Oh, sure. I have lots of stories about how things go with individuals.

That one was just a good example of one that was a more spectacular failure than some of the others. But I could tell you about the guy who burned down my house, or I could tell you about the guy who had no other expenses besides $65 rent and his phone bill, but still didn’t bother paying his electric or water, and they got cut off, and I’m about to go stick a note on his front door saying I’m coming by for an inspection. And he has 48 hours to give me proof they’ve been re-connected, or else our lease is terminated. Because even though he’s maintaining his job, and he has an aunt who promised me she’d keep on top of him (because he’s marginal), she obviously hasn’t been by to realize he’s more interested in being with his crazy pregnant girlfriend than in being a responsible young adult, going to work, paying his bills, and leaving a normal life.
And that’s why I keep giving people chances to succeed… because giving people the opportunity is more important than the money they end up costing me. But ultimately, my biz is a biz, rather than a charity subsidizing other people’s poor life decisions, and the people who do poorly with the opportunities presented will not only be responsible for themselves, but also for the people who missed out on opportunities because they burned the people who would be willing to give charity.
But ultimately, charity is what we do for our neighbors, for love of God. It’s not something we outsource to the government.
And that’s why I object to people saying, “The government ought to mentor people” or “Think of the good that can be done with $100 billion dollars!” How long has the War On Poverty been going on?
So instead of saying, “These people over here ought to do something about those people,” they need to look in the mirror and say, “What can I do, to make a difference for that one person who’s right in my backyard?”
It’s the difference between running off to Calcutta to join Mother Teresa, rather than dealing with the poor and vulnerable right in your home town.
Go do something today! Don’t wait for the government to throw money at it!

Don’t criticize the effectiveness of the government’s results… we should be criticizing our own efforts at outreach, whether it’s with our time, talent, or treasure.
