Problem marriage

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My husband and I are having a lot of difficulty. I love him very much. He is a wonderful man. But he feels incomplete…and has for some years now. He said recently that he feels as if he has a hole in his heart. He’s not sure if he wants to stay married. I’m so crushed. I don’t know what to do for him…or for us. Will you please pray that we find our way back to each other and repair our marriage? I can’t imagine life without him.
 
Offering up prayers for the both of you. May the Lord bless your marriage and repair his heart.
 
Loving God I implore you to help this husband to find a wholesome worthwhile hobby and interest that helps to meet whatever is lacking in his life. I also ask you to help his distressed wife recognize and know clearly what she can do to help him to fulfil his needs, along with all the necessary graces. Mother Mary please pray for the unity, happiness, and peace of this couple and this family.

Thank You, loving God
 
You need to find out what is causing the feeling of a “hole” in his heart. Something is missing from his life or is hurting him emotionally. He needs to identify it and then both of you can take steps together to deal with the situation. Please look into marriage counseling. Prayers for you both.
 
I must admit, I am not married so I can’t say I fully understand what he is going through but his feelings do sound a lot like mine. I always felt like something was missing, like I was searching for something. I could never figure out what it was. I tried filling that hole with material things, thinking that the next cool toy would make me happy. It did for a very brief time, but soon enough that searching feeling came back.
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 I only recently have started to feel some peace and true happiness. The cure for me was rededicating myself to God. Sure I went to Mass every week and was in confession on a regular basis. I thought I was doing everything I was supposed to, but still could not say I was really happy. There were a few sins that had become a habit. I started to really try to break free of these sins and in the process I have been praying The Rosary and The Chaplet of Divine Mercy more often. I also like the First Saturday Devotion. Also I spend time alone, just taking a walk and taking to God, I talk to him just like I would my best friend. I talk to him about my fears, hopes and worries. Slowly I have felt changes in myself, less worried and starting to find peace.
I will include both of you in my prayers. God Bless!

-Mark
 
Lord, vahomeschooler’s husband feels incomplete and like he has a hole in his heart because he needs you. May he and his wife pray together as a couple, visit adoration chapels together, and read the scriptures together as a couple. May they meet with a priest to help them get over their problem and find themselves happy again. Help this couple, Lord. They are in great need of your help. Thank you, Lord, for hearing my prayer. Amen.
 
vahomeschooler,

I’m sorry you and your husband are suffering.

I pray that God holds you close in the palm of his hand … providing encouragement which brings you closer together in your relationship/marriage.

Peace,
Kathleen
 
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