For diocesan priests, the pet question is a practical one. It’s not your house. It belongs to the parish. You can’t allow a pet to destroy it and you have to make sure that others want to share it with a pet. A rectory is like a frat house. Sometimes, these men are not even friends. They live very independent lives and they may not share the same love for the dog or cat.
In a religious house, the matter is a little different. It is your house, because the community owns it and you’re part of the community. Therefore, you have what I call “corporate rights”. However, because it is a corporate house, you also have to be attentive to the feelings and health requirements of others.
There is another glitch for religious. You can be transfered from Toledo, OH to Hong Kong on a moment’s notice. You have to make sure that the pet is going to be cared for. You can’t bring a pet into a house where no wants to care for it, but you. What happens when you have to leave for Hong Kong?
I lived in a house in a US city. We had a beautiful dog. There were two of us. We loved the dog. However, one day the superior stopped by and handed us each an envelope. I was being shipped to the Amazon and the other brother was being shipped to New Guinea. We had 30 days to get there.
Two brothers were coming in to take over the house and ministry. Well, lo and behold, one of the brothers coming in was asthmatic. We had 30 days to get everything ready to go and that included finding another home for the dog. Thirty days is not a long time when you have to get visas and passports ready, close off your account books, because you have to leave everything clear for the person coming in, call mom and tell her that you won’t be home on vacation for 10 years, because you’re going to the other side of the world and when everyone wants to say goodbye. This poor animal needs a new home. It’s not the superior’s problem to rehome the dog. The dog is not included in the assignment roster.
I now live with two cats and I worry about them too.
Fraternally,
Br. JR, OSF
