Firstly, I would like to say hello to all the posters here. This will be my first post here.
Now onto business…
I am baffled to near tears at all of the presuppositions and hidden premises that the opponents to same sex marriage have. For the time being I will throw a few things out and have you guys smoke this over:
- Almost all the arguments against same-sex marriage seem to have as an underlying principle some religious worldview. I understand and appreciate that a person’s religion informs their moral and social opinions, but it has NO place in secular government policy. There is reason why the non-christian or the nonreligious should accept any arguments which relies upon any religious metaphysic.
- The argument is advanced that same-sex couples should not have the right to marry because they cannot do the same things that heterosexual couples can do i.e. have children. Many straight people cannot have children for a variety of reasons, so should they be banned from marrying as well?
3.The definition that marriage is between one man and one woman is…a relatively recent innovation at best from Christianity. Worldwide, marriage has come in sundry combinations of polygyny and polyandry. An example of this is Islam where a man is allowed to have 4 wives provided he has the means to maintain such a household. How many of you would not consider those marriages valid and on what rational grounds?
Historically, marriages tended not to be about love and more about preserving wealth, securing peace treaties and preventing wars between tribes, and so forth. Even in the Bible the biblical patriarchs had anywhere from no spouses in the case of Jesus all the way up to the extraordinary case of Solomon who had 700 wives and 300 concubines. Were his marriages invalid? Why?
As an aside, do any of you think it is impossible for one person to love more than one person enough to want to marry all of the objects of his/her affection? I would point to something like the polyamorous society of the Denobulians from Star Trek: Enterprise as an example par excellence.
4.I hardly believe that anyone can prove that homosexuals are more promiscuous than heterosexuals. Even if that were true, that would actually be an argument FOR same sex marriage, as two people of the same sex have decided that this single person is the one for him/her. The would like legal protections that marriage grants in case their partners are hospitalized, incapacitated, or dies just like heterosexual couples do. In regards to diseases being spread from this promiscuity, there are plenty of heterosexuals with STD’s that they got from sleeping around with people without protection, or their partner who they thought was faithfully passed it on to them, etc.
- Incest is a complicated issue, so all I will say for now is that it is unclear how same-sex marriages being legal will lead to incestuous marriages being legal.
Given all of the points I listed above, on what rational basis should ANYONE accept the so-called “traditional” definition of marriage when the information supporting this definition is…problematic?
Lastly,setting aside the “traditional definition” for a moment, I would like to ask for the scientific arguments against same-sex marriage? If there are none, what is the basis of this discrimination if not religious or personal aversion?