I think I feel the call, but I’m not sure, how can I tell?.
And if I do decide to, I would like to as soon as possible, soooooo:
- How do I become a priest?
First you enter into discernment with a spiritual director. Part of this discernment is to see whether you are called to religious priesthood or secular priesthood. Then you get in touch with a vocations director.
Minimum age for ordination to the priesthood is 25.
- How many years do I have to train?
You will need a bachelors degree for entry into a Major Seminary to work on the Masters of Divinity degree which is the required degree for ordination in the United States. This is a 4 year professional masters degree program. Most dioceses and religious communities add a pastoral year. So just for the education from the start it is 9 years if you do not have a bachelors degree.
Another requirement to be aware of is that you must have 30 credit hours of philosophy and 12 credit hours of theology to gain entry into an M.Div. program. So if you do not have a bachelors degree get it in philosophy with a minor in theology but make sure you work with a vocations director and the seminary you will end up in to make sure that all your credits will be accepted.
Now if you end up going into a religious community there may be more time as you may have to complete a year of pre-novitiate/postulancy and a year or two of novitiate.
For my community, the Order of Carmelites, we have a year or two pre-novitiate (this is provided you have a bachelors degree and need to work on the philosophy, you can not officially enter into our formation program until you are a junior in college anyways), a year of novitiate, 4 year M.Div. with a two year internship after the first year of the M.Div., that can make 9 years before ordination to the priesthood.
For a diocese, with out a bachelors degree, it could be just as long.
Don’t know where the 6 years idea came from above.
and most of all…
(Bonus Question

) How do I tell my parents, who expect me to go to West Point?
That’s one you will have to work out, maybe with the help of a spiritual director.