Hello Friends, a few comments about Women’s Reproductive Rights in light of my experience and my friends experience in the OB/Gyn office and at the hospital. We are Catholic women who don’t want to use contraception, are opposed to abortion and favor Natural Family Planning (charting our ovulation and abstaining from sex during fertile days if we have serious mental, physical or financial reasons to not get pregnant) and want a natural birth experience.
-OB/GYN professionals ridicule us when we dare to bring up the Natural Family Planning method. They are laughing at us, treating us like dummies.
-OB/GYN professionals push contraception and abortion on us. They especially push contraception on us 6 weeks after we have given birth to a baby and when we ask them why we should contracept, they are unable to give a rational or scientific reason. They push abortion on us especially when we are over 35 and at risk to have a genetically imperfect baby such as a Down Syndrome baby (by the way 90% of babies diagnosed with DS are aborted). Please note that the extermination of a genetically imperfect baby usually occurs in the second or third trimester because these disorders can’t be diagnosed for sure early in the pregnancy (this kind of abortion is very traumatic for both parents).
-We have to write a “birth plan” stating the procedures and meds that we refuse to receive during and after labor (I want a natural birth experience, no induced labor, no drugs). oh and yes if we go into labor early , we want them to resuscitate our baby if not breathing thank you (this is not to be taken for granted).
-I had to change OB/GYN doctors 3 times because they are all pro contraception/ pro aborts. The first one, 4 years ago, said he wanted to talk to me in his office without my husband. He said: “congratulations, you are 10 weeks pregnant. I want you to come back in 3 weeks to test you for such and such genetic disorder and if the tests are positive, then we will talk about an abortion”. Thanks but no thanks. (And one of his patients says that he is Catholic). Now I have to sign a waiver to refuse all prenatal screenings (let’s face it, the only goal of these tests is to give the option to terminate the pregnancy, not to cure a disease).
-The doc I have now is anti abortion but pro contraception (which I understand, it is such a lucrative business). I don’t trust him 100% because on my last pregnancy, he wanted to induce the labor before term against my will and for no medical reason. I was not sure if the vaginal exam wasn’t an inducing procedure (sweeping of the membranes as it is called). Please note that most induced labors end up in a C-section. Docs don’t cash much money with natural birth.
-In my area, there is one OB/GYN, faithful to Catholic Teachings who practices 100 miles away form my town, in a different State. Some of my friends go to her for yearly exams but she can’t follow up our pregnancies because of the distance.
A few questions:
Is there a silent population control agenda in this country? Is there an eugenic agenda? I am not the kind of “conspiracy theory” person but I have/know of so many experiences of this kind that I can’t help but wonder. Why do I feel discriminated against? Shouldn’t I be able to trust my doctor when I entrust him with my fertility, my health, the health of my babies?