Something occurred to me while reading the first part of the linked article quoted by kepha1 in post # 3. This part here :
is a good example how in a debate we can sometimes get locked into using someone elses limited terminology. In fact, no one
takes a sacrament. We *receive *a sacrament ; and/or
celebrate a sacrament.
We
take what we own or think we desrve; we
receive a gift. One might argue first off that the person lacks any real objectivity for their criticism since they have no subjective knowledge of the sacraments, and thus as kepha1 observes " whoever authored this trash has no clue as to what a sacrament is."
Now, have one more look - kepha1 says “
whoever authored this trash” and you Marc Anthony in the original post said, “…there is no reason *this person’s *interpretation of the Bible is any more valid…”
The Protestant you’re debating with doesn’t even identify “who” wrote the article and neither does the article itself identify “who” wrote the article. Maybe you could ask her if she can identify “who” actually wrote the article. The web site doesn’t provide a name.
It is unfortunate in debates with those who criticize us Catholics that we can’t find more things to agree on, but one sure-fire method of defusing an opponent’s argument is if you can dismantle their credibility. For this you need to go to the source - “who” wrote the article.
In the limited time I have available today , I noticed that someone named Robert Michael Zins seems to be the site’s/organization’s founder and that “…CWRC, A Christian Witness To Roman Catholicism, is a 501-C-3 entity working under the auspices of Reformed Bible Church of North Clarendon, Vermont, along with the guided care of an independent advisory board. There are also several Christian men who serve as consultants and as contributors to this ministry”
I would say someone among them - or a combination of them wrote the article. Perhaps you could ask your fellow debatee - a Christian, who obviously puts her religious trust in this entity of persons, why she would ever question your doing exactly the same with our holy Catholic Church. [It’s that same argument you stated in post#1 - just worded a little differently]
Finally, although they don’t call it that, you could probably get her to agree that the Baptism she herself
received is a sacrament:
Give the one line definition that a
sacrament is a sense perceptible sign which effects what it signifies.
Then when she admits being baptized, explain to her that this is also her definition - either that, or she believes that plain water in and of itself has a supernatural effect when we wash with it, rinse with it, or when we are immersed in it.
To emphasize the ignorance of the author(s) whose article link she sent, you might explain to her that you do not belong to the Roman Catholic Church; you belong to the Catholic Church - Roman Rite, and that in some of the various other eastern rites of the Catholic Church (in full communion with Rome), it is permissible for a married man to become a priest (but usually not a bishop) …
grigaitis.net/articles/immersion.html
What requires the most skill of all, is our approach - it cannot be like theirs : The objective is not to attack their faith (as they do ours), but to attack their attacks on our faith.