Problems w/ Atheism

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OK … well we’ll just have to disagree on that one :rolleyes:

great I agree. So then if gay people want to get married they can (since government will no longer be in the business of regulating marriage)?

the only natural law I see is men cannot reproduce? I don’t think marriage (a ceremony and social institution) can be logically called a natural law (under your logic) anymore than applying for a building permit can?
You are forgetting what the definition of marriage is. Marriage came from God. Read my last post. Gays can do whatever they want. But don’t try to steal a definition and make it something that its not.
 
I don’t think they should call it a marriage. That is changing the definition of marriage. That is why they call it civil unions… at least here in california. But marriage was something instituted by God. If you don’t believe in God, go call it something else, but don’t call it marriage. Cause its not marriage.
So do you also think that atheists shouldn’t be allowed to be married? What about people of religions other than Christianity?

I mean, whether you like it or not, there is a kind of marriage that is purely civil and not religious. You can’t pass laws that restrict it on the grounds of religion.

“I don’t like that you call it marriage because my religious belief leads me to conclude that that’s not real marriage” is obviously not an argument that’s going to work here.
 
I don’t think they should call it a marriage. That is changing the definition of marriage. That is why they call it civil unions… at least here in california. But marriage was something instituted by God. If you don’t believe in God, go call it something else, but don’t call it marriage. Cause its not marriage.
let me understand this … you think the church should be able to “trademark” the term marriage (and have copyright protection as a matter of law)? Or do you just think its merely wrong, but government has no business interfering in these sort of personal decisions (and you understand that in a free society, which respects individual rights, we have to occasionally grin and bear things we disagree with – like religion in my case)?
 
You are forgetting what the definition of marriage is. Marriage came from God. Read my last post. Gays can do whatever they want. But don’t try to steal a definition and make it something that its not.
Yeah but your claims are a fairy tale … that’s the problem. We know, factually speaking, the Adam and Eve narrative didn’t happen. We know all primates share a common ancestor, and in fact we have the skeletons of 14 different species of hominids to prove it.

What do you have? Primitive folklore and mythology no more compelling than the stories of Zeus or Odin (and in fact not even as interesting) :confused:
 
Whats the point of marriage to an athiest (I am going to use athiest as an example so we don’t get too far off topic)?
Is it the tax breaks? - I suggest just getting a civil union.
Is it the celebration? - You can celebrate all you want.
Is it the commitment? - You can commit without marriage.
Is it to get a hold of anothers bank account? - Why not just steal.
Is it to have sex? - I don’t think an athiest has any desire to wait.
Is it to become one flesh in union with God? - I doubt this is plausible.

Seems to me that you can do all these things without getting married.
 
Whats the point of marriage to an athiest (I am going to use athiest as an example so we don’t get too far off topic)?
Is it the tax breaks? - I suggest just getting a civil union.
Is it the celebration? - You can celebrate all you want.
Is it the commitment? - You can commit without marriage.
Is it to get a hold of anothers bank account? - Why not just steal.
Is it to have sex? - I don’t think an athiest has any desire to wait.
Is it to become one flesh in union with God? - I doubt this is plausible.

Seems to me that you can do all these things without getting married.
what was the point of marriage to the pre-Christian pagan Roman, or the ancient Chinaman?

Why do you feel like it’s any of your business anyway? Why should productive, law abiding, and decent adults have to ask you for permission to do anything, let alone something that harms no one & means a great deal to them?
 
what was the point of marriage to the pre-Christian pagan Roman, or the ancient Chinaman?
This question has no relevance. The way that one pagan viewed marriage over 2000 years ago doesn’t have anything to do with what marriage really is.
Why do you feel like it’s any of your business anyway? Why should productive, law abiding, and decent adults have to ask you for permission to do anything, let alone something that harms no one & means a great deal to them?
Now your just putting words in my mouth. Never said it was my business and never said they had to ask my permission.
 
This question has no relevance. The way that one pagan viewed marriage over 2000 years ago doesn’t have anything to do with what marriage really is.
You mean what you think marriage really is and ought to be.
 
You mean what you think marriage really is and ought to be.
Well, if the definition of marriage is not a verifiable, scientific and objective fact, then who are you to condemn what he thinks it ought to be? He believes that the definition of marriage is an absolute truth, while you have no dog in the fight, by your own admission.
 
You mean what you think marriage really is and ought to be.
It is necessary that you believe in God for this conversation to be worth while. This is going to go nowhere. In order for this conversation to work, we both need a basis in belief (the belief in God). Since we both don’t have that, this is not going to work.
 
Well, if the definition of marriage is not a verifiable, scientific and objective fact, then who are you to condemn what he thinks it ought to be? He believes that the definition of marriage is an absolute truth, while you have no dog in the fight, by your own admission.
So you want to rely on verifiable scientific evidence to define marriage, yet you ignore it when it comes to your religious faith? Just thought I’d point out the irony … but anyways, when I said I have no personal interest in the fight, I simply meant that I’m neither gay or religious. It doesn’t mean I’m not concerned about the issue to some degree.

When we deny a group a benefit given to other groups, we need to have a pretty darn good reason. The arguments I’ve heard so far from you folks aren’t even close to convincing. It seems to me you’re trying to force your religious views on the rest of us. Nevertheless I think we’ll eventually see this issue hit the Supreme Court, and the holding may very well be different than the 1972 case Baker v. Nelson (the last time the Supreme Court decided this issue).

Justice Kennedy was of course not on the Court; and here’ a preview of what you might expect (particularly with the addition of Sotomayor.

In the Romer case, the court considered a challenge to an amendment to the Colorado Constitution (approved by the state’s voters in 1992) that nullified local anti-discrimination protections for homosexuals and prohibited passage of any such anti-discrimination laws in the future. By a 6-3 vote, the court held that the Colorado amendment violated the 14th Amendment guarantee of equal protection. “A state cannot so deem a class of persons a stranger to its laws,” wrote Justice Anthony Kennedy in the majority opinion.
 
So you want to rely on verifiable scientific evidence to define marriage, yet you ignore it when it comes to your religious faith? Just thought I’d point out the irony … but anyways, when I said I have no personal interest in the fight, I simply meant that I’m neither gay or religious. It doesn’t mean I’m not concerned about the issue to some degree.

When we deny a group a benefit given to other groups, we need to have a pretty darn good reason. The arguments I’ve heard so far from you folks aren’t even close to convincing. It seems to me you’re trying to force your religious views on the rest of us. Nevertheless I think we’ll eventually see this issue hit the Supreme Court, and the holding may very well be different than the 1972 case Baker v. Nelson (the last time the Supreme Court decided this issue).

Justice Kennedy was of course not on the Court; and here’ a preview of what you might expect (particularly with the addition of Sotomayor.

In the Romer case, the court considered a challenge to an amendment to the Colorado Constitution (approved by the state’s voters in 1992) that nullified local anti-discrimination protections for homosexuals and prohibited passage of any such anti-discrimination laws in the future. By a 6-3 vote, the court held that the Colorado amendment violated the 14th Amendment guarantee of equal protection. “A state cannot so deem a class of persons a stranger to its laws,” wrote Justice Anthony Kennedy in the majority opinion.
What scientific evidence have I ignored? Or do you mean that I ignore the fact that there is no scientific evidence for God? Well, I don’t think the existence of God is a scientific matter. There are other forms of evidence besides scientific evidence. If you understand the court system, you should understand that. One form is testimony. Another is personal experience or anecdotal evidence. Merely because these are not scientific does not mean that they are not valid in an application that accepts them. Science defines for itself what methods of proof it will accept, just as courts do. And courts have a different definition of what is acceptable. So do religions. So does philosophy. You’re attempting to apply an inapplicable standard. You’re trying to frame the debate so that it’s impossible to win. It’s quite boring, to me. As a lawyer, I have to deal with non-scientific evidence being accepted all the time. In my profession, it can sentence one to death. So I’m not all that surprised that religions view it in a very similar way.
 
What scientific evidence have I ignored? Or do you mean that I ignore the fact that there is no scientific evidence for God? Well, I don’t think the existence of God is a scientific matter. There are other forms of evidence besides scientific evidence. If you understand the court system, you should understand that. One form is testimony. Another is personal experience or anecdotal evidence. Merely because these are not scientific does not mean that they are not valid in an application that accepts them. Science defines for itself what methods of proof it will accept, just as courts do. And courts have a different definition of what is acceptable. So do religions. So does philosophy. You’re attempting to apply an inapplicable standard. You’re trying to frame the debate so that it’s impossible to win. It’s quite boring, to me. As a lawyer, I have to deal with non-scientific evidence being accepted all the time. In my profession, it can sentence one to death. So I’m not all that surprised that religions view it in a very similar way.
I’m trying to frame the debate in a way that’s impossible to win? Ay … that’s the funniest one I’ve heard in a while :rolleyes:

I’m the one stuck arguing an invisible man doesn’t exist. How can I prove something invisible doesn’t exist to the ridiculous degree theists demand? I do believe it’s provable to a “reasonable” degree (but the key word of course is reasonable).

Nevertheless all the evidence supporting religion is hearsay (besides the anecdotal so called evidence you mentioned, which doesn’t prove anything in particular, since people from all religions – even non-Abrahamic faiths with no specific deity like Buddhism, claim personal experiences that usually amount to emotional hysteria). So But maybe I do apply an impossible standard to religion … I like to call it logic :confused:
 
Actually it’s double hearsay (if there’s a way to even legally define claims of a god-man rising from the dead taken from documents written a century after the alleged fact that are copies of copies upon yet more copies of the original, if there ever was an original).

When I point out all the parallels in comparative mythology (and all the earlier life-death-rebirth religions from the Hellenic and Egyptian worlds, the different mythological hero’s who were allegedly born to virgins, the Sumerian flood myth, and the numerous other parallels) you guys always say that doesn’t prove anything; but I thought of a neat analogy today.

What if there was a guy you know who said he was a member of the spaghetti monster religion, and he was trying to convince you to join. But you know the region he’s from was prone to bizarre myths. They had a lasagna religion, a manicotti religion, and a macaroni religion. You’re thinking, jokingly, it’s the pasta religion region, but you kindly tell your friend no, you’re already Catholic.

How does Christianity make anymore sense than this guys spaghetti monster religion?
 
I’m trying to frame the debate in a way that’s impossible to win? Ay … that’s the funniest one I’ve heard in a while :rolleyes:
Okay, so if you require that the evidence for God be scientific, then you claim it must be subject to testable, repeatable and falsifiable experimentation. We do not require this for many, many applications for discovering truth in our lives. The court system is only one example. I’m sure you can think of others.
I’m the one stuck arguing an invisible man doesn’t exist. How can I prove something invisible doesn’t exist to the ridiculous degree theists demand? I do believe it’s provable to a “reasonable” degree (but the key word of course is reasonable).
Why would you want to? No one has asked you to disprove God, have they? Why do you care about something you imagine is fictional? And why do you want to prove it to the believer? Shouldn’t you care about proving it to a disinterested third party? Are there any disinterested third parties? Why are you here arguing with believers? Do you think that people will discount their personal experience because of the system of evidence you wish to impose upon them? Maybe you want to change society so that you don’t have to deal with religious people? Well, why don’t you engage them and change their lives on a personal, face to face level, you know make a real difference in a positive way by demonstrating the non-existence of God? That sort of experience is what caused most of them to become religious in the first place.
Nevertheless all the evidence supporting religion is hearsay (besides the anecdotal so called evidence you mentioned…
No, it isn’t. First of all, “hearsay” is a term used in the legal profession to denote second hand information; it does not, in and of itself denote any lack of credibility or render the statements inadmissible. Rules have been developed in order to ensure that a reasonable degree of credibility can be attached to statements. If you cared to research any of the witness statements made by those in the early Church you may find that they are quite reasonable by today’s standards. Second, you forget corroborating historical accounts, which have not been shown to be any less reliable than historical accounts commonly accepted outside the “biblical” realm. Third, you forget archaeological evidence, which strongly supports Christian events in the same way it supports evolutionary science or secular historical study. Finally, you’ve established no legitimate judge who gets to decide what evidence is or is not admissible. You’ve simply deemed yourself judge. Well, plenty of other folks have too, and they’ve found the evidence compelling; and more importantly, they’ve felt a personal impact, which is at the heart and soul of what religion is about, anyway.
which doesn’t prove anything in particular, since people from all religions – even non-Abrahamic faiths with no specific deity like Buddhism, claim personal experiences that usually amount to emotional hysteria).
I’m not quite sure why you think Christians desire emotional hysteria, but most personal experience stories I’ve come across (and personally experienced) involve positively changed lives and the power of prayer or victory over addiction or depression in the same way that alcoholics have personal experiences in AA. And it should be no surprise if elements of truth are found in other religions (as Catholics admit to be so) if God exists and people are looking for Him.

Some folks think they are insulting religion when they compare it to a crutch for the weak. But we Christians have never denied this fact; we celebrate it. Jesus said, “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.” So at the end of the day, we can probably agree that religion is a crutch for the weak. The only difference between you and me is that I admit that I am weak.
 
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because your god doesn’t exist, so you’re basing our laws on fairy tales. Not only that but the institution of marriage long predates Judaism (which means it long predates Christianity)
False, marriage was institute by God with Adam and Eve. Find me a society that predates the first man and woman. Than we can talk.

FALSE. Adam was “:created” not earlier than 6000 ago. Indian and Chinese cultures are much older. As per Hindus, man existed millions of years ago. Marriage too is much older than your so called creation. Update your so called knowledge, then we might discuss. Period.
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what natural law?
w/o getting too far off topic heres the short version. 2 men cannot reproduce. So that violates natural law.

Oh, thanks for such a “fine” point. Without you telling I would not know. Hmmm. A virgin too cannot give birth, as it is against natural laws.
 
FALSE. Adam was “:created” not earlier than 6000 ago. Indian and Chinese cultures are much older. As per Hindus, man existed millions of years ago. Marriage too is much older than your so called creation. Update your so called knowledge, then we might discuss. Period.

Oh, thanks for such a “fine” point. Without you telling I would not know. Hmmm. A virgin too cannot give birth, as it is against natural laws.
I believe the point that he was trying to make is that marriage is a santifying bond between man and woman for the purpose of procreating in an environment fit for raising children.

p.s. We don’t know when Adam was created therefore stating that He was born 6000 years ago is wrong. Maybe it’s time to update your so called knowledge of Christianity.
 
Okay, so if you require that the evidence for God be scientific, then you claim it must be subject to testable, repeatable and falsifiable experimentation. We do not require this for many, many applications for discovering truth in our lives. The court system is only one example. I’m sure you can think of others.
That’s an absurd analogy. We know our court system is fairly effective because its been demonstrated. .
Why would you want to? No one has asked you to disprove God, have they? Why do you care about something you imagine is fictional? And why do you want to prove it to the believer? Shouldn’t you care about proving it to a disinterested third party? Are there any disinterested third parties? Why are you here arguing with believers? Do you think that people will discount their personal experience because of the system of evidence you wish to impose upon them? Maybe you want to change society so that you don’t have to deal with religious people? Well, why don’t you engage them and change their lives on a personal, face to face level, you know make a real difference in a positive way by demonstrating the non-existence of God? That sort of experience is what caused most of them to become religious in the first place.
Why do you guys care about spreading your nonsense all over the world? I claim the same right.
No, it isn’t. First of all, “hearsay” is a term used in the legal profession to denote second hand information;
copies of manuscripts aren’t second hand information? Hearsay is simply information someone gathers from another person regarding an event, condition, or thing they have no direct personal knowledge of. For instance, Paul in his letters said he encountered Christ on the road to Damascus. We don’t have an original letter from Paul, all we have are copies (actually copies of copies of yet more copies). This is classic hearsay.
it does not, in and of itself denote any lack of credibility or render the statements inadmissible. Rules have been developed in order to ensure that a reasonable degree of credibility can be attached to statements.
Yeah, they’re called the rules of evidence, and you need an exception for hearsay to be admissible. But I’m also not implying its valid to use American jurisprudence to judge the veracity of historical reports.
If you cared to research any of the witness statements made by those in the early Church you may find that they are quite reasonable by today’s standards.
I’ve researched them & compared it against contrary evidence and I’ve determined they’re not even close to reasonable.
Second, you forget corroborating historical accounts, which have not been shown to be any less reliable than historical accounts commonly accepted outside the “biblical” realm.
Corroberating accounts (like Josephus) show nothing more than a guy named Jesus probably existed. The only alleged eye witnesses to anything supernatural were his apostles. The only reports we have from them are writings dating a century after the fact. By that time there were all sorts of interpolations from Hellenic mythology.
Third, you forget archaeological evidence, which strongly supports Christian events in the same way it supports evolutionary science or secular historical study.
That’s absurd. There’s not a shred of archeological evidence that supports any supernatural claim made by the bible. In fact most of the evidence we do have debunks many of the claims made by the bible.
Finally, you’ve established no legitimate judge who gets to decide what evidence is or is not admissible. You’ve simply deemed yourself judge. Well, plenty of other folks have too, and they’ve found the evidence compelling; and more importantly, they’ve felt a personal impact, which is at the heart and soul of what religion is about, anyway.
There is an objective standard of reasonableness.
I’m not quite sure why you think Christians desire emotional hysteria,
I’m not quite sure either, since I didn’t infer Christians desire anything. I said reports of alleged god encounters and mystical prayer experiences amount to emotional hysteria.
but most personal experience stories I’ve come across (and personally experienced) involve positively changed lives and the power of prayer or victory over addiction or depression in the same way that alcoholics have personal experiences in AA. And it should be no surprise if elements of truth are found in other religions (as Catholics admit to be so) if God exists and people are looking for Him.
Yes, counseling has the same impact. The point is if people apply themselves and get involved with a regimented program designed to help them (and they stick it out) chances are good they will be helped.

Still doesn’t prove an invisible friend gave them a helping hand. This is stuff we tell ourselves, which along with some interplay by our subconscience helps us cope with stressors. My point is it’s no more real than Santa Claus or the tooth fairy (even though it makes us feel good & may even help us out sometimes).
Some folks think they are insulting religion when they compare it to a crutch for the weak. But we Christians have never denied this fact; we celebrate it. Jesus said, “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.” So at the end of the day, we can probably agree that religion is a crutch for the weak. The only difference between you and me is that I admit that I am weak.
I’m not much for the Nietzschean approach. We all have weak moments in life, and we all benefit from extrenious help.

My only point is religion is untrue by any “reasonable” standard.
 
Hey guys? What’d I miss? I skipped a lot of the gay marriage stuff, even though I am pro-gay marriage and all 😉

So, anyway, back to debating religion with the conservative Christian fellow…

Name one historical document other than the Bible that was written about him during his lifetime, or by his IMMEDIATE followers. The New Testament was written by “Second-Generation” Christians, the disciples of the apostles.

Can’t debate the Holy Spirit thing, as there is no evidence either supporting or disproving him/her/it. I even said, and you quoted it, it is a matter of faith.

By the comment on Heaven, I meant that there is no proof of heaven, so without citing it as a way people are saved, prove to me that ON THIS EARTH organized religion has saved more LIVES, as in ON EARTH, than it has taken, or damaged beyond hope of repair.

Hope my post is up-to-date in the debate and all, as I said, I didn’t read most of it…

Peace
 
I believe the point that he was trying to make is that marriage is a santifying bond between man and woman for the purpose of procreating in an environment fit for raising children.
That is Hindu thinking too. But marriage is just one aspect, but essential, of the order of a householder. This order places constraints, priveleges, obligations etc on a householder. Householders are the mainstay of a society. Weakening of this order is bound to weaken the societal fabric.

Gay relations do not provide new members, and as such fail on this count. They still can be economically productive and contribute. But Hinduism does not recognise gay relationsips as marriage. Period here.
p.s. We don’t know when Adam was created therefore stating that He was born 6000 years ago is wrong.
Yeah. Many xians are slowly coming around to this view. But there are still many more creationist xians, ranging from 6 thousanders to YEC crowd.
 
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