Yes, we should all seek celibacy. Some are not called to it and then should be married. It is holier to set oneself aside for God.
Again it doesn’t matter that some choose to take it like a job or fail in their vocation. That doesn’t change reality.
So what if I am a father and end up being a deadbeat that doesn’t change the definition of fatherhood.
We should look to the perfect example, not the failures as our models. We might fail but we should always strive for the more holy route, the more dedicated, difficult, faithful adherence to God first.
In Christ
Scylla
How can you say we should all seek celibacy? We should all seek to love God with all our heart, mind, and soul. If renouncing marriage achieves that, then shouldn’t everyone be asked to seek celibacy?
We are all called to serve God with all our heart, mind, and soul. Christian love of spouse and neighbor does not diminish our love of God with all our heart, mind, and soul.
We do not all have the same vocations, yet where are we told some are celibate and some are less holy?
1 Cor 12:27-31 "Now you are Christ’s body, and individually members of it. And God has appointed in the church, first apostles, second prophets, third teachers, then miracles, then gifts of healings, helps, administrations, various kinds of tongues. All are not apostles, are they? All are not prophets, are they? All are not teachers, are they? All are not workers of miracles, are they? All do not have gifts of healings, do they? All do not speak with tongues, do they? All do not interpret, do they?
But earnestly desire the greater gifts. And I show you a still more excellent way."
Of course we should look to the best examples.
Jesus Christ
Mary and Joseph: married
Moses, David, Abraham: all married
Michael
1 Tim 3:15, in context of 1 Tim 3:2 and 1 Tim 4:3