Are you being obtuse on purpose? If you’d like to make a claim about the 10th Amendment, then go ahead. Make it clear.
In the meantime, have you even read the ruling?
Indeed it is.
Indeed it is.
The license DOES benefit the couple. It’s intention is clearly coupled to its result. If you are claiming that a marriage license and “marriage” in general is not meant to benefit the couple in any way, then you are just denying the obvious. To understand this, try taking marriage away from, say, all your hetero neighbors. Tell them that they can no longer use the term in referring to their relationship and that they no longer can recognize the status and use it in any legal form. See what they say.
To pass the tests of the 14th amendment, who who rejects gay marriage (in American civil law) must be able to justify the telling of any individual person that he/she can marry a person of ONLY one gender–the one opposite to his/her own. In other words, if I were to divorce and then later apply for a marriage license with a male partner, we would both be denied ONLY on the grounds of gender (assuming that we also meet age and family-relatedness regulations). And IF one is going to deny legal marriage status ONLY on the grounds of gender, one must be very careful in this country to be fully justified in doing so. And that was the problem with the defense in the Prop 8 challenege case: the defense did a terrible job of justifying the exclusion. PLEASE READ THE RULING THAT I LINKED ABOVE.
IF there is an appeal (that is questionable at this point), the defense will have to do a much better job of defending the grounds on which the exclusion by gender is justified. Rightly so, this country is very suspicious of gender-based legal exclusions. Nearly all the other gender-based exclusions has fallen in court challenges; now marriage is facing the same challenge.
I expect that within 5 years, marriage will no longer exclude gays. I consider this change inevitable. Fourteen European nations already recognize gay marriage or the legal equivalent. So will the US. In time.