more perfect the freer the sacred minister is from the bonds of flesh and blood.[28]
  1. Jesus, who selected the first ministers of salvation, wished them to be introduced to the understanding of the “mysteries of the kingdom of heaven,”[29] but He also wished them to be coworkers with God under a very special title, and His ambassadors.[30] He called them friends and brethren,[31] for whom He consecrated Himself so that they might be consecrated in truth;[32] He promised a more than abundant recompense to anyone who should leave home, family, wife and children for the sake of the kingdom of God.[33] More than this, in words filled with mystery and hope, He also commended an even more perfect consecration[34] to the kingdom of heaven by means of celibacy, as a special gift.[35] The motive of this response to the divine call is the kingdom of heaven;[36] similarly, this very kingdom,[37] the Gospel[38] and the name of Christ[39] motivate those called by Jesus to undertake the work of the apostolate, freely accepting its burdens, that they may participate the more closely in His lot.
  1. To them this is the mystery of the newness of Christ, of all that He is and stands for; it is the sum of the highest ideals of the Gospel and of the kingdom; it is a particular manifestation of grace, which springs from the Paschal mystery of the Savior. This is what makes the choice of celibacy desirable and worthwhile to those called by our Lord Jesus. Thus they intend not only to participate in His priestly office, but also to share with Him His very condition of living
That is an excellent point right there. Furthermore, the Holy Father writes:
  1. This biblical and theological view associates our ministerial priesthood with the priesthood of Christ; the total and exclusive dedication of Christ to His mission of salvation provides reason and example for our assimilation to the form of charity and sacrifice proper to Christ our Savior. This vision seems to Us so profound and rich in truth, both speculative and practical, that We invite you, venerable brothers, and you, eager students of Christian doctrine and masters of the spiritual life, and all you priests who have gained a supernatural insight into your vocation, to persevere in the study of this vision, and to go deeply into the inner recesses and wealth of its reality. In this way, the bond between the priesthood and celibacy will more and more be seen as closely knit – as the mark of a heroic soul and the imperative call to unique and total love for Christ and His Church.
  1. “Laid hold of by Christ”[43] unto the complete abandonment of one’s entire self to Him, the priest takes on a closer likeness to Christ, even in the love with which the eternal Priest has loved the Church His Body and offered Himself entirely for her sake, in order to make her a glorious, holy and immaculate Spouse.[44]
The consecrated celibacy of the sacred ministers actually manifests the virginal love of Christ for the Church, and the virginal and supernatural fecundity of this marriage, by which the children of God are born, “not of blood, nor of the will of the flesh.”[45],[46]
Did Paul VI say it was going to be easy? No. Is marriage a cakewalk through life? No. But, each vocation (and, marriage is a vocation) brings with it joy and sorrow, but always with the grace of God.

To read the encyclical in its entirety, go to:

papalencyclicals.net/Paul06/p6sacerd.htm
 
There are a number of links around as to celibacy and the priesthood. It is an issue I ahve been involved with ever since I was in the seminary - which goes back to the 1960’s.

Rather than provide links, I will provide some thoughts. One is that too often, those who promote celibacy in the priesthood speak as if the Catholic Church was defined as the Roman Catholic Church; however, it is not the Roman Catholic Church, but rather, the Roman (or Latin) rite of the Catholic Church. Those who go down the path of reacting strongly in favor of celibacy seem to do two things: 1) they ignore the 2000 year tradition in the Church of married priests (the Eastern rites) and/or they 2) act as if it is an all or nothing question; either all priests are celibate (which they are not, to begin with) or the alternative is to throw out celibacy entirely. Neither postion is correct; one ignores the reality of history, and the other is a preposterous over-reaction.

Coupled with this is the reality that there are homosexual men in the priesthood. Saying that does not mean or imply that all are sexually active, only that there are men in the priesthood whose sexual identity and attraction is same sex. Some have been sexually active, some have not. There have been estimates that vary wildly; I have seen estimates published in papers and books (usually relating to the sexual abuse issues) of anywhere from 10% to as high as 80%; and most of it is simply speculation. For at least some men who have SSA, celibacy is perhaps a great gift, and perhaps one they would not like to see made optional (that is, by ordaining married men). But unless and until some valid research is done on the issue, we are left with speculation and not much more.

Celibacy is a calling, a vocation, and is separate from the priesthood; we have male celibates who take vows but are not ordained (we call them Brothers).

It might also be noted that there have been a few men who have requested and received laicization, married, their wife has died, and they have been returned to the active ministry (and not re-ordained; ordination is permanent).
I appreciate you taking the time to post this–really it was very helpful. (Links are not a must, but helpful too ha)

My next question then is–so when did celibacy for the “latin rite” come into existence, and why, if the history prior to was that married men could be ordained? I actually started a thread on this not too long ago. I should try to find it. Hmm.

My personal opinion is that I see the beautiful value of our priests being celibate, but it does beg the question of when this changed, and why.
 
Just some thoughts. How does a priest balance his duty to his parishioners with a duty to his family, wife…kids.
Considering that the Eatern rites ahve been dealing with this for 2000 years, I would suspect they may have information as to how it gets done. some thoughts: there seems to be a presumption that if one is a priest, one has to be stationed in a parish and be there 24-7. That is simply a presumption; not all priests today are in parishes, alsthough the great majority are. The same question could be asked about doctors, attorneys, cpa’s, business owners, mid level managers, teachers… the list ogoes on and on. Part of the presumption is that everyone else out there has a 40 hour work week; not true. Part of it is alos that the priest has to be at every meeting, all day every day. A pastor may need to be more available; and perhaps married priests would not all become pastors; but there is a presumption that everything has to be done by the priest. Some of it can be done by lay people; some can be done by deacons; and if there are more priests, some of it can be done by a fair division of the work load.
I can see a huge conflict with this. Non Catholic ministers do not have Sacraments to administer at odd hours that may be inconvenient to the minister but are important to Catholics.
the issue of sacraments at odd hours is not that much different than doctors with emergency surguries and “on call”. The issue always gets handled. Further, the number of times a priest is called out at odd hours is greatly exagerated.
How does the Church support these families of priests should priests be allowed to marry? These families would be the Church’s responsibility in a real sense. Celibate priests live in rectory as a general rule and that makes them available…or at least more so than if they would live in a normal private home with a private phone number. I like that and I hope the priest does too.
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Actually some of that depends on the diocese; in many areas, the rectories are empty or used for other purpsoes, and the priest lives in a private residence. As to support, perhaps those in the pews need to revist the issue of justice and obligation to support the Church; Catholics are notorious for being near or at the bottom of the rung in terms of giving.
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What I am saying here is that this brings on huge practical and financial problems for the Church that actually doesn’t solve a problem if I understand correctly that most priests are happy as celibates. /QUOTE] that issue of them being happy is perhaps a smoke screen to the issue; we are not talking so much about the ones ordained as the ones who would be ordained if the Church would allow them to be. So happy is not part of the equation. Further, huge practical and financial problems ignores the fact that we have married clergy in both the Eastern and Roman rites. We can deal with it now; I suspect we could deal with it in the future.
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If most priests want to be married and have children ok fine but standby as allowing priests to have families will force the Church to pay them enough money to allow a priest to raise that family and they ALL will have to be paid the same, married or single…its the law. When a priest’s wife becomes unhappy with Church life and wants her priest husband to leave…what do you think might happen? I have a good idea. That is why I think this change would be very harmful to the Church. Nothing is simple is it?🤷
Again, the issues you raise are already there. We have a married clergy. It also ignores the other side of the coin - what are we missing by not having priests who can also be good role models for others who are married. For every negative that someone can bring up, there are positives.
 
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