Yes, I agree there is a difference. I think the distinction theologically is the permissive will versus the active will.
That is, God’s active will was not involved in creating evil, but his permissive will allowed its possibility, and, once actualized, its continuity within creation. Since everything is dependent on god, even the existence of evil, then god maintains evil through his permissive will. This must be justified.
To me though, it proves how good God actually is.
The good is so good that he, a perfect being, would permit evil in a finite world to accomplish it, and no other way would work to obtain it. That is, the sum of this goodness is greater than god simply multiplying himself endlessly without us.
let us understand the Divine Will. God is perfect, his will by extension is perfect. Any number of perfect beings will all have an identical will. So the important feature of God is his will. So any judgments made must be in his frame of reference, and not our own.
Any alternatives to a human will that God created free would make us machines to him since evil can only exist from imperfection and choice. And if we are machines then any good we do cannot be owned by us. Just God’s will, which, while perfectly good, would make sin and evil impossible and would fundamentally deny the Human Will.
Since evil clearly does exist, we cannot be deterministic in such a manner as to erase free will. IF we believe God is perfect, then our will must actually be free. To God, our choice to deny or accept and deeply love the Divine Will must be wholly owned by us and it must be the central point of belief. (To love gods will in a manner akin to gods own love as best as can be done)
You either believe in God’s perfection, or you simply cannot believe in God at all. Though, this presents serious problems. For example, there is no absolute frame for good and evil in the absence of god which woefully undermines the supposed good intentions of the PoE argument in the humanist sense. Making it more or less an exercise in intellectual snobbery.
What is interesting to me is that God gives us this much dignity. That we are the arbiters of such a good but only if we embrace the Divine Will. This is a good that god cannot do without creating us the way we are.
So to me the choice really is. Do I believe in God, and in this essentially incredible divine purpose and goodness for us creatures? Or do I disbelieve in God or rather, believe in man and by consequent undermine the very basis for any dichotomy of value?
To me, it is the choice between diamonds and feces.